...much of the fault lies with his grandmother, Tennyson Center, and Bob Proctor...
I know that none of us are psychologists, but the problem with Daniel is that he's dangerously gullible and violent. Now, whether or not it comes form his upbringing or his disabilities is debatable, but I'd argue that no one taught Daniel to be as gullible as he is. It could also be argued that they're at fault for feeding his delusions, but after hearing some conversations that Daniel's had with Bob, it sounds like they do this so that Daniel won't go off the rail and hurt himself or others.
Daniel is one of the most violent cows on here, and all it takes is a simple misunderstanding for him to begin hitting himself and punching holes in the walls. Someone this prone to extreme violence is someone that only professionals are able to mentor and discipline. Obviously, none of Daniel's caretakers were (or at least to the extent that Daniel required). You need to take meds for this kind of stuff, but because Daniel is an adult, he has the right to refuse them. Personally, I think that it's easy to blame his enablers, but with so many people on here that are similar to Daniel, I begin to think that a lot of these behavioral patterns are more due to the persons disabilities.
The system seems to fail when it comes to people like Daniel.
I don't know what can be done for people like Daniel. I feel that he, like many other cows, only listen to and take in what they want to hear. You can nail it into his head that there is no real Grace trying to date him a million times, but the problem is that he
wants to believe, and you can't teach people what they should or shouldn't want. I think that you're right to have doubts about how delusional he really is, he
wants to live in the reality where he's a famous singer-songwriter dating his dream
girl woman. This kind of delusion makes it hard for anyone or any system to help him in any way because I doubt he would retain anything useful or helpful.