Polissa Snow / CatLadyPolissa / SouthernCatLady1983 / PolissaCampbellArt / Campbells Home for Wayward Cats and Josh Campbell / Wade Parker - E begging munchie Artist, Renaissance Woman, Cat Lady 🖖 and her hot headed husband that collectively killed over 30 animals. One has a 20 year old yeast infection, another shits in bags

How long will Polissa last at her new apartment?

  • <1 month

    Votes: 4 4.5%

  • 1-2 months

    Votes: 22 24.7%

  • 2-4 months

    Votes: 20 22.5%

  • 4-6 months

    Votes: 33 37.1%

  • >6 months

    Votes: 10 11.2%
  • Total voters
    89
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toilet_rainbow said:
Joh returned to Facebook

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Not sure if Joh knows this or not, but yes some couples will go out and split a plate of food at a restaurant. This isn't unique to poor people. Sometimes you're both not that hungry.
I don't believe that his dad stopped buying food for the house because his brother had friends over and they would eat all the food. I would believe that he wouldn't buy snacks and chips for the house if that were happening, but to Joh I'm sure snacks are the only food he would eat and therefore no Doritos means Joh goes to bed hungry.
As for the housing situation... buddy, you did that to yourself.
 
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toilet_rainbow said:
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His situation growing up wasn't his fault. A lot of people come from crappy families. But the ones who don't let themselves be defeated by that straight out of the gate are the ones who make a decision that they're going to get the hell out of there, and do whatever they have to in order to do better for themselves.

Josh has been an adult for more than half his life, now, and he still can't take responsibility for himself, or the multitude of bad decisions he's made—including not bothering to find ways to manage his anger issues.

He'll watch all kinds of trash entertainment, but he won't look for videos on how to better manage your own anger on YouTube, or check a self-help book about it out of the library, much less do what is recommended and practice it consistently until he gets good at it. Nah; that's just who he is, and it's all somebody else's fault, and he can't do anything about it.

The anger issues (which includes a constant sense of resentment and victimization, not just his rages) are the root of all of his struggles; they are not the result. And until he realizes that, and acts accordingly, nothing will change.

His inability to realize that is why he'll forever be a minimum wage kind of guy, bouncing from job to job while living in shitty, substandard housing, which he does nothing to mitigate, because, in his angry, resentful, victimized little brain, that's for somebody else to do. That he might have to take initiative in order to gain control over his circumstances only triggers his constant, simmering anger.

So he can't shift an air conditioner so it stops leaking into the wall; he can't clamber onto a leaky roof to nail down a new tarp over the rotting one; he can't spray bleach solution to keep mold at bay; he can't figure out how to get his mattress off the floor; he can't figure out how to keep just one room tolerably warm or cool; he can't figure out how to get a driver's license on his own; he can't figure out how to get his diabetes treated. Nope. He needs somebody else to do all of that for him, and if they don't do it, or can't, then the inevitable consequences are all their fault; never his.

Josh is trapped in a hell that is largely of his own creation. He may not have got a good start in life, but once you're old enough to recognize things are fucked up, and start making better decisions for yourself, your failures and hardships increasingly become yours to learn from, and to remedy—you can't keep blaming everyone and everything else. Josh has never figured this out, and probably never will.
 
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toilet_rainbow said:
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I lived in a trailer as a kid too so I can agree with Josh on how no A/C was brutal, but as for the rest...Jesus Christ.

We didn't live as kings and get everything we wanted but that's because my dad knew how to prioritize the money coming in instead of blowing it on a new shiny, drugs, or scratch-offs. He knew the value of money so I may not have gotten every toy or a big TV or a ton of games, but we always had food, heat, lights, water, and clothes because he knew how to spend the money wisely. He also believed in something called "maintenance"...ya know, the thing that's easy and prevents bigger problems down the road? Like fixing a leaky tap, or investigating the odd sounds from the furnace? It's why even though our trailer looked pretty faded from the outside, everything worked on the inside.

Looking back, I know how lucky I was because not every kid had it as good and though my heart goes out to those kids, I have no sympathy adults who act like kids and bitch and moan because "life is so hard", yet never try to do anything to better their situation or at least try to do what they can with what they have. At least putting in the effort will garner more respect than just sitting around and waiting for someone to bail you out.

I'm not rolling in the dough and though me (and everyone else) would love to have more income, that's not how life works. I do, however, know where the money NEEDS to go rather than spending it on where I WANT it to go. It's how I can live in a clean apartment (it's called a mop, broom, and a vacuum Josh), afford food, have power & water, and even have enough left for a portable A/C, a car, and being able to go out once in awhile. It's all about making what you've got last and knowing what needs to stay and what is a luxury you can go without for awhile.

Thanks for coming to my TED talk everyone 🤗
 
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I don't believe that his dad stopped buying food for the house because his brother had friends over and they would eat all the food. I would believe that he wouldn't buy snacks and chips for the house if that were happening, but to Joh I'm sure snacks are the only food he would eat and therefore no Doritos means Joh goes to bed hungry.
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Indeed. Joh is a twin so I too would think that they stopped buying junk food to encourage the entourage to hang elsewhere but Joh took it personally, probably because he had no friends.

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"Sharp" and "excellence" are words that I would never ascribe to either Pissa or Joh. This person must be a total stranger.
 
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There is most unfortunately a strong probability, I think. Given the .gif react Pissa placed on Joh!!'s FB post, it looks that way. The vitriol she blasted out about AbUsE is all but missing, almost like she got caught up in her bullshit and backed off when he waggled his minimum wage sheckles in her face along with a 2 liter bottle of Mello Yello.
 
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Major Polissa update!

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Leaving TikTok? Say it ain't so!





[piano music plays in the background]

*tongue click* I don't think I can do TikTok anymore! I don't think I can continue to come here and make videos! And talk about what is on my mind anymore! I feel that the world is poisoning my channel!

Um, when I joined TikTok, it was *long pause* to make *long pause* fun videos, talk about things I was interested in! Find community and connection! *long pause* I was a theater kid! I mean, that's what you do, right? It's what TikTok was created for! It was to share for community and connection! And to share ideas and to teach each other things!

And somehow, it's gotten away from us! And my entire feed now is politics! War mongering, war rumors! The world falling apart at the seams! And then I walk out my front door and it's not like that! I may be one of the last few places on this planet that seems normal for now! And *long pause* as painful as it is to say this, I can't watch the world fall apart! Because I can't do anything about it from here, apart from talk! And I don't think my voice is adding to the conversation! I think it's adding to the negativity and the fear!

So um, I'm gonna pull back from now! I'm not gonna make any more videos for a while! And I don't know if I ever will make another video!

I am also not pursuing the music career! Um, I got a little excited! That little taste of what my life could have been like if I had pursued music when I was younger! But my voice is not what it was! It's not! A few years ago I had a really bad flu and it took my soprano! My first soprano voice and made me a meso soprano! And my asthma and the years I did smoke cigarettes uh, harmed my lungs and my air flow! And you can literally hear the air seeping out my vocal cords when I sing! And I can't hold the notes like I used to! So this is just me being completely honest!

*sigh* Yes, I can write lyrics! The song lyrics just pour out of me! Like they just, like I'm a fountain for lyrics! If anybody needs a songwriter, I'll be more than happy! Just reach out, you know! More than happy to help!

Um, I have helped write a song for my brother's band! It's called "Devil in Red!" And they will be putting that music out soon! Um, I'm excited for my little brother and for his band! *tongue click* I hope he never loses the passion for music! I didn't lose the passion for music! I just am being a realist that my peace is when I paint and when I garden! So that's where my peace is!

Um... *very long pause* I am still waiting for the settlement for Zinus! I have no clue when that's coming! I don't know when it's being finalized! I'm honestly exhausted from waiting for it!

So I'm gonna go on pause for a while! I kind of really don't have much choice! If I want to preserve what I've got of mental health, I need to take a pause!

So um! So long for now! Farewell, auf wiedersehen, adieu!

*spends last six seconds or so looking like she's about to cry before looking at the camera*

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See you on the flip side!

Already having people tell her to not go (don't worry, she'll be back)

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"The algorithm only shows me doom and gloom! Waaaaaaaaahhhhh!!!"

Funny. Youtube shows me true crime, hiking, cycling and fat dipshits. It's almost like the algorithm looks for what you regularly browse and presents you with more of the same.

Dipshit here dug her own doom hole and refuses to take responsibility for it, or go looking for happy dance videos or those 'good vibes' people who 'bring a little happiness daily.' Then again, if she did anything positive for herself, she wouldn't have quite as much to bitch about.

Plus: "I had flu once and it robbed me of my voice!" Otherwise known as: I don't want to do vocal training because that sucks, so here's some excuses. After all, it's not that Pissa can't.
 
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FarmVille said:
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Good to know. Seems the parties reached a settlement back in April 2023 and it was finalized August 2023. The private settlement out of court leads me to believe she isn't getting shit (as if she was getting anything more than pennies to begin with).
 
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Dave Blackman said:
Good to know. Seems the parties reached a settlement back in April 2023 and it was finalized August 2023. The private settlement out of court leads me to believe she isn't getting shit (as if she was getting anything more than pennies to begin with).
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Yea..you should not be amateur reading over legal documents. It can take months up to a year to receive payout from a large class action settlement
 
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