Well, I'll tell you what I like in a man. Here goes:
1. Blond hair. (Although I did not marry a man with blond hair.)
2. I do like the way men naturally smell... with a caveat. Some of them will be catnip to me, others I might find somewhat repellent cause those MHC Class II receptors are just not matching the ligand, baby. (And a little goes a long way...)
3. I like how their shoulders and arms look. I also admire their backs, chest, legs, and butt. Very jacked, at least compared to women. I don't really like watching football, but if by some reason I am watching it, I am ogling the muscle on display. Olympic swimming and diving, ditto.
4. Bonus points for long hair. And yes, even old guy ponytails seem to do the trick.
But as for what "women see in men"... idk where you're going with this. Males and females of our species are co-operative. You can't really have one without the other, we're partners in survival. So that women "see something" or feel or are motivated to like men is more of a biological imperative than a choice. And when MRAs and other sexists start talking about "miniskirt power" or complain about the deceptiveness of makeup or other ways they feel subconsciously and involuntarily attracted to certain women, this same biological imperative is on display.
Now, I don't begrudge men for being attractive to me. Like I said, men and women are in the same boat. We survive or we die, that's life.