Crime Police Say Nonbinary Okla. Student 'Did Not Die as a Result of Trauma,' Family Says Teen Was Attacked by Group - 16 year old pooner died in a school bathroom

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Editor's Note: The following article has been updated to reflect the ongoing investigation into Nex Benedict's death.

The death of a nonbinary teenager from Owasso, Okla., following a physical altercation in a high school bathroom earlier this month was "not a result of trauma," police announced, citing information from the medical examiner.

Meanwhile, the family of Nex Benedict believes their death stemmed from bullying.

"While the investigation continues into the altercation, preliminary information from the medical examiner’s office is that a complete autopsy was performed and indicated that the decedent did not die as a result of trauma," Owasso police said in a Wednesday update. "At this time, any further comments on the cause of death are currently pending until toxicology results and other ancillary testing results are received. The official autopsy report will be available at a later date."

The 16-year-old sophomore has been identified on a GoFundMe campaign created by family as Nex Benedict, who uses they/them pronouns.

Police said in a statement initially shared on Tuesday that officers were called to a local hospital on Feb. 7 around 3:30 p.m. regarding a report of a student who had been involved in a physical altercation at Owasso High School earlier that day. The student, now confirmed to have been Nex, was pronounced dead at the hospital the next day.

Following the Wednesday update, Nex's family shared a statement through their lawyer to News on 6 in which they claim the teenager was attacked by a group of other students.

"On February 7th, 2024, the Benedict Family sent their child, Nex Benedict, to Owasso High School, trusting, like any parent or family member should be able to, that it was a safe environment for their loved one. Millions of parents across America make the same decision each and every morning. While at Owasso High School, Nex was attacked and assaulted in a bathroom by a group of other students," the statement reads, in part.

"The Benedicts know all too well the devastating effects of bullying and school violence, and pray for meaningful change wherein bullying is taken seriously and no family has to deal with another preventable tragedy," the statement adds, in part, per the outlet.

The family urged officials involved in the case to conduct a fair investigation. The family is also investigating the case themselves.

"Notwithstanding, the family is independently interviewing witnesses and collecting all available evidence," the family said, per News on 6. "The Benedict Family calls on all school, local, state and national officials to join forces to determine why this happened, to hold those responsible to account and to ensure it never happens again."

"The family graciously accepts and appreciates the outpouring of support, thoughts and prayers from across the nation for the loss of their child. In the coming weeks and months they request that their privacy be respected and that they be allowed to grieve and deal with their new reality---a life without Nex," the family added.

Police previously said detectives were interviewing school staff and students regarding the incident and will turn over the investigation to the Tulsa County District Attorney’s Office to determine whether criminal charges should be filed.

In a statement shared on Tuesday, Owasso Public Schools gave background information on the incident following what they said has been an increase in “speculation and misinformation surrounding the case.”

School officials said that students were in the bathroom for “less than two minutes” before the altercation was broken up by other students who were in the restroom at the time, as well as a staff member who was supervising outside of the bathroom, according to the school's statement.

Once the altercation was broken up, all involved students walked to the assistant principal’s office and nurse’s office, school officials said. District administrators then took statements from the students present in the restroom and contacted their parents/guardians. According to school officials, each of the involved students were assessed by a nurse, and it was recommended to one parent that their student visit a medical facility for further examination.

“We understand that for many, additional questions remain, however these are the facts that we are able to communicate at this juncture,” school officials said. “We will continue to cooperate fully with the Owasso Police Department’s investigation.”

According to their obituary, Nex loved watching The Walking Dead, drawing, reading, and playing Ark and Minecraft. They also loved “nature and caring for cats, particularly [their] cat, Zeus.”

In a Tuesday update on the GoFundMe page, Nex's mother Sue Benedict apologized for having previously misgendered Nex in the fundraiser’s description.

“I lost my child, the headstone will have [the] correct name of their choice," the update reads. "The rest of [the] monies will go to other children dealing with the right to be who they feel they are, in Nex Benedict’s name. God bless.”

Nex's death comes amid a climate of legislation, across the country and in Oklahoma, targeting transgender and nonbinary people. A bill was signed into state law last year requiring public school students to use bathrooms and changing rooms that matched their sex given at birth, particularly male or female, according to a statement from the Oklahoma Senate.

Local organizations Oklahomans for Equality and Trans Advocacy Coalition of Oklahoma shared the following statement on Facebook regarding Nex’s death.

“Our hearts are broken for the Oklahoma 2SLGBTQIA+ community and for the family, friends, and loved ones of Nex Benedict,” the statement read. “While we are still learning all of the facts surrounding the death of the 16-year-old Owasso student, we are certain that every student has the right to a safe learning environment, free from deadnaming, misgendering, outing, and violence, as well as appropriate medical care.”

“The persistent, vitriolic legislation and rhetoric being championed by our state leaders is breeding animosity, inciting violence, and harming the queer community, especially our youth. As we grieve and acknowledge this loss, we are reminded of the work yet to be done because our lives depend on it. Nex Benedict and the countless 2SLGBTQIA+ teens like them deserve better from our state and medical facilities. They deserve the chance to fully be themselves. They deserve to grow up. Rest in power, Nex,” the statement concluded.

A candlelight vigil is planned for Feb. 25 at 6:30 pm at Redbud Festival Park in Owasso to honor Nex, per Oklahomans for Equality.
 
It can stay undiagnosed until you faint or drop dead. It's also more common in females and reactions seem to vary by sex. It would be ironic if sex-based risk factors were overlooked because she insisted on telling her doctors that she wasn't really female.
Because that's not gender affirming, CHUD!
 
So i'm a little confused. Was Nex a biological man saying He was a girl to perv on the girls in the girls bathroom? Or was Nex a biological female dressing up as a dude?
 
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“Oh no water was splashed on me! Guess I have to beat you to death now!”
If you're going to assault someone, disproportionate retaliation is extremely possible and is a valid method of deterring the next person.
Nations do it, people also do it.
The rougher their background, the more likely people are to do it, out of necessity.
 
>Mom indulged the mental illness
>Mom instantly blamed the school administration despite the investigation revealed that the school followed proper procedures
>Reason to believe it might have been an OD instead
>Mom started a go-fund me to beg for money within hours

I'm going to bet on the mom either launching for a senate seat or becoming a political activist using her daughter corpse as a weapon for the elections
Honestly Id be shocked if that were the case, based on my experience living around that area for decades. She reads to me like your standard Oklahoma Republican with a soft heart for her grandkid, and being that she is the grandmother not the mother, I bet there are some messy family dynamics. At most before her death, I bet Nex's grandmother slipped up a lot on the pronoun thing because she saw it as a phase a troubled homelife kid was going through and was just waiting for it to pass, didnt want to stir up more drama for her. Of course this is all speculation so who knows. In my experience though, people who are around 35 years old and younger get progressively and aggressively more liberal as the age bracket decreases- but anyone over 35 is nearly guaranteed to be extremely conservative (in that region of OK). I just dont get the feeling that this grandmother actually agreed with the gender politics and just wants to give respect to her grandchild in the way the girl wanted. Especially since its clear she isnt going to grow out of the nonbinary phase now. I do feel for the girl, it's hard to grow up as a girl in that area.

Editing to say I also think the GFM was started by someone else with Sue being the beneficiary and the initial goal was only 15k which is reasonable for a decent funeral for someone who probably didnt have insurance for that type of stuff yet (I assume). And lashing out at the school over your dead kid may be unwarranted but it is understandable imo
 
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I thought she died of a brain bleed? The previous article seemed to imply she’d got a head injury, been checked by medics who sent her home and she died? They were saying medical negligence.
Is the story now she died of an OD? This is all very odd

As far as I can tell the current chain of events was;

1) Deceased entered the toilets, according to the school for only a couple of minutes
2) While in there an altercation broke out between her, her friend and three older students. There are two versions of things putting aside insane rhetoric about the case. The first is an altercation began with three older girls choosing to start bullying them the second per a so far unverified text message from the victim is she hurled water on them at which point they retaliated
3) The events of the fight are disputed, some people claim the departed was struck in the head/was beaten/had her head banged on the floor. School official statement is this lasted less than 2 minutes
4) Those involved in the fight were broken up and sent to see official figures in the school. According to certain claims the deceased could not walk there unaided, however the school has been indicating they will release a security camera video. Presumably this will clarify that claim
5) All injured students saw school nurse
6) Having heard details the school decides to suspend the deceased, possible the other students as well. It might be the case that was a threat not confirmed suspension and it might just have been sent home for the day. They did not contact the police nor any emergency medical service however one student was recommended to visit the hospital which presumably is this one
7) Deceased's guardian, her grandmother, took her to hospital. Not clear what checks were done here but they let her go home
8) Following day the girl collapses and dies

Might have missed something important but that seems to be the facts so far.
 
They didn't beat her to death
That’s not what happened, you might notice from the article above your comment
Forgive me for being hyperbolic, but you don’t attack someone to the point of being sent to a hospital if the intent wasn’t to kill. Getting water splashed on you (assuming that actually happened) is not justification for a group beat down.
If you're going to assault someone, disproportionate retaliation is extremely possible and is a valid method of deterring the next person.
Nations do it, people also do it.
The rougher their background, the more likely people are to do it, out of necessity.
We are talking about idiot girls escalating petty bullshit into a group beat down, not adults nor nations. It didn’t kill her at least, but it’s still fucked up and shouldn’t be acceptable.
 
She's not "trans". She's "nonbinary" which just means she's an awkward girl who doesn't like the fact that her body is changing that consumes too much social media

Non-binary is someone who wants to join in on the special prizes they give out those waiving the rainbow flags without actually being homo or tranny.
 
Forgive me for being hyperbolic, but you don’t attack someone to the point of being sent to a hospital if the intent wasn’t to kill. Getting water splashed on you (assuming that actually happened) is not justification for a group beat down.

We are talking about idiot girls escalating petty bullshit into a group beat down, not adults nor nations. It didn’t kill her at least, but it’s still fucked up and shouldn’t be acceptable.
Teenagers get in petty fights all the time without trying to kill each other. This was a group of girls starting a slap fight over dumb shit, not Crips vs Bloods in Compton. The idea that it was a premeditated transphobic beat down is tranny propaganda. The lil pooner probably slipped and hit her head.
 
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