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I need help.

She keeps telling me about her cat, sending me pictures of her cat. I'm sick of hearing about her fucking cat. How do I politely make her stop? She's really nice but she's sent me like 17 pictures today alone.
 
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You're not listening. We've talked about all that shit. Collecting, Zelda, Skyrim, our hometowns, our families, school.

It's just that she keeps interjecting with pictures of her cat. I don't wanna see pictures of her cat anymore...
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Ask if you can come over and see her cat so she doesn't have to take so many pictures,
 
You're not listening. We've talked about all that shit. Collecting, Zelda, Skyrim, our hometowns, our families, school.

It's just that she keeps interjecting with pictures of her cat. I don't wanna see pictures of her cat anymore...
(:_(

Just be completely honest and tell her that while you think her cat's cute, you are not interested in dating her cat. That your main interest is her. Because she's far cuter than her cat (or something complimentary like that to get her to stop focusing on the cat.)
 
You're not listening. We've talked about all that shit. Collecting, Zelda, Skyrim, our hometowns, our families, school.

It's just that she keeps interjecting with pictures of her cat. I don't wanna see pictures of her cat anymore...
(:_(
Text back ‘wrong pussy’
This may result in her dumping you but it is funny.
Seriously though if she’s annoying you this early is this going to work? Is she nervous maybe and just sending you whatever she can think of or is she a nascent cat lady?
 
You're not listening. We've talked about all that shit. Collecting, Zelda, Skyrim, our hometowns, our families, school.

It's just that she keeps interjecting with pictures of her cat. I don't wanna see pictures of her cat anymore...
(:_(
Do not tell her you are tired of the cat pics. Needless. High likelihood of offense.

Just ignore the pics (or do a reaction rather than a text back) and respond to other things.

Or, if it affects how you think about her, then consider that and proceed accordingly.

Also: consider not being in constant text communication.
 
Not that I ever got to those crazy levels, but man, I would certainly feel a type of way about a guy I was seeing who out of pocket said he doesn't like my cat.

Also, have you talked about everything? It seems like you guys are mostly talking about games and nerd hobbies.

Perhaps she's talking about her cat as a way to indicate that SHE is bored or wants to change the topic.

I agree less texting and spend more meaningful time together, OR just cut your losses, if she's a cat person, the thing isn't suddenly going to go away and you seem to not give a damn about something clearly important to her.
 
I need help.

She keeps telling me about her cat, sending me pictures of her cat. I'm sick of hearing about her fucking cat. How do I politely make her stop? She's really nice but she's sent me like 17 pictures today alone.
You could try lightly teasing her about being obsessed with her cat? If she picks up subtle cues that you find the cat pics annoying and not cute she will probably think twice.
 
What are femoids opinion on a guy with loose skin?
I lost a ton of weight not too long ago and I'm still dealing with loose skin and it's been a bit demotivating.
I've been working out 5 days a week, 45 mins each day, lifting weights for the last 3 years and it's helped a lot but I don't think my loose skin will ever fully go away.
I feel like it looks like I have a gut, but the rest of my body has Muscle, not really obvious muscle, but if pointed out it can be seen.
 
What are femoids opinion on a guy with loose skin?
I lost a ton of weight not too long ago and I'm still dealing with loose skin and it's been a bit demotivating.
I've been working out 5 days a week, 45 mins each day, lifting weights for the last 3 years and it's helped a lot but I don't think my loose skin will ever fully go away.
I feel like it looks like I have a gut, but the rest of my body has Muscle, not really obvious muscle, but if pointed out it can be seen.
I would say it depends on how much loose skin there is and what it looks like. A little bit of loose skin isn't a bit deal, but if you have a deflated gunt like Ethan Ralph on Ozempic, you might want to look into getting it surgically removed.

I don't think there's anyone in the world who thinks loose skin looks good, but the fact that you take such good care of your body now and went through all the work to get into shape definitely works in your favor; it shows you have determination and have developed discipline even if you lacked it before. My recommendation is to be open and honest about your loose skin if you get to the point in a relationship where she might see you undressed. Most importantly, don't be self conscious about it; if you own it and don't let it bother you, it's less of an elephant in the room it's going to be. I know it's a bit of a meme to say "just be confident lol" but it really can make up for a lot.
 
What are femoids opinion on a guy with loose skin?
Well done on losing the weight. A bit wouldnt bother me (having several kids doesn’t exactly leave you with a toned and flat stomach and middle age and gravity comes for us all…)
If it’s excessive, and bothering YOU then could you look into removal? I honestly have no idea if these things tighten up to an extent by themselves or not, might be worth getting to your goal weight, staying there a little while then reassessing?
Honestly as long as it’s not really excessive then I wouldnt care. If I liked the guy I’d be more concerned about health and him being ok with it.
 
Ladies need some advice, I'm making bath bombs for my family, obviously I can't ask what they prefer so I'm crowdsourcing here

:lunacy: Make em giant over the top "slip and die on the fucking oil trying to get out of the tub foam up the whole fucking thing then take a shower after because you look like oily equivalent of that fat kid who fell in the chocolate river in Charlie and the Chocolate factory

:politisperg:"plop, fizz, now the bathroom smells like lavender"
 
Giant over-the-top bath bombs would be fun! If they prefer the small ones, they can buy those at the store. I've never seen big ones for sale anywhere.
Hadn't thought of that, there's a custom soap store nearby that gives them out and they were all the "scrub the tub" grade overkill, I thought that was par. But you can't write demotivational quotes on the store-bought ones.
 
I need help.

She keeps telling me about her cat, sending me pictures of her cat. I'm sick of hearing about her fucking cat. How do I politely make her stop? She's really nice but she's sent me like 17 pictures today alone.
I need more context.

If this is the only thing I know about a woman, then I'm not even responding anymore. It's annoying when someone is that mono-minded and has no regard for the receiving audience.

If it is balanced out by other good qualities or feigned interest in her cat to build a closer relationahip it's a bit different. Also it matters how it escalated to what I presume is about 17 daily pictures.

Like I have an online friend who's main method of keeping contact warm is sharing a meme every 3 days or so. But these include self-denigrating ones about that fact and there is the occasional callibrative question whether I appreciate them or not.

I couldn't imagine befriending someone with such obvious disregard of my taste and time unless counterbalanced by other parts. And if it's counterbalanced, why not give an appreciative comment a day? We all long to share our passion and most of them are boring to other people, enflamed only by our passion for them. If there are other reasons to keep talking to her, ask her some questions about her cat and after establishing your appreciation, gently rib a joke about it now and then.

If you want to improve a relationship sith someone, does the road by which really matter that much?
 
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