Fat Acceptance Movement / Fat Girlcows

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Let's see it in motion
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Nothing screams I’m a strong, confident woman like nervously adjusting your ill-fitted lingerie while staring gape-mouthed into a camera for a public video posted on the internet.

That bra is digging into her shoulders while also somehow not at all supporting her breasts, those panties need a good inch more fabric on both sides, and so do the straps on the thigh high stockings. Understanding these poor people of size are so hated and abused that shitlord clothing designers all conspire together to refuse to make garments that fit them : Lizzo makes these clothes? And they still don’t fit.

Either it is the unstoppable systematic oppression of fat bodies in the modern world something something queer racism holding back woke designers from success or, as we all already know, sizing up clothing to fit the lumps and dips of these sacred fat bodies isn’t as simple as they think, which leads to….this.

Even fat people can’t make flattering clothes for fat people, so let’s all pretend sagging and squishing is cute now! Winning by changing the rules of the game, throwing a fit to end it early, and brainwashing the audience into believing your version has always been the right version is still winning!

 

[Frances Kiwi Farmer]

Didn't see this upthread and apologies if I'm late, but here's the official trailer for YOUR FAT FRIEND, a film by Jeanie Finlay.

At least based on the trailer, seems like a parade of HAES/BoPo greatest hits. ("The wellness industry is worth $4.5 trillion." Ok, now do fast food + junk food + restaurant industries.) They really need to come up with some new material. This quote did stick out to me: "The strongest bonding amongst women is when people are talking about how much they hate their bodies." I have some sympathy for how mentally ill these people are, but it's so pathetic that someone believes this enough to say it in a movie, as if it's some profound truth. It's like they're trying to be the living embodiment of all the things incel/manosphere dudes think about women.

 

[GenociderSyo]

 

[The Skeksis Emperor]

here's the official trailer for YOUR FAT FRIEND

I feel sorry for her that she was already obese as an 11-year old, I really do. But you are 40ish now, woman. It's not up to mom to fix you anymore.

Also, profile pic versus reality issue 1781:

 

[Thomas Eugene Paris]

She was 44 in August 2022. So about 45 now.

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Look, no future! You missed a comma, Evie!

Yeah, she's closing in on the end of her lifespan. I'll be stunned if she makes it to 50, now that she's completely housebound, and not far from being completely bedbound. Once she loses that last little bit of mobility she's still got, the end will come fast. Same with Juliana, who is not too far behind her.

Breaking her ankle was really the end for her, as we discussed here at the time. She was on a downhill slide before then, but it really accelerated the pace of her decline.

She looks better with her glasses on.

They help to cover more of her face. I mean she's still a revolting hambeast but I don't get the same visceral fear reaction from her when she puts her glasses on.

There's just something.... disturbing about her face.

She looks like a rare aquatic species found at extreme depth in a cave. It's like the ambient light is too bright for her eyes and the change in atmospheric pressure made her body lose its structural integrity.

 

[often puzzled]

That bra is digging into her shoulders while also somehow not at all supporting her breasts, those panties need a good inch more fabric on both sides, and so do the straps on the thigh high stockings. Understanding these poor people of size are so hated and abused that shitlord clothing designers all conspire together to refuse to make garments that fit them : Lizzo makes these clothes? And they still don’t fit.

There's also a hole in the inner thigh area of each leg. Either the quality is so bad that the holes formed when she put the stockings on, or the holes are from friction because . . . yeah.

Zoom of Evie's rolling cart:



CPAP hose, I assume, and it looks like the bottom shelf is piled high with medicine bottles.

 

[HamFan]

Didn't see this upthread and apologies if I'm late, but here's the official trailer for YOUR FAT FRIEND, a film by Jeanie Finlay.

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Wow. I hate it so much already.

She tells the melon story on camera? That story is such a fucking lie. Her whole blog was lies and fantasies. And Maintenance Phase is just a platform to spread HAES "facts" with no rebuttal.

"It's a real paradigm shift to look at someone my size and rather than thinking, 'Boy, I wish that person would put in some effort,' thinking, 'That person may have put in a great deal of effort. And that might have been what got them there.' "
I assume she's talking about how "dieting makes you fat"?

I came across a review of this movie that was sort of refreshing. It blows a lot of smoke about how the movie is sweet and heartwarming, covers an empathetic topic, and "sometimes you can't help being overweight!" But they don't completely capitulate to the FA message:

...Gordon’s deep concern for people’s self-worth is often obscured by her refusal to acknowledge a public health crisis. Obesity costs America’s already-dismal healthcare system hundreds of billions of dollars each year, and has played a large role in lowering American life expectancies to levels far below those of comparable developed nations. Yet the film never engages with a single systemic cause of obesity. There’s no discussion of “food deserts” that force low-income communities to rely on highly processed foods, school lunch programs that inflict bad eating habits on poor children who have no choice in the matter, sedentary jobs that make us all unhealthy, or the myriad other ways that people fall into unhealthy lifestyles through no fault of their own. The choice between treating people with dignity and expressing genuine concern for their health is not as mutually exclusive as she makes it out to be. ...it’s hard to shake the feeling that the film actively infantilizes the very demographic that it wants to elevate. Gordon’s points about mental health and unrealistic media expectations would be so much stronger if they weren’t offset by her criticisms of healthy habits and resistance to solve a problem that is quite literally killing people. Even if she rightly identified a problem in the way American society treats fat people, the film’s fatal flaw is its insistence on replacing one extreme with another.

Honestly, I found that on a search to find more about the melon story. So many details missing from that totally true story. And are we to believe that a melon was the most unhealthy thing in her cart?

 

[Thomas Eugene Paris]

There was a morbidly obese girl in the year below me at high school. On one very rare occasion she took part in gym class and even dressed in the required gym class attire. For some reason, she remained in her horribly stretched shorts and t-shirt after school and as she was walking through the school grounds, every kid in the school ran towards her to get a closer look at the unique human specimen that she was. There were literally hundreds of kids climbing over themselves to try and get a look at her, as if she was a popstar. I'll never forget that.

Sadly, the episode didn't inspire her to lose weight.

Spoiler: Wow!

 

[Falcon Sebben]

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Shoog was in the same shoot as Jordan?!
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Let's see it in motion
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Fuck but Splotchy is possibly the most miserable person on this thread. She admits that being fat is a problem but doesn't take any steps necessary to get rid of that fat. So instead society must change because losing weight is hard gaiz!

At least based on the trailer, seems like a parade of HAES/BoPo greatest hits. ("The wellness industry is worth $4.5 trillion." Ok, now do fast food + junk food + restaurant industries.) They really need to come up with some new material. This quote did stick out to me: "The strongest bonding amongst women is when people are talking about how much they hate their bodies." I have some sympathy for how mentally ill these people are, but it's so pathetic that someone believes this enough to say it in a movie, as if it's some profound truth. It's like they're trying to be the living embodiment of all the things incel/manosphere dudes think about women.

Yeah and if there wasn't an obesity epidemic and so many fat fucks running around there wouldn't be a diet industry. People see a business opportunity and go for it. Don't like it? Then lose the weight without their help and show them you don't need somebody telling you how to lose weight.

And yes there will always be people who are predisposed to being fat. But you can't tell me it's genetic when you eat six eggs, a half dozen sausages and several slices of toast with jam every morning as breakfast because otherwise you're hungry an hour later. That's because you're a fat fuck who gorged so much on food that this has become the new normal.

She tells the melon story on camera? That story is such a fucking lie. Her whole blog was lies and fantasies. And Maintenance Phase is just a platform to spread HAES "facts" with no rebuttal.

She probably left out the part where she took the melon back, said something that totally crushed the skinny woman because we all know she was skinny and everybody started clapping at her bravery.

 

[thejackal2]

YFF doesn't have any actual concern for other people, her entire concern, from the minute she started branding herself on YFF has been herself. Justifying why she had no opportunities as a writer and editor, and justifying why she hated herself and was already mostly housebound and lonely at 35.

I really hope she gets some backlash but people love to fawn (fakingly often) over a redemption story, even when there is no redemption, and the damage was entirely self inflicted.

 

[ScooterQueen]

She has to move, huh? Votes on if it’s Jeremy throwing her out finally or they’re both moving from the dump that has no functional kitchen.

Personally, I think he’s too spineless to actually kick her out.

 

[HamFan]

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She has to move, huh? Votes on if it’s Jeremy throwing her out finally or they’re both moving from the dump that has no functional kitchen.

Personally, I think he’s too spineless to actually kick her out.

Is she moving to an assisted living facility?

 

[thejackal2]

Is she moving to an assisted living facility?

Deathfat hospice maybe. She's only got a year or so left unless she somehow manages to get that fluid out of her lungs. She sounds like she's slowly suffocating to death.

 

[GenociderSyo]

She has not brought up moving before. She has stated though she is having issues with her relationship and she definitely has many issues with his children due to her behavior. It's pretty obvious the children see her for what she is.

 

[Falcon Sebben]

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She has to move, huh? Votes on if it’s Jeremy throwing her out finally or they’re both moving from the dump that has no functional kitchen.

Personally, I think he’s too spineless to actually kick her out.

Are those men's jeans? I see a 42 waist and 30 inseam and last time I checked women's sizes don't go that high.

And if they are, how the hell does she fit her fat ass into them? Must have bought them when she graduated from small-fat to medium-fat but before she became full blown landwhale.

She has not brought up moving before. She has stated though she is having issues with her relationship and she definitely has many issues with his children due to her behavior. It's pretty obvious the children see her for what she is.

How much you wanna bet they're begging her to lose weight because they don't want her to die but she's stubbornly refusing?

 

[Angry New Ager]

Is she moving to an assisted living facility?

I would certainly hope so. I suspect it's a DeathByJen situation where her health and mobility has gotten so bad, she's going into a rehab hospital.

Evie's too ill and debilitated to continue living in that house with her ex as her primary caregiver. He has a full-time job, and kids, plus he has to take care of her (because you fucking well know she's not capable of managing her own hygiene and getting herself dressed). She's also admitted to forgetting to take her meds.

The only other option I can see is if her ex got foreclosed on, and they're having to move out of that house and into a smaller place. I would have expected her to mention it, but maybe she's just too embarrassed, or doesn't understand what's happening.

She has not brought up moving before. She has stated though she is having issues with her relationship and she definitely has many issues with his children due to her behavior. It's pretty obvious the children see her for what she is.

The kids may not fully understand exactly what Evie is, but they do understand that she's unfairly sucked up a lot of resources (money, attention, a normal home life and relationship with their dad) that should, by all rights, have been theirs. And I'm sure they're aware of how much stress, both mentally and financially, this has put their father under.

Basically, what little good Evie may initially have brought into their lives has long since been negated by everything she has taken away. The exact why behind it is something it may take years for them to understand, if they ever do. But they can definitely recognize her as the source of their family's unhappiness.

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How much you wanna bet they're begging her to lose weight because they don't want her to die but she's stubbornly refusing?

No. The older kid hasn't given a shit about her in a long time; she's complained about how he doesn't love her, as if this is a failure on his part and an act of willfull defiance.

The younger kid used to give her some of the affection she wanted, because if you're nice and indulgent toward little kids, they'll do that. But he's older now, and my understanding is that he's since caught on to how Evie isn't so great as he used to think she was.

 

[DefCon Dumb]

Don’t know if Evie is one of those death fats who like to arrogantly state: “We don’t owe you our health!” But either way,

The kids don’t owe her unmerited love or hours of unpaid slavery because she fatted herself into helplessness.

 

[ScooterQueen]

Are those men's jeans? I see a 42 waist and 30 inseam and last time I checked women's sizes don't go that high.

And if they are, how the hell does she fit her fat ass into them? Must have bought them when she graduated from small-fat to medium-fat but before she became full blown landwhale.

Maybe they’re his? The sale caption talks about “growing teen boys” which hopefully doesn’t mean one of his sons has a 42 waist already. Very sad, if that’s the case.

 

[FarmVille]

Maybe they’re his? The sale caption talks about “growing teen boys” which hopefully doesn’t mean one of his sons has a 42 waist already. Very sad, if that’s the case.

A photo of the kids was posted and they are fat as all fuck. You’d think living with Evie would be a wake up call and an appetite suppressant but very much that is not the case.

 

[stupid frog]

The only other option I can see is if her ex got foreclosed on, and they're having to move out of that house and into a smaller place. I would have expected her to mention it, but maybe she's just too embarrassed, or doesn't understand what's happening.

How would she fit in said new place though.