Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

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Make this a priority.
This isn't a joke, it's much easier for men to lose weight and gain muscle than it is for women. It's not a meme, it's hormonal. You are stressing your body by staying overweight. There is no downside to losing the weight, only benefits.
Also there's a guy at my gym who's an ex-fat and he's a beast, so you'll be able to impress people with ex-fattystrength.
 
Make this a priority.
This isn't a joke, it's much easier for men to lose weight and gain muscle than it is for women. It's not a meme, it's hormonal. You are stressing your body by staying overweight. There is no downside to losing the weight, only benefits.
Also there's a guy at my gym who's an ex-fat and he's a beast, so you'll be able to impress people with ex-fattystrength.
Also don’t forget it gets your blood flow working properly. Aka your dick can work as intended @PikameeTeaKettle
 
I can't give proper advice unless i get the specifics very often men complain about single moms and baggage when they are themselves 35 + with similar baggage and essentially their dating pool will be same . Not to mention some places are slim pickings i:e rural and semi rural areas and often have lopsided demographics more men than women due to the more available jobs for men ( farming, lumber industry local plants) and sometimes larger towns where conservative culture of dating is prevalent and where divorce is less accepted .
Won't go into specifics but I'm under 30 but over 24, started my career at the end of 2022 and I live with roomates in the suburb of a smaller city, though the area itself isn't entirely podunk. All the girls I've ever hit it off with end up living hours away and I'm making that work to the best of my ability. Got a decent car and enough funds for some fun long weekends. None of the local girls I've talked to online have, well met my standards for various reasons. They're either completely fucking insane or turn out to be single moms and I reject them,
 
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Won't go into specifics but I'm under 30 but over 24, started my career at the end of 2022 and I live with roomates in the suburb of a smaller city, though the area itself isn't entirely podunk. All the girls I've ever hit it off with end up living hours away and I'm making that work to the best of my ability. Got a decent car and enough funds for some fun long weekends. None of the local girls I've talked to online have, well met my standards for various reasons. They're either completely fucking insane or turn out to be single moms and I reject them,
Give the single moms a chance but don’t let them use you as free babysitting.
 
Give the single moms a chance but don’t let them use you as free babysitting.
I'd rather die single than raise another man's child. Respectfully, we have very different life goals and philosophies and I can tell from that comment alone.

I'm also taken now but like I said earlier, it hasn't been easy and it's walking the fine line between "she has legitimate mental health issues that make her hard to date but she means well and is doing the best she can every day" and "this bitch is a crazy legbeard who isn't ready for a relationship". She's kind of gotten her shit together in the year or so that I've known her. I'm just trying to figure it out. She does live a ways away from me but we've made it work so far.

Looking back now, I think us kind of getting our shit together recently has been a pretty strong bonding point for us. I've just done a lot of self reflection on exactly what I attract and it really makes me think sometimes.
 
Go to a bar or a club. Meet single girls who also go there. Dating apps are full of crazy feminists and single mothers. I don't know why anyone expects anything other than a ton of rejection and the odd casual hookup with an unhinged bitch.
 
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Won't go into specifics but I'm under 30 but over 24, started my career at the end of 2022 and I live with roomates in the suburb of a smaller city, though the area itself isn't entirely podunk. All the girls I've ever hit it off with end up living hours away and I'm making that work to the best of my ability. Got a decent car and enough funds for some fun long weekends. None of the local girls I've talked to online have, well met my standards for various reasons. They're either completely fucking insane or turn out to be single moms and I reject them,
Meh no real assets live with roomates plus getting chicks online. Get hobbies usually women are in yoga, zumba , crafts . But i doubt women will like you especially those who are childless the biggest turn off is incel mindset i would rather die than raise another mans child seeps through you and women can see it and i have rejected men with far better financial position than you once they mentioned single moms thing. Not to mention gaming as a hobby unless you have other hobbies . Either move near a bughive where gender ratio is more beneficial to men or give single moms a chance because plenty of those women just want someone to bang over the weekend when the kiddo is at dads/ grandma and have nice dates where they have fun. Or date older women who have their shit ie house career together but look someone to have family with .

Good luck .
 
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I'm also taken now but like I said earlier, it hasn't been easy and it's walking the fine line between "she has legitimate mental health issues that make her hard to date but she means well and is doing the best she can every day" and "this bitch is a crazy legbeard who isn't ready for a relationship".
One of the biggest inhibitors to modern dating and gender relations is the prevalence of mental illness, particularly in females, although that's not to say a lot of men aren't mentally ill too. In the age bracket you described (basically very late millennial to zoomers) something like forty percent or so of females have some sort of mental illness now. It's gotten to the point where, depending on your location and demographic, not being mentally ill is actually a very harsh requirement and will filter out a large portion of your dating pool.

I wouldn't bother giving single mothers a chance if you become single in the future at your age. You can do better. They have way too much baggage and there's no upside to it at all. Unless you just want desperate older woman sex, than I guess it's cool.
 
One of the biggest inhibitors to modern dating and gender relations is the prevalence of mental illness, particularly in females, although that's not to say a lot of men aren't mentally ill too. In the age bracket you described (basically very late millennial to zoomers) something like forty percent or so of females have some sort of mental illness now. It's gotten to the point where, depending on your location and demographic, not being mentally ill is actually a very harsh requirement and will filter out a large portion of your dating pool.

I wouldn't bother giving single mothers a chance if you become single in the future at your age. You can do better. They have way too much baggage and there's no upside to it at all. Unless you just want desperate older woman sex, than I guess it's cool.
Some mental illnesses are workable while others are an automatic no-go. I don't fuck with cluster B's at all, no exceptions. That's as big of a disqualifier as being a single mom for me.

Depression and PTSD can be redeemable though.
 
How do you all feel about c-sections vs natural birth? Any moms that went thru one or the other?
One mom-based website said they all regretted c-sections it was worse than normal birthing, but you know I heard many, many horror stories about natural birthing too.
Edit; Guys can answer too if you have an opinion on it or had a wife/gf go thru with it
C-section should be avoided unless necessary because a natural birth is healthier for the child.
 
How do you make friends with women or get to know women without coming off as a creep when you have no experience whatsoever? I’m 23 and have never been in a relationship, and can count the number of female friends I’ve had on one hand, and the number of friends overall on two. I’ve always been too busy focusing on other stuff, or so insecure that I have never bothered to try.
 
well lets see what single women say

lose the fucking anime loli avatar nigga gives the wrong vibes also write hobies and interests
I do homebrewing (beer and mead mainly). And while I do appreciate your advice, I'm gonna keep the Pikamee pfp. It's less of a loli thing, and more of a "I see what troons and their allies will do to someone who so much as breathes a different way than what they want".
Are you asking to be made fun of?
If the answers help, yes.
How do you make friends with women or get to know women without coming off as a creep when you have no experience whatsoever? I’m 23 and have never been in a relationship, and can count the number of female friends I’ve had on one hand, and the number of friends overall on two. I’ve always been too busy focusing on other stuff, or so insecure that I have never bothered to try.
Just treat em as you would a guy friend, and autistically sperg about random stuff.
 
How do you make friends with women or get to know women without coming off as a creep when you have no experience whatsoever? I’m 23 and have never been in a relationship, and can count the number of female friends I’ve had on one hand, and the number of friends overall on two. I’ve always been too busy focusing on other stuff, or so insecure that I have never bothered to try.
When all else fails:
 
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