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- Jul 24, 2022
so personally i think its a mix of both. i think her parents played a big part in how she is now by allowing it to go on this long. i do not think her dad did anything to her because i do not really see the signs of that sort of thing. i do however see the signs of someone who was not told no nearly enough as a child.I can’t decide which is more likely. That this is all a grift and she’s desperate for easy money, so she acts unhinged and overly sexual. This could be evidenced by her jumping from lolcow to lolcow until one of them bit the hook.
Or that she is hiding a dark past that completely wrecked her mentally. I suspect daddy might have liked to cuddle a bit too much. It would explained the constant anger at her parents, the self-destructive behavior, the excessive sexual behavior and lack of boundaries, the endless showers, the substance abuse, etc.
combined with a large amount of mental issues that have been ignored. shes said it herself that she does not trust doctors. so odds are at some point she was told she has something like BPD and refused to believe it due in part to all the years she was told she was perfect and great and just the best child ever.
she very clearly has an idea of what she thinks her life should be like and what she is like as well but as time goes on shes getting older and older and nobody is living up to her standards because her standards are simply impossible to meet. this combined with her eventual realization that she is getting older and that age is starting to catch up with her has made her more and more desperate to find someone she can attach herself to so she can continue to live in her state of delusions.
i have no doubt in my mind that one day josh will do something wrong in her mind not even on purpose and she will sniff out a new victim. because her end goal is much more than just to find someone who actually cares about and wants her. her goal is to find someone who will allow her to live her life this same way forever and for her to always be the center of attention.
her parents should have done something about this sooner but for whatever reason they just let it get worse. the only thing that could help her now is a trip to the psych ward and some forced medication and therapy though it does not help that she seems to have a generally shitty attitude in general that is definitely not helping things.