How do you tell the difference between actual creeps and dudes who are awkward/inexperienced around women?

[Lithuophile]

Inexperienced but well-meaning vs PUA with a history of pumping and dumping

 

[WhiskeyJack]

Just offer to have sex with them. If they jump for joy or look embarrassed and giddy with excitement, they're just awkward around women and can't believe their good luck.

If they flash a Cheshire grin or keep flirting without any appearance of relief or genuine happiness, then they're a creep who thinks they just scored another notch for their bedpost.

 

[AgendaPoster]

If they jump for joy or look embarrassed and giddy with excitement, they're just awkward around women and can't believe their good luck.

Such behavior is below the dignity of any self-respecting male and you won't see it unless you're dealing with some mentally ill autist.
Also, women randomly offering sex is not a thing unless they are terminally deathfats or have serious other issues.

 

[WhiskeyJack]

Such behavior is below the dignity of any self-respecting male and you won't see it unless you're dealing with some mentally ill autist.
Also, women randomly offering sex is not a thing unless they are terminally deathfats or have serious other issues.

The offer of sex is merely a test to see the reaction. You are testing for genuine emotional responses, versus someone hiding their response to appear cool or avoid scaring you off. You don't actually have to go through with it like some slut. Women have no trouble putting men through shit tests all the time, this is no different than that.

And an autist or a non self-respecting man is exactly who would be most likely awkward and inexperienced around women. It's literally locked into the question. If they were well adjusted socially or confident in themselves, they wouldn't be awkward or inexperienced.

 

[AgendaPoster]

The offer of sex is merely a test to see the reaction

No woman does that, you're thinking like a dude.
Women are 99% of the time scared that their reactions might suggest that they would be OK with sex having.
When sane women want sex, they'll just put you through their series of shittests and flirt. Women who are hardcore will just propose if they like you, but they are exceedingly few.
Women don't tease unknown men with sex, they are simply afraid they'll be taken seriously and of potential consequences.

 

[WhiskeyJack]

No woman does that, you're thinking like a dude.

Are you literally retarded? It's the answer to the question the thread is asking, nobody cares if you will actually do it or not. Offer a dude sex and see his response. It's the fastest way to tell the difference between an awkward guy and a creep who wants to pump and dump.

 

[Titty Figurine]

In real life? Somewhere between you've got to get to know them a little and just a vibe. The older they are the easier it is to tell apart, too. Nerdy slightly autistic guys who can't talk to women are way more common than sluthate types in the wild. Older incel/MGTOW guys are more toxic than the desperate PUA guys but they probably won't try to fuck you anyway, just act like they could but you have cooties. College guys trying to rack up a body count are more likely to use PUA tricks than incels.

Online? I'm sure I'm not the only True and Honest wahmen on here who spent some time skinwalking as a neckbeard just to avoid being an attention whore while talking shit and hoarding memes. Most of the incel types I've been around are just young guys who don't have the life experience to put pussy in perspective and they'll grow out of it, they're just channeling angst into anger with a tiddy fixation and they'll drop it the second the right girl crosses paths with them and thinks they're cute. A smaller percentage end up on the looksmax and lifting side and end up improving themselves to where it's not an issue and move on, way fewer are actually going to get themselves looking good enough to confidently try PUA shit on a random woman and still be a retard about it.

I just realized you said creeps, not incels, but the PUA vs well meaning autist part got me thinking about it. Most incels aren't really creeps in my experience, they're alright guys that got a little misguided. Creeps are creeps though, you'll know a gross creep when you find one even if he's outwardly attractive.

 

[Testacles Maximus]

Creeps burn a dark orange when you light them on fire, awkward dudes burn blue.

 

[BMO_]

Just offer to have sex with them. If they jump for joy or look embarrassed and giddy with excitement, they're just awkward around women and can't believe their good luck.

 

[CowPox]

It just takes time to know someone in a intimate way. Its pathetic and very revealing you don't know this. You have my pity etc.

 

[BPD Gunt Rider]

Looks.

 

[WTBOnlineFather]

You don't. Most women just think that if you're inexperienced, there has to be something wrong with you and that's creepy.

 

[FarmVille]

If you’re a man posting on the farms you’re already hopeless

 

[AgendaPoster]

If you’re a man posting on the farms you’re already hopeless

If you're a woman you're probably some tranny-obsessing fat lesbian, so glass houses and everything, eh?

 

[Pierre D'Olnique]

Creeps burn a dark orange when you light them on fire, awkward dudes burn blue.

Last time someone tried to immolate me I burned white. What does that mean? Or maybe it was the epsom salt I got coated with?

 

[SNU]

Be nice to them.

Awkward people who aren't creepy act oblivious. They have the mindset of "I don't want to assume anything. They are just being nice. It probably doesn't mean anything". They don't want to go around hitting on anyone who is nice to them. They'll ignore subtle signs of attraction. It's not autism, they pick up on the subtle signs. They just don't have the confidence to take a shot so they second guess the subtle hints and wait for more overt signs. When you're nice to them they won't really alter their behavior too much.

If you're nice to a creepy person they get weird and possessive. They still won't make a move but they'll dial up their "niceness" almost to the point it's too much.

The problem with this approach is that once you're nice to a creepy person it's hard to get rid of them

 

[deermeat]

The tone of their voice. Their body language. It's easy to tell when a man is either anxious or eager, especially if they have autism or something.

 

[A Crying Goblin]

A creep (for the most part) wouldn't be awkward around women because he doesn't give a fucking shit what they think. He might even be aroused by actively making them uncomfortable.

An autist isn't trying to make her uncomfortable, he just doesn't understand social etiquette, and cannot relate to other people properly. Thus he comes off as creepy, unintentionally.

 

[HyperboreanRightsActivist]

If you're a woman you're probably some tranny-obsessing fat lesbian, so glass houses and everything, eh?

Their boyfriends and husbands are redditors, so they don't have much ground to stand on

 

[S3y88]

depends if you are tall/short, good looking/ugly