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1. She has BPD. She has no sense of self and has to leech her identity from everyone around her, husband included.
2. There is some symptom over lap between the 2 and sometimes females are misdiagnosed as having BPD even though it's actually autism, just because there are differences in the symptoms of male and female autism that aren't well known to the public.
Anissa has shown signs that she's terrified of being diagnosed with BPD because I think even she's smart enough to know how the shoe fits and how bad it would make all of her interactions with Ian look retroactively. (To the few normies that watch). She's clinging to autism as a cope.
Anisa, your emotional reactivity isn't due to autism, you lack the sensory sensitivities we would expect to see, and the need for sameness and routine. You also jump from hobby to hobby with nothing ever sticking, but you don't have any special interests or true hyperfixations we would expect to see in an autistic person. If you did, we would see some skill aquisition from your "hobbies".
Autistic people tend to have some degree of motor control issues and be naturally clumsy. Which is at odds with your bragging about how athletic you are and how good you are at boxing and all that stuff.
Ultimately, this is just her trying on a new ID that doesn't fit; but this time I think she's also hoping that she can pass off her blatant humiliation and public emotional abuse of her husband as "tee hee I don't understand social cues".
You have BPD, Anisa and it's going to really catch up with you by your late thirties to early forties. That's usually when people start getting sick of the personality disorder bullshit, because idiocy of youth is no longer a viable explanation for their behavior.
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