99% nothing wrong with you. There are people without legs and with Down scoring pussy and reproducing. You're just kinda lazy and decided to marinate in your self-loathing, but that should be rather easy to change.
Yeah because that's an achievement and a really high bar to set. Thanks bro I feel so much better about myself.
It's hard to escape the too far gone mindset when it's been in your psyche for so long. I think without serious help from someone else outside of me, I'm not sure how far I can make it.
Oh I know. And I'm really not looking forward to it at all.
I mean not to sound like I'm asking for sympathy (I'm genuinely not) or again Powerleveling. But I thought about suicide since I was like 11. So roughly 10 years I've been depressed
Then you need to stabilize your ass, and not with opiates, cause periodic withdrawals will depress you further. You need some meds to make you number, and to find something useful to do, like some job, sports/getting in shape.
No one's going to save you. And even if someone does lend you a helping hand, it's entirely useless unless YOU put in the effort yourself to action and maintain the assistance.
I was just wondering why you two aren't besties by now. You do need to work on your avuncular/kindly big bro delivery, though.
I'm glad to see you say this, because it means you know there are possible pathways to a better state of mind. Now, I had thought you said before you were against getting help, but if I got that wrong, good. I do think you said it was too expensive though -?
Yeah, it's a pretty dark website, but that's why I really like it. You can just say whatever pretty much. For the most part anyway.
Question for everyone, at what age is the "Turning point" (roughly speaking) where you could say "Alright this person is most likely fucked/wont change"
people from the Balkans are a different breed entirely in my opinion
Correct.
I am not.
It's going to be different for everyone, but for me, once someone is 40 I think they have lived long enough to just be too comfortable or stubborn in their mentality to make meaningful change (with out having something life altering or dramatic spurring them on).
Most people I've talked to said "If they're still an incel/lolcow/weirdo/psycho/alcoholic/drug addict/thug by the time they're 25, then it's likely permanent
I strongly disagree - I was so retarded at 25, even at 28 I was staggeringly close to becoming a woke sjw.
Sitting inside all day, drinking, doing edibles, Playing vidya or watching shitty uninspired Politics Youtube videos
I don't believe you're truly fucked unless you're actually too stupid or arrogant to try. 22 is so young anyways, if I had to give a cut off it wouldn't be until like 50 or older and I mean it. Even then it would be more about the individual's mindset and volition than their age alone. You're actually right around the age where it's completely normal to realize "holy shit, there are problems with how I think that I need to address." These are completely ordinary developments to be having in your 20s. You're not late, your life isn't over. You're right on time and you're on the right track.
I've also read posts expressing this as dooming from men of even younger ages about not being able to start a hobby, or a career, or get laid or whatever because they're somehow too old at as young as 19 so it's just joever for them. Frankly it all comes across as defeatist bullshit, a form of projection to justify one's own lack of effort and continued shortcomings by creating a narrative where things are no longer possible after a very early age. If I wanted to put on a tinfoil hat I'd say it was some targeted demoralization attack on young men, that's how wrong and dangerous this type of thinking is. So many young people are getting stuck on this myth that the world falls into your lap between the ages of 16 and 18, and that you're a failure who will never succeed if it didn't, but the truth is that it just doesn't work that way. Very few people are fortunate enough to have things figured out so early.
Completely normal activities to indulge, just start shrinking the time you spend on them. I'd cut the drugs out a lot more than the vidyas and videos, honestly. Numb your brain less and you might find that you start craving more than sedentary consumption. These things aren't really stopping you, there's no way they're so enthralling that you can't imagine wanting to set aside some time from them on something more constructive.
In the ground.
Your parent/s is/are not insured? And you do not work/have no option for employer-based insurance? What is the insurance marketplace like in your state - have you talked to them?
Girls have types. Some girls don't really have a defined type, but most of them do. Some girls like: sporty/jockish type dudes. (That doesn't automatically mean "Jerk" either, or anything about personality) Some like boyish, soft BTS looking men, others like burly luberjack lookin dudes with huge long beards. Or perhaps the viking aesthetic.
Like @Friend of Dorothy Parker, it's when you're dead. Even in my own life I've seen old fucks do complete 180s in their personalities. One of them was a complete shrew until her husband died. It wasn't dementia, she was just too loyal to leave him while he was alive, and he was a drunken asshole.
This.
