Ask a Mortician aka Caitlin Doughty. There was a time when she could easily qualify for her own thread, but her "deathlings" determinedly cover up a lot of the evidence and screenshots of her shit-throwing, tantrum meltdowns, and tard-raging against any woman in the field who is younger, thinner, prettier or more popular than her (not a difficult bar to clear) and just any other woman in general. This is a woman who literally admitted that, in her thirties, she wrote a long screed to her crush asking him to love her back, he rejected and ghosted her, she attempted suicide by literally sitting in the woods (after scaring all her friends by letting them know she was on her way out) and when it didn't take, she walked back to the hostel and fucked the first teen hitchhiker she saw.
Her main draw is looking like a hip, quirky middle-aged goth girl and talking openly about death-related topics which appeals to equally quirky girls who assume that they're a wiser and more mature and interesting breed because they are fixated on death as a topic of interest, yet not having the maturity to realize that most people aren't comfortable talking about death because it's painful and intimate, not because they're afraid or ignorant. Yet if you read her books she's constantly deriding clients for being backwards, stupid, naive, and unprepared, when really anyone with an emotional IQ above retard level sees that they're really shocked and in pain from their loved one's death, which in general doesn't make the average person receptive to her excited, glib gushing that their beloved mom will soon be getting eaten by worms.
Why worms? Because she's a fervent anti-embalmer, anti-viewer, basically anti-anything vaguely western, since she's a massive fetishist of precious POC death and funerary customs, mixed with being an insufferable lefty who insists that embalming will ruin the environment (surely a pressing topic when compared to India dumping trash in the ocean) and constantly presses "green burials" as an alternative even though most are pseudoscience and not even more affordable or environmentally friendly. Most morticians can't stand her ass, because she repeatedly insists to impressionable viewers that funeral directors are snide vultures out to con them, despite the fact that she couldn't even run her own funeral home without pawning it off onto subordinates (who also ghostwrote her best-selling books) so that she could spend more time hawking the importance of "death doulas" (a job for unemployed BPD/woo cat ladies) and building Order of the Good Death, an organization ostensibly made with the intent of connecting others with thanatology, but which instead is just some fluff project run alongside her liberal arts buddies, one of whom is a notorious nymphomaniac from Vanity Fair who wrote numerous articles on how she felt inadequate unless she was sending nudes to strangers.
Also, she is fat with terrible hair.
tl;dr Fuck Caitlin Doughty's astroturfed ass.