Women don't grok violence. Telling them this will usually get a few of them extremely MATI and shrieking that because they had a dad or uncle in the military or police or whatever, they totally do. They don't even understand what it means to understand violence. They don't, and never will, because they are too small, slow, and weak to ever truly understand what it feels like to have real power in your own body, and always have in front of you the potential to do massive damage to others with it, which in turn makes you aware of what kind of violent power other men have, and the need to use violent power to restrain those who do not choose to control it.
This is why retarded ideas, like "teaching men not to rape," appeal to them. They really do think that some kind of public education program can reduce crime to zero, because the idea of a man saying to himself, "I have the strength and power to do what I want, rules be damned," is completely foreign to them. They don't even really understand this is a thought that can be thunk.
It was an enormous mistake for our great-great grandfathers to give them political power.