What do women see in men?

Major said:
I only ask because I've spent my whole life in a state of permenant confusion about everything all the time. No one ever seems to just lay it out in simple terms
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I'm so sorry, because sadly, there aren't as many simplified answers here. The same goes for what a man wants in a woman: an average household with a wife who laughs at his jokes and they both work and have kids? A more traditional set up because he wants to raise a family well and is looking to getting a job that can support a nice mom homeschooling 2 or more kids because they both agree on the same ideals? A mom-girlfriend, who does housework and brings in cash while he streams on twitch all day? A dominatrix? Does he like tattoos on chicks or dislike them - or just some uglier tattoos? Big bobs or big butt or both or neither? Cute upturned nose or Cleopatra nose? How tall or wide does he like his girls compared to him?

I regret to inform you that while individual humans can be simple, they aren't always simple. Finding a date is hard because what people want can change over time, be overly narrow or overly wide, and can pick things both good and bad for them. Some humans are simple, some are complex, all together there's no laying out a flat answer. The best you might get is a few categorizations of popular likes and dislikes in physical and or other aspects of attraction.
 
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Major said:
I know it sounds moronic but I've never been able to understand what, specifically, womn find attractive in (most) men.
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Messages to reaction score ratio.

At 1:5, cashiers will be extra cheerful and try to make small talk. At 1:10, you'll often notice women playing with their hair and biting their lip during casual conversation. At 1:15, you'll regularly start turning heads when walking down the street. I can only imagine what an absolute pussy magnet one becomes at 1:20.
 
Party Pizza said:
You must have have one of the three:

be funny, be handsome, or be successful.

Of course having 2/3 help immensely, but at least one is enough to compel a woman’s company.
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There’s this Ming-era Chinese novel that stipulates what might make someone good at getting women, and I remember that one of the surprising items on the list was spare time. If you have a bunch of disposable time to spend looking for tail, you might just get it. Even if you aren’t young, handsome, rich, or powerful. Get that Confucian grind set boys.
 
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The first thing they notice is the bulge in your pants, if its obvious and pronounced they find it undesirable. And by this i of course mean your wallet etc.
 
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I think a lot of men who feel at they're average or ugly, don't realize that a genuine smile can really transform a face.

A 4/10 resting face can turn into a 7/10 easy if the smile is real.

And that's also brings me back to a point of why lot of women are attracted to a guy who can make them laugh. That type of guy is also going to be someone who smiles a lot more. So even if he's ugly, they're gonna be seeing that 7/10 smile almost as often as the 4/10 resting face.
 
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LimeRikki said:
I think a lot of men who feel at they're average or ugly, don't realize that a genuine smile can really transform a face.

A 4/10 resting face can turn into a 7/10 easy if the smile is real.

And that's also brings me back to a point of why lot of women are attracted to a guy who can make them laugh. That type of guy is also going to be someone who smiles a lot more. So even if he's ugly, they're gonna be seeing that 7/10 smile almost as often as the 4/10 resting face.
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My face is at a near permanent scowl and resting bitch face. I am doomed, DOOMED!
 
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The number one thing?

Don't be an abusive cunt.

Been there, done that, got the therapy for PTSD to prove it. He was a cunt of the highest order.

Met my husband over a year later. He's kind, he's funny, we like the same shit but have hobbies unique to us. He looks after me and our kids, and took over when I was severely ill.

In his own words, he's a bit of an arsehole, but only to anyone who fucks off the people he loves.

Also, farts are hilarious, especially the ones that sound like a question with the little high pitched toot at the end.
 
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AMHOLIO said:
The secret is that a lot of women on kiwi farms don't care to engage in something where if they say something, they're worried that they'll be dismissed entirely. It's the same reason most men don't enter the "man hate thread": why engage with a population who probably made up their mind and even the most honest answer would be made fun of? Thus you get genuine autistics, genuine mercenaries, and genuine trolls, with a few genuine normal responses.
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Yeah, It’s true that people won’t want to engage with people who won’t listen to them. I’m a man who has posted in the man hate thread, and while I don’t agree with everything posted there I know that I don’t have to change their mind. I don’t agree with women who believe that men are incapable of love or emotional connection with women. Because I try my hardest to do those things. It hurts when I see women say that men are evil and can’t change. But I acknowledge that women have the right to that opinion, it’s not unreasonable. I agree that a lot of men are terrible. I don’t really know what point I’m trying to make anymore.
 
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