Stonetoss isn't any different, he tried and failed to fit in Japan a country which has high health, social and beauty standards. Japanese women aren't interested in Western gaijin ralphamale types. Obnoxious, sexually desperate westerners with nonexistent personal hygiene without income. Trying to get intimate with Japanese women work like this.
1. Japanese women notice you and shyly suggest introduction through a proxy, friend, parent, etc.
2. Japanese grandmother greatly appreciates you and suggests talking to their granddaughter who are marrying age.
3. Long term friendship in work, religious service, etc.
Japanese society wants people who comply to Japanese social norms, are fit, aren't alcoholics and would be perfect parents. Ooba-sama doesn't mind well cared for hapas. Japanese society wants to follow advice of late Shinzo Abe.
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Japanese society has enough hikikomori NEETs, talented artists and Mangaka despite being married to their careers, talentless gaijin don't stand a chance in highly competitive rat race society of Japan