Jim Groat - RIghtwing Gunnie and ManChild

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Jim is back at the forefront of drama after claiming someone was taping "nazi furs fuck off" ribbons to his artist alley stuff, which was later picked up by people like 2 Gryphon.
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As was said over in the 2 Gryphon thread, it’s pretty likely Jim just did this himself. I doubt any Antifa or commie furs even know or care who he is. In fact, I’m surprised if anyone at Anthrocon even recognizes him anymore, especially since he’s no longer part of, nor serves their target demographic.
 
Not only is Jim a leech and a deadbeat, but he also had filled the house with Barb levels of Hoard. Here's a Before and After cleanup image to show how much filth Jim had accumulated.

Pic taken the day before Jim was told to GTFO:
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Same room, after the ex finished the cleanup:
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Same room now that Jim is long gone:
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Garage Before. Believe it or not, but there's actually a VW Bus hiding underneath all of that.
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Garage After:
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At the moment, cleanup has ground to a halt because Jim has already Hoarded up his new place and the ex still doesn't want any vindictive legal shit from the asshole if she tosses the rest of his Hoard out onto the curb. Of course we all know that Groat is doing this on purpose to torment the poor woman even long after he's gone.
Sorry, but I must cast necromancy on this thread.
Hi! I'm the daughter that many don't know much about. I'd like to clear some things up, since we all know my father is a notorious liar. First of all, the divorce wasn't finalized on his birthday. The court date was on his birthday, and my mother had no choice on it.
His junk became ours as of some time in June, 2014. But, because of his relentless harassment, we weren't able to get rid of it until more recently. As of 2021, when I graduated, we rented a bin and got rid of a ton of stuff. What everyone needs to realize is my father is a serious hoarder. It's a lot of stuff. It's mentally taxing as well.
As for the room in the pictures, that is my bedroom. It was his old study, that he never used. The reason the floor is green, is because at the time, I chose that color. We had to use deck paint because the floor was so badly damaged from the dried on lizard shit he left. The floor is a major improvement from what it originally was. They were already painted a grayish blue. They aren't the nice hardwood anyway, they're softer wood and had quite a bit of damage, hence the need for deck paint.

I tried for multiple years to get him to leave us alone, but instead he continuously stopped by, unannounced. He finally stopped when I graduated. His constant stopping by did more damage than good. All it did was cause me great distress. My mother made no attempt to persuade me to hate him. She stood back and let him burn the bridge down all on his own.
As of now, none of us are in contact with him, and have zero plans of ever doing so again.

If you have any other questions, I'd be more than happy to answer them.
 
If you have any other questions, I'd be more than happy to answer them.
What's ol' Groat doing this days? Shacked up and mooching off another group of furs? Still delivering Chinese food and getting constantly attacked by minorities?

Thank you for the clarifications!
 
What's ol' Groat doing this days? Shacked up and mooching off another group of furs? Still delivering Chinese food and getting constantly attacked by minorities?

Thank you for the clarifications!
He's still working at that Chinese place. I hear he's been struggling to keep a second job. He bitches about wanting to move back to Arizona, and he could if he just sold off his guns, but we all know that'd never happen.
I'm shocked he's even still alive with how much he runs his mouth off at the wrong people. But, he's too much of a wuss to physically harm another. Which I'm thankful for, because otherwise my childhood would've been much worse.

Oh btw! About him missing my brother's birth. My mother never went into labor. It was an emergency C-section. Even if he left right away, he wouldn't have made it in time. There are many things to be disgusted by about him, but that situation isn't one of them. Even my mother doesn't blame him for that situation.
 
He's still working at that Chinese place. I hear he's been struggling to keep a second job. He bitches about wanting to move back to Arizona, and he could if he just sold off his guns, but we all know that'd never happen.
I'm shocked he's even still alive with how much he runs his mouth off at the wrong people. But, he's too much of a wuss to physically harm another. Which I'm thankful for, because otherwise my childhood would've been much worse.

Oh btw! About him missing my brother's birth. My mother never went into labor. It was an emergency C-section. Even if he left right away, he wouldn't have made it in time. There are many things to be disgusted by about him, but that situation isn't one of them. Even my mother doesn't blame him for that situation.
What's the deal with him anyways? Is he just a perpetual manchild, stuck in the 90s, where people just tolerated his obnoxiousness? Does he have any sort of learning disabilities like diagnosed autism?

What exactly is his fascination with getting back to Arizona? Most of his friends are pedos and are dead, or moved on. Stalk your family?

Also, is he Jewish? He's been playing up this Rabbi-Tom schtick for decades but most people think it's just some sort of cover for how obnoxious he is and uses it as a shield.
 
What's the deal with him anyways? Is he just a perpetual manchild, stuck in the 90s, where people just tolerated his obnoxiousness? Does he have any sort of learning disabilities like diagnosed autism?

What exactly is his fascination with getting back to Arizona? Most of his friends are pedos and are dead, or moved on. Stalk your family?

Also, is he Jewish? He's been playing up this Rabbi-Tom schtick for decades but most people think it's just some sort of cover for how obnoxious he is and uses it as a shield.
We don't know what exactly is wrong with him because he absolutely refuses to seek mental help. I wouldn't be shocked if autism was involved, seeing how I'm neurodivergent. But it also could've come from my mother's side. He's got a lot of issues. I wouldn't say people tolerate his obnoxious behavior, seeing how eventually most people walk out of his life.
He's definitely stuck in the 90s though. It shows through his behavior as well as his art. Art styles should always be changing and evolving. My entire life, his art style has stayed the exact same.

His fascination with Arizona is probably the nostalgia he feels for the place. He's not actually from Arizona. He was born in Minnesota. He only has one sister left, and she still lives out in Arizona. She's tried messaging me, but because she's guilt-tripped me in the past, I won't be responding to her.

He isn't Jewish. If I remember correctly, he's actually Christian. I don't know where the "Rabbi-Tom" thing came from. But I can confirm, that man is NOT Jewish. Not by practice, or by blood.
 
We don't know what exactly is wrong with him because he absolutely refuses to seek mental help. I wouldn't be shocked if autism was involved, seeing how I'm neurodivergent. But it also could've come from my mother's side. He's got a lot of issues. I wouldn't say people tolerate his obnoxious behavior, seeing how eventually most people walk out of his life.
He's definitely stuck in the 90s though. It shows through his behavior as well as his art. Art styles should always be changing and evolving. My entire life, his art style has stayed the exact same.

His fascination with Arizona is probably the nostalgia he feels for the place. He's not actually from Arizona. He was born in Minnesota. He only has one sister left, and she still lives out in Arizona. She's tried messaging me, but because she's guilt-tripped me in the past, I won't be responding to her.

He isn't Jewish. If I remember correctly, he's actually Christian. I don't know where the "Rabbi-Tom" thing came from. But I can confirm, that man is NOT Jewish. Not by practice, or by blood.
Wooooah. I remember you guys around the koi ponds at MFF back in the day. About the time I saw you dad bang someone against the wall at that same con! Exciting stuff that.

For both your edification, Rabbi Tom was just his character, mostly played on FurryMUCK. Now, why he picked that, I don't really know. If I were to guess, I'd think he wanted to see himself as a cool, funny Jew, Mel Brooks style.

I have no clue why he'd really want to go back to Arizona. The Mob is scattered to the four winds, Beiro was disgraced and is now dead. It is a good place to build a shack in the desert and not see anyone ever, which seems his speed.

By the way, it's cool you seem to have a healthy attitude about all this junk. It can't have been very fun for you at allllll.
 
Wooooah. I remember you guys around the koi ponds at MFF back in the day. About the time I saw you dad bang someone against the wall at that same con! Exciting stuff that.

For both your edification, Rabbi Tom was just his character, mostly played on FurryMUCK. Now, why he picked that, I don't really know. If I were to guess, I'd think he wanted to see himself as a cool, funny Jew, Mel Brooks style.

I have no clue why he'd really want to go back to Arizona. The Mob is scattered to the four winds, Beiro was disgraced and is now dead. It is a good place to build a shack in the desert and not see anyone ever, which seems his speed.

By the way, it's cool you seem to have a healthy attitude about all this junk. It can't have been very fun for you at allllll.
He also might miss the warmer weather. Wisconsin isn't a desert, it gets pretty damn cold here. Either way, the Arizona he once knew, no longer exists. That's why I suspect it's blind nostalgia.

It took many years of being extremely stressed out by his presence. I still feel that way. It helps that my mother is pretty great at parenting. Though, compared to my father, the bar is set quite low...
He's not capable of parenting. He's too much of a manchild.
 
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Thank you Groatling, for gracing us with you presence.

Groat was sometimes accused of letting his kids "run wild" at furry conventions. How do you feel about that.
 
After having read the thread, I just have to ask: why Madison? If he really doesn't like liberals and loved Scott Walker, then why the hell does he live in Wisconsin's version of Austin, TX?
 
After having read the thread, I just have to ask: why Madison? If he really doesn't like liberals and loved Scott Walker, then why the hell does he live in Wisconsin's version of Austin, TX?
He doesn't actually *live* in Madison, he lives just outside of it. (The rent here is insane) I don't know why he's still here. Like I said before, if he just sold off even half of his guns....he could easily get the funds to go back south. But we all know he won't do something that smart.
 
He absolutely let us run wild. I remember that being the fun part.
Good times.

Why did your father insist on wearing a German WW2 field cap at conventions and such?

For what reason did he massacre Smurf plushies?
 
Good times.

Why did your father insist on wearing a German WW2 field cap at conventions and such?

For what reason did he massacre Smurf plushies?
Because he has a weird obsession with war stuff. He's a walking contradiction, so I wouldn't try to make sense of it.

Smurfs and Barny must've looked at him funny, because I recall both being tortured. Tbf, I don't entirely blame him on that one. I'm not a fan of Smurfs either.
 
He absolutely let us run wild. I remember that being the fun part.
What was it like, "Growing up Groat"? Was he a father that just didn't care, or did he take an active part in your life?

Anything with him and furries you remember?

Do you recall anything about some comic publisher buying the rights to his horse girl character and Groat refusing because it was worth millions?
 
What was it like, "Growing up Groat"? Was he a father that just didn't care, or did he take an active part in your life?

Anything with him and furries you remember?

Do you recall anything about some comic publisher buying the rights to his horse girl character and Groat refusing because it was worth millions?
He shouldn't have become a father. He's incapable of being fatherly. He just tries to buy ones love with gifts, which isn't how that works. (They werent even gifts I wanted) I consider my mother to be more of a fatherly figure than my own father ever was. He was awful at looking after us and made my mother do *everything*. He tried to be in my life, but by that point, it was too late. Not that he was even doing it properly.

I vaguely remember some of my time at the cons. I remember loving running around and looking at all the booths. The dances were super fun. I don't have any bad memories of the cons.

I did not know about that last part! I'm not shocked, he's a complete and utter idiot afterall. I'm lucky intelligence comes from the mother...
 
He shouldn't have become a father. He's incapable of being fatherly. He just tries to buy ones love with gifts, which isn't how that works. (They werent even gifts I wanted) I consider my mother to be more of a fatherly figure than my own father ever was. He was awful at looking after us and made my mother do *everything*. He tried to be in my life, but by that point, it was too late. Not that he was even doing it properly.

I vaguely remember some of my time at the cons. I remember loving running around and looking at all the booths. The dances were super fun. I don't have any bad memories of the cons.

I did not know about that last part! I'm not shocked, he's a complete and utter idiot afterall. I'm lucky intelligence comes from the mother...
What do you mean you don't want a model of a German Halftrack? The paint matches the Wehrmacht specs exactly!
 
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