You do need to be in touch with your emotions but the key difference is that your emotions are for you and no one else has the right to know what or how you feel. That's why people get disgusted at men crying in public and on social media, men raised as defective women engaging in validation seeking behaviour by crying thinking they deserve to be validated cause they have emotions and feelings.
Being in control of yourself and your affairs is a critical part of masculinity. The reason why it's perverse for a man to cry is because in the act he shows a lack of control over his emotion. Why do tears come to the eyes? From a wave of emotion overwhelming your body. When a man weeps, he shows that he is overcome by that wave.
Also, growing up, it's strange to look back and see that after a certain point I just wouldn't cry. I remember crying as a kid, but nowadays it just doesn't occur to me. If I'm sad, I just look solemn and want to be alone and think.
As an adult, the only times I've cried were when my heart was broken. Literally, as in something felt very off with my heart. In those moments there is a delirium and sense of utter condemnation that overpowers you. It made me realize: you can expect a man to face his death with a straight back, but you cannot expect him to have a straight face.
I find it funny that the man hate hags are simping for the ex-incel fag. Talking about how men need to be in touch with their emotions and effeminates. Well this is what you get.
I really do despise how "sensitive" has come to mean "weak, limp wristed faggot".
What does "sensitive" mean to me? It means to feel strongly and live vividly. It means dreams with sensations so lucid they can taken as memories, and memories so graphic that their recall puts you right back in that place, with those people, frozen in time. A literal "sensitivity" or "potency of the senses".
A man can have powerful emotions. He can be in touch with them. It is best if he can use them to empower his other aspects. But he should never capitulate to them. He's not a woman. It's not his place to be ruled by his emotions.