Would you date someone who was a call girl?

[Executive Petrel]

Yes so I could call her like a boomer instead of stupid text messages.

 

[SmallTruck]

Stealth powerlevel right there.

I have no doubt in my mind that people can actually change, but there's always someone faking it and that muddies the waters. All the "I'm ready to settle down now" memes have impacted me and many, many other millenial and gen z men. I'm so fucking paranoid about promiscuous women lying about their pasts and pretending to be attracted to me because I'm the "safe" option. Granted, most women aren't this way but there is a sizeable minority that is.

Honesty is important, most people are just very uninteresting or they simply don't look good (by definition, most people are average), so they would be afraid of being seem as the "safe" option.

ephermeral should go for someone that, sincerely, doesnt give a fuck.​

I see virgins being treated like trash, and whores being treated like gold, and also the opposite and everything in between. Just dont be a loser about it.

 

[Wot Zit Too Yah0996]

It would have to be a casual thing, where I'd try my best not to develop any genuine, sort of in-love feelings, lest I risk ending up like Chopper (Read) (whose girlfriend worked in a brothel, so, you know... bit more slutty than a call girl, I guess), according to the film biopic of the same name, which is likely mostly true.

@SmallTruck That reminds me of my early-mid high school years (even a bit later on). You know, where you get at least that one mate in your group who would drop how much tail he was getting into conversations (probably a quick tug, and some other dirty stuff, for about five minutes, at the very most), but, and this is based on my take, you know his relationships were rubbish.

 

[SmallTruck]

I see you felt called out.

 

[Megatardingo]

Never, ever disclose a) past drug use b) past number of sexual partners c) if you ever had an abortion for ANY reason. No matter how much you've changed over the years, no matter how long ago it was - it will forever stain the other person's perception of you that you will never escape.

If the past is genuinely in the past, keep it to yourself. If it's something you are still engaging in, it'll come out in time.

People are WAY to fucking judgmental as evidenced by the responses in this thread. So just shut up about it. There is no good reason to ever disclose such things. Ever.

What a snively little rat you are. You did it then you carry the burden of your choices you disgusting fuck. 0 morals and ethics and you'll claim you ever changed if you can't even be honest you're still that whore.

 

[White_N]

If you're the one snickering, you're admitting that you paid to see tits - which I frankly find far more pathetic than getting paid to flash titties. If a guy gets paranoid about that sort of thing, he must think his friends gutter trash.

it doesn't cancel out the other side.
if someone tells you "that's your wife? i used to throatfuck her for fifty bucks lol" that shit hits hard. there is no coming back, and if you try some feeble comeback like "haha you paid for it..." everybody including yourself knows that this is just desperate cope from a man who has just been subjected to extremely brutal humiliation.

Better start pimp-maxxxing

 

[Otterly]

I wonder how many women would date an ex - con?
People can change. I sincerely wish you happiness, OP.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

I wonder how many women would date an ex - con?
People can change. I sincerely wish you happiness, OP.

Same for a cheater . The answer is a lot . The amount of women who tolerate absolute lunacy is much higher than you think

 

[Otterly]

Same for a cheater . The answer is a lot . The amount of women who tolerate absolute lunacy is much higher than you think

Yeah. I think that people can change although I think most people don’t. I have know more than one person who had a very bad start in life who did some fucked up stuff, managed to get a wake up call early enough and sorted themselves out. It’s a minority who can do that, but the ones who genuinely do tend to be quite self aware.
I’d probably be ok with someone with a non violent felony if they’d changed. Any kind of sexual offense, most violent offense or any offense against children would be irredeemable in my books. Felony for resisting arrest or drugs when young? Meh. People can change.
I hope OP finds happiness and true self awareness.

 

[DumbDude43]

I wonder how many women would date an ex - con?

i guess that depends a lot on what he was in for
very different types of men can end up doing time for very different types of crimes
>angry psycho who went to prison for beating his girl to a bloody pulp in a drunken rage
>street criminal who went to prison for shooting a rival drug dealer
>businessman who went to prison for tax fraud
>computer nerd who went to prison for selling hacked corporate data on darknet forums
all would qualify as ex-cons after the fact, but are very different people

 

[Otterly]

i guess that depends a lot on what he was in for
very different types of men can end up doing time for very different types of crimes
>angry psycho who went to prison for beating his girl to a bloody pulp in a drunken rage
>street criminal who went to prison for shooting a rival drug dealer
>businessman who went to prison for tax fraud
>computer nerd who went to prison for selling hacked corporate data on darknet forums
all would qualify as ex-cons after the fact, but are very different people

Yeah that’s my thoughts on it. I mean heck under our current laws I could get jailed for hate speech. For me it’s more something against my moral view would be a no no. Serial domestic abuser would be an absolute no. Dinged for hate speech, no big deal.

 

[Overly Serious]

i guess that depends a lot on what he was in for
very different types of men can end up doing time for very different types of crimes
>angry psycho who went to prison for beating his girl to a bloody pulp in a drunken rage
>street criminal who went to prison for shooting a rival drug dealer
>businessman who went to prison for tax fraud
>computer nerd who went to prison for selling hacked corporate data on darknet forums
all would qualify as ex-cons after the fact, but are very different people

Definitely wouldn't date the last two.

 

[Wot Zit Too Yah0996]

I see you felt called out.

Nope. Just reminded of a past experience. Couldn't care less, really.

 

[WelperHelper99]

I wonder how many women would date an ex - con?
People can change. I sincerely wish you happiness, OP.

I mean I'd give the same answer- probably not. Yeah people can change. That ex con killed 5 people and crippled 10. Being a call girl is honestly just as much as a turn off. I literally can't trust you.

 

[Not Really Here]

In my misspent youth I occasionally talked to hookers roommates were using, 100% were victims of sexual abuse, most while children.
The profession in and of itself is meh, the turnoff is the mental illness, it's a lot of work to be in a relationship with a person suffering long term mental illness.

 

[Ravier Xavenblood]

I mean I'd give the same answer- probably not. Yeah people can change. That ex con killed 5 people and crippled 10. Being a call girl is honestly just as much as a turn off. I literally can't trust you.

Having a past like that 100% damages trust. Even if she wasn't in a relationship when she sold herself, you know what she's capable of and the fear is always there.

 

[WelperHelper99]

Having a past like that 100% damages trust. Even if she wasn't in a relationship when she sold herself, you know what she's capable of and the fear is always there.

And again- yes people can change. I'm not disputing that. But going INTO a relationship, and knowing/ finding out about that... yeah, I'm sorry, you might be nice, you might have put that behind you. I DONT know that, and personally I don't want to end up eating a tub of ice cream and contemplating blowing my brains out if the relationship implodes.

 

[Ravier Xavenblood]

And again- yes people can change. I'm not disputing that. But going INTO a relationship, and knowing/ finding out about that... yeah, I'm sorry, you might be nice, you might have put that behind you. I DONT know that, and personally I don't want to end up eating a tub of ice cream and contemplating blowing my brains out if the relationship implodes.

And some guys would end up asking for constant reassurances that she would never do that again. It's just not a good situation all around.

 

[Whoopsie Daisy]

Yeah, I dated your mum.

 

[Wot Zit Too Yah0996]

First couple of pages of this thread remind me of the story of Mary Magdalene with Jesus where all the apostles are shaking their heads and saying "If Jesus knew what sort of woman this is..."

But to answer the OP's question. I wouldn't have a hard rule against it. It wasn't until typing this reply that I remembered I have actually dated someone who was a stripper for a while, but it was very long time ago and I was... 21? And she was a couple of years younger than me and had stopped stripping by that point. She had some issues, I admit.

Well, Courtney Love was a stripper for several years.

@Bog-standard Poster Nothin' like an estranged/bastard father-son reunion to warm the cockles of your heart.