Pick-me women / #NotLikeTheOtherGirls General

Is the contempt for pickmes because they’re possibly lying about who they are in order to deceive men, or is it because they try to change who they are to attract a man, and that’s unacceptable?

Do you think women can just ‘enjoy’ behaviors typically labeled as pickme things, or are they always lying to themselves and/or others?
I am disgusted by them because they pervert something which should be perfect, the relationship between people which is forever in danger of being poisoned by these "people".
The damage they do to how people perceive authenticity is the true evil I think, they're like the sterilized mosquitos released into the breeding population except we get not!realhumans instead of just empty egg cartons.
I suppose they could earnestly enjoy the behaviours though but I wouldn't know I can't emphasize with it.
 
Is the contempt for pickmes because they’re possibly lying about who they are in order to deceive men, or is it because they try to change who they are to attract a man, and that’s unacceptable?
My understanding is it's basically simp but for girls. I've only heard women use it to disparage other women. A girl who changes her personality to match who she's trying to sleep with or appeal to those desperate enough to sleep with her.

I could be wrong I'm not very tapped in on that whole scene.
 
My understanding is it's basically simp but for girls. I've only heard women use it to disparage other women. A girl who changes her personality to match who she's trying to sleep with or appeal to those desperate enough to sleep with her.

I could be wrong I'm not very tapped in on that whole scene.
There's a major misconception that women that criticize pick-mes do it because those women are "stepping out of the line" by enjoying masculine things, getting along with guys better than them or by just being a tomboy, when that's not really the issue.

In fact, supporting masculine/tomboy/butch or just gender nonconforming women tends to encouraged in female spheres, especially in present time given that troons target these groups in particular to join their cult.

The issue with pick-mes is that they are directly putting down other women to make themselves look better, whether it's because they don't feel connection with other female peers, want to make themselves more appealing to men or some combo of both.

Hell, I'd even argue that the "not like other girls" classic pick-mes from 20 years ago were harmless compared to the modern day one which basically are "I am dumb stupid woman and I am inferior to men, men are better than us stupid emotional women" like Pearl, Shoe, Candance and any OFthot to Cathotlic pipeline chick.
 
My understanding is it's basically simp but for girls. I've only heard women use it to disparage other women. A girl who changes her personality to match who she's trying to sleep with or appeal to those desperate enough to sleep with her.

I could be wrong I'm not very tapped in on that whole scene.
It's way worse than being a simp because it makes sense for men to be the ones who have to work hard to get a woman's attention and affection. Women are the selectors. A woman who has to work hard for dick, something that is in high supply and low demand, signals that she is of low value. Such low value that she has to beg for something that most women constantly reject.

It's a strategy only used by women who either have an extremely low self esteem and overdosed on internet incel content or who need more male validation than the average woman already gets naturally, that kind of woman will NEVER be satisfied with getting attention from only one man btw. Just as a warning.
 
he issue with pick-mes is that they are directly putting down other women to make themselves look better, whether it's because they don't feel connection with other female peers, want to make themselves more appealing to men or some combo of both.
Putting down other women? We literally aren't. What is this shit? We don't care about other women. We just autistically care about our hobbies and if it gets us dick, it is what it is. If you get mad, that's on you.
 
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Imagine self identifying as a pick-me lol
 
I don’t see anything wrong with the 1st and 4th ones. Good on the 1st one for prioritizing her child and having a family (arguably the most fulfilling thing you can do in life).

The 4th one doesn’t trust the state to educate her kids and stopped wasting her time with frivolous bullshit. Maybe I’m missing something but if they’re pick-mes, literally every reproductive woman is a pick-me.
 
I don’t see anything wrong with the 1st and 4th ones. Good on the 1st one for prioritizing her child and having a family (arguably the most fulfilling thing you can do I life).

The 4th one doesn’t trust the state to educate her kids and stopped wasting her time with frivolous bullshit. Maybe I’m missing something but if they’re pick-mes, literally every reproductive woman is a pick-me.
First one just seems to be humble bragging but having a kid in your late thirties isn’t advisable for a number of reasons.

Fourth one automatically the nose piercing threw me off. Good on reading labels on food and not trusting the school system but the fifth one describes the fourth one. It’s a catty mosh pit!
 
I don’t see anything wrong with the 1st and 4th ones. Good on the 1st one for prioritizing her child and having a family (arguably the most fulfilling thing you can do I life).

The 4th one doesn’t trust the state to educate her kids and stopped wasting her time with frivolous bullshit. Maybe I’m missing something but if they’re pick-mes, literally every reproductive woman is a pick-me.
The 4th one is the kind of woman whose kids don't have even basic reading and writing skills as adults due the "homeschooling" they received.

If these women were actually fulfilled with having kids and their lifestyle, they wouldn't need to constantly shout it on the internet. Guarentee when the cameras are off these women are ignoring their kids at best.
 
I don’t see anything wrong with the 1st and 4th ones.
The first one is race mixing with a white guy. Obviously bad. This world doesn't need more hapa spergs.
The fourth woman (with the nose ring, lol) is trying to be a quirky conspiracy theorist pick-me, like the black woman in the second image.
 
The first one is race mixing with a white guy. Obviously bad. This world doesn't need more hapa spergs.
The fourth woman (with the nose ring, lol) is trying to be a quirky conspiracy theorist pick-me, like the black woman in the second image.
Funny that hapas are the craziest half-breeds compared to literally anything else.

I’m pretty sure the second woman is white it’s just the lighting from the sunset that makes it hard to tell, and you can’t really see the nose.
 
Pregnancy, especially repeated pregnancies close together, is rough on your teeth since it leeches calcium from your bones. There used to be an old saying that you lost a tooth for every kid you had.

Alternatively the moid knocked her teeth out, both are possible with tradscrotes.
Yeah your gums start to bleed and sometimes during labor women can clench their teeth so hard as to fracture them.
it's not about the things they like or who they are. it's about them proudly boasting how they're not like other girls, those other girls are so dumb. it's their shitty attitude, where they shit on other women because they think that's what guys want. like, whatever, have whatever hobbies you want, more power to you, but don't proceed to act like you're hot shit and put down other girls for not having whatever 'masculine' interests you have.
Yes, exactly. These girls see men objectifying and belittling other women, so pick-mes believe that if they join in with the guys on this casual misogyny and mimick it, the men in her life will give her privileged status with them. So you get women undercutting other women to get ahead under prevailing sexist headwinds.

P.S. Oh also pick-mes are pretty suggestible and willing to agree with dumb moid conspiracies and social media misinformation campaigns if it lands them a man.
 
There is a pick-me in my extended family and it drives me absolutely bonkers every time I have to hang out with her. Last time she advocated for 16 year old girls marrying grown men (she loves Matt Walsh) because "that's what they used to do in the past and they had so many kids!" and she is constantly shit talking other women, even her own friends. I don't want to fight with family so I just don't say anything and just grit my teeth. Ofc she is well past 30 and unpicked.
 
There is a pick-me in my extended family and it drives me absolutely bonkers every time I have to hang out with her. Last time she advocated for 16 year old girls marrying grown men (she loves Matt Walsh) because "that's what they used to do in the past and they had so many kids!" and she is constantly shit talking other women, even her own friends. I don't want to fight with family so I just don't say anything and just grit my teeth. Ofc she is well past 30 and unpicked.
I hope she stays unpicked if she thinks there's nothing wrong with grown men marrying 16 year-olds. People like that don't need daughters.
 
There is a pick-me in my extended family and it drives me absolutely bonkers every time I have to hang out with her. Last time she advocated for 16 year old girls marrying grown men (she loves Matt Walsh) because "that's what they used to do in the past and they had so many kids!" and she is constantly shit talking other women, even her own friends. I don't want to fight with family so I just don't say anything and just grit my teeth. Ofc she is well past 30 and unpicked.
I hope she stays unpicked if she thinks there's nothing wrong with grown men marrying 16 year-olds. People like that don't need daughters.
I assume she’s willing to offer a dowry if that’s the case. She sounds really Gypsy like.
 
There is a pick-me in my extended family and it drives me absolutely bonkers every time I have to hang out with her. Last time she advocated for 16 year old girls marrying grown men (she loves Matt Walsh) because "that's what they used to do in the past and they had so many kids!" and she is constantly shit talking other women, even her own friends. I don't want to fight with family so I just don't say anything and just grit my teeth. Ofc she is well past 30 and unpicked.
So, like, does she wish she got married off at 16? Sounds almost like she failed at getting settled down and thinks her life would've turned out better if she had never been given a choice. The shit-talking literally every other woman she knows sounds like bitterness.
 
So, like, does she wish she got married off at 16? Sounds almost like she failed at getting settled down and thinks her life would've turned out better if she had never been given a choice. The shit-talking literally every other woman she knows sounds like bitterness.
Does No Eggs apply or is that too harsh?
 
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