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- Jan 19, 2020
The sentence "AND I injured myself cleaning shit up for her" really sticks out at me. The other accusations leveled against the guy seem pretty grounded, but Lily also felt a need to clarify that she has been personally aggrieved and tacitly imply that it's Mikaila's fault (she isn't helping Mikaila clean out the house, Lily's cleaning it out for her.
Two points:
1. Did Lily know this was happening yet still drag her feet on getting Mikaila a green card? If she was aware that Mikaila was in such squalor why wasn't she doing everything in her power to get her to Canada? I brought this up before but your spouse can legally live with you while they're going through the immigration process, you don't have to leave them in another country while you wait.
2. Mikaila was living here, which means she didn't do anything to stop this.
I am aware that Mikaila has a history of mutually abusive relationships and that being with Lily has been conditioning her to be a doormat in order to avoid being 'the bad one'. I am also aware that things add up until one day you turn around, youo're ankle-deep in trash, and it's all so overwhelming that you don't know where to start and you just wind up trapped in a cycle of helplessness. But it still begs the question of how she let it get so bad. Would she have done anything if Lily wasn't already slated to fly down for Valentine's Week? I don't want to victim blame but there were two people involved in this.
3. I know I said two.
But this also seems really weird how Lily been acting through the week. Like 'lol my wife's dick tastes good' (that fucking sentence), 'we're going out for Valentine's Day movie', uwu so cute and only after somebody blows up at her does she post the pictures and express her indignation. If I walked in on a loved one living like this you can bet your ass I'd be furious and telling it to anybody who would listen. Given how Lily posts so much bullshit to social media it's hard to believe that she would restrain herself against badmouthing a man she already loathed.
This is just... weird. The situation feels weird.
Two points:
1. Did Lily know this was happening yet still drag her feet on getting Mikaila a green card? If she was aware that Mikaila was in such squalor why wasn't she doing everything in her power to get her to Canada? I brought this up before but your spouse can legally live with you while they're going through the immigration process, you don't have to leave them in another country while you wait.
2. Mikaila was living here, which means she didn't do anything to stop this.
I am aware that Mikaila has a history of mutually abusive relationships and that being with Lily has been conditioning her to be a doormat in order to avoid being 'the bad one'. I am also aware that things add up until one day you turn around, youo're ankle-deep in trash, and it's all so overwhelming that you don't know where to start and you just wind up trapped in a cycle of helplessness. But it still begs the question of how she let it get so bad. Would she have done anything if Lily wasn't already slated to fly down for Valentine's Week? I don't want to victim blame but there were two people involved in this.
3. I know I said two.
But this also seems really weird how Lily been acting through the week. Like 'lol my wife's dick tastes good' (that fucking sentence), 'we're going out for Valentine's Day movie', uwu so cute and only after somebody blows up at her does she post the pictures and express her indignation. If I walked in on a loved one living like this you can bet your ass I'd be furious and telling it to anybody who would listen. Given how Lily posts so much bullshit to social media it's hard to believe that she would restrain herself against badmouthing a man she already loathed.
This is just... weird. The situation feels weird.