- Joined
- Jan 4, 2020
A few.Is there a tranny wall?
- Being trans in itself puts up a giant fucking wall between you and most of the dating population, waaaaaaay fucking down. There is still a dating pool, but we'll get to that.
- If you get bottom surgery, you hit the wall. Men with fetishes like chicks with dicks and crazy women like males who pretend to be women and can get them pregnant (ses the Mallory Ortberg and Joe Lavery thread). 0.001% of the population is willing to stay or even date you outside of other trans people if you get bottom surgery. Even then, a lot of trans people are chasers themselves, so they might decide against someone who's had genital surgery. It is also hard to be around someone who doesn't experience sexual pleasure, has massive pain, and or is depressed at the results and the "end" of their transition. It's the hardest wall of all transdom.
If a trans person is comfortable with condition 1 (reduced dating pool) and has NOT gotten condition 2 (genital surgery) then it's a bit complicated. For the most part, troons fall apart faster than normies. If your ideal dating population is people who are into femboy twinks, you're experiencing the same or even sooner twink death others have. Meanwhile, if you're a groomer, your population is younger damaged people until you either get too many wrinkles or too much internet drama. Lastly, if you're T for T, their wall can vary since everyone is trying not to die alone. Even some of the ugliest of troons can have a partner solely because they and their partner bond over a very niche fetish that they don't know many other people have, and they're desperate for any affection.
The big walls are basically being unappealing to normie straights and gays and warping your genitals. Beyond that, as long as a troon has bo standards, they can still pick up other troons. The wall hit there is when someone becomes so toxic in their own twitter communities that no one wants to date them so the date doesn't get caught in the drama crossfire.