Megathread Trannies posting their L's Online - Heckin valid people posting their funny misfortunes on the internet

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swordbeliever:
tried to vent in a trans space about how, as a trans man who’s been on T for a long time (over 7 years now), i have noticed that the more i pass as a man, the less welcomed i am in queer spaces unless i go out of my way to feminize myself. and how that sucks! and it’s isolating!!! and it feels horrible to see ppl who used to like you and be close to you drift further and further the more masculine (& therefore more comfortable in urself) u become...
only to get ppl replying to me and saying “well if you dressed more fem then ppl wouldn’t be intimidated by you. you signed up for this”
i’m sorry but i didnt sign up for social isolation when i transitioned, i signed up for gender euphoria and comfort in myself and my life. and i had hoped that the ppl in my life would be able to see how much joy that brings me and continue to love me.

spacelazarwolf:
i need ppl to realize that telling trans ppl to change the way they present to make other ppl comfortable with their gender is fucking transphobic. it’s transphobic when it’s telling a trans woman to dress more femme or feminize her voice so she doesn’t ‘intimidate people’, it’s transphobic when it’s telling a trans man the same. it is explicitly and inexcusably transphobic and it is literally never okay. trans people belong in queer spaces. period. there is no dress code. we belong there bc we built those fucking spaces.

dovbleincision:
would also like to add that as a fat, balding, very passing bear of a trans man who DOES dress and present very femme, the whole "if you were more femme people wouldn't be uncomfortable" thing doesn't even fucking work for me because i pass as the Wrong Kind of feminine man. i'm not a skinny little 20 yr old twink, so it's gross and offputting when i crossdress, but if i go full masc i'm even more offputting, and even if i out myself i still get Looks or am treated coldly lmfao. you're only allowed to be a cute little genderbending boyprincess if you're palatable: thin and pale and hairless and harmless. i've said it before but the root of this problem, and the problem OP faces, is that queer people need to get the fuck over their fear of people who look like they might have a penis because it is isolating to trans men and fucking deadly to trans women. it's all "gender is fake you can do whatever you want forever" until you set off too many Penis Haver alarms and suddenly you're treated like a loaded gun. anyway butch tgirls and tboy fembears i love you
lol, lmao even
 

"I know bisexual people are fine with it"

If only Reddit had rainbow ratings I would go and sign in and give him one.

lol, lmao even

The root of this problem has nothing to do with penises, it's due to the fact that this woman has made herself extremely unattractive and (assuming she actually passes, she says she is fat so I will give her the rare benefit of the doubt since fatties pass more) unattractive men get ignored even more than unattractive women do.

Plus, "queer" spaces are full of child molesters and general predators so of course you are going to be ignored more if you're not young and hairless.

But she redirects her own suffering onto the plight of transwomen, just like a good handmaiden. Bonus points for the incredibly feminine writing styles for all three of them lmao
 
i’m sorry but i didnt sign up for social isolation when i transitioned
"Passing" TiFs get quite a lot of L's :

  • Men don't want to be friends as TiFs don't have proper male interests/habits (this happens regardless of the men knowing or not).
  • Looks like a man so woman are nervous and aloof around them, which they notice because of a strong change from before they transitioned.
  • Since raised as female she crosses social boundaries making woman uncomfortable. Doesn't understand proper male/female dynamics and etiquette. Likely comes across as creepy and forward.
  • Existing female friends feel betrayed and the major change tends to put off women and changes dynamics. Once they "pass" all queer friends disappear.
  • Once straight woman/gay men find out they're actually a dickless female instead of a man they don't want to date/have sex anymore.
  • Only people sexually interested with them are lesbians and TiMs; one being rare and "dysphoric inducing" and the other being psycho.
  • Can't detransition completely. Stuck looking/sounding like a man. If she does detrans, likely will end up looking like a TiM.
No female friends, no male friends, no romantic interests. No backing out.
 
signed up for gender euphoria and comfort in myself and my life.
"Passing" TiFs get quite a lot of L's :

  • Men don't want to be friends as TiFs don't have proper male interests/habits (this happens regardless of the men knowing or not).
  • Looks like a man so woman are nervous and aloof around them, which they notice because of a strong change from before they transitioned.
  • Since raised as female she crosses social boundaries making woman uncomfortable. Doesn't understand proper male/female dynamics and etiquette. Likely comes across as creepy and forward.
  • Existing female friends feel betrayed and the major change tends to put off women and changes dynamics. Once they "pass" all queer friends disappear.
  • Once straight woman/gay men find out they're actually a dickless female instead of a man they don't want to date/have sex anymore.
  • Only people sexually interested with them are lesbians and TiMs; one being rare and "dysphoric inducing" and the other being psycho.
  • Can't detransition completely. Stuck looking/sounding like a man. If she does detrans, likely will end up looking like a TiM.
No female friends, no male friends, no romantic interests. No backing out.
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swordbeliever:
tried to vent in a trans space about how, as a trans man who’s been on T for a long time (over 7 years now), i have noticed that the more i pass as a man, the less welcomed i am in queer spaces unless i go out of my way to feminize myself. and how that sucks! and it’s isolating!!! and it feels horrible to see ppl who used to like you and be close to you drift further and further the more masculine (& therefore more comfortable in urself) u become...
only to get ppl replying to me and saying “well if you dressed more fem then ppl wouldn’t be intimidated by you. you signed up for this”
i’m sorry but i didnt sign up for social isolation when i transitioned, i signed up for gender euphoria and comfort in myself and my life. and i had hoped that the ppl in my life would be able to see how much joy that brings me and continue to love me.

spacelazarwolf:
i need ppl to realize that telling trans ppl to change the way they present to make other ppl comfortable with their gender is fucking transphobic. it’s transphobic when it’s telling a trans woman to dress more femme or feminize her voice so she doesn’t ‘intimidate people’, it’s transphobic when it’s telling a trans man the same. it is explicitly and inexcusably transphobic and it is literally never okay. trans people belong in queer spaces. period. there is no dress code. we belong there bc we built those fucking spaces.

dovbleincision:
would also like to add that as a fat, balding, very passing bear of a trans man who DOES dress and present very femme, the whole "if you were more femme people wouldn't be uncomfortable" thing doesn't even fucking work for me because i pass as the Wrong Kind of feminine man. i'm not a skinny little 20 yr old twink, so it's gross and offputting when i crossdress, but if i go full masc i'm even more offputting, and even if i out myself i still get Looks or am treated coldly lmfao. you're only allowed to be a cute little genderbending boyprincess if you're palatable: thin and pale and hairless and harmless. i've said it before but the root of this problem, and the problem OP faces, is that queer people need to get the fuck over their fear of people who look like they might have a penis because it is isolating to trans men and fucking deadly to trans women. it's all "gender is fake you can do whatever you want forever" until you set off too many Penis Haver alarms and suddenly you're treated like a loaded gun. anyway butch tgirls and tboy fembears i love you
lol, lmao even
I see that quite a lot with pooners. They want to be seen as a true and honest men, but still enjoy everything that being a woman has to offer, like being more approachable and non-threatening (only when it suits them, of course). Like how mtf troons "boy mode" whenever being a woman is a disadvantage to them. These people really think you can just pick and choose.
 
I see that quite a lot with pooners. They want to be seen as a true and honest men, but still enjoy everything that being a woman has to offer, like being more approachable and non-threatening (only when it suits them, of course). Like how mtf troons "boy mode" whenever being a woman is a disadvantage to them. These people really think you can just pick and choose.
Like that one pooner that was crying that guys don't have girl talks in the bathroom and shit. The grass isn't always greener on the other side.
 
lmao.
(after what turned out to be a short way throuhg reading) i decided to save this to post- I was going to simply title it 'L after L after L after L'.
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it was only after my computer paused and then the above preview showed up, that i realised QUITE how many L's we were dealing with here.
so i've popped it in a

TL, but the bits I read read reminded me of a Troon giving the Dr Manhattan speech.
Thats exactly what it is. And youre thinking of sophiefrommars.
 
I found Lord Farquaad.
r/emkawala
It's Luka Magnot-a-woman!
I hope the mothers are keeping *very* close watch.
You know, troons actually respect and listen to men (and if they don't, they're at least afraid enough of normal men that they won't attack them). I can't help but think that if fathers made more of a scene about this shit, we wouldn't be in quite as much of a mess as we are now. Everyone's so quick to shit on single mothers but no one ever seems to call out the missing men who create fatherlessness in the first place.

edit - bad english
 
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lmao.
(after what turned out to be a short way throuhg reading) i decided to save this to post- I was going to simply title it 'L after L after L after L'.
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it was only after my computer paused and then the above preview showed up, that i realised QUITE how many L's we were dealing with here.
so i've popped it in a
I think all these L's can best be summed up as everyone even people of gender think troons are perverted men who wanna creep on women and get in their spaces.
 
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