i get stuff like this sometimes too '-'
a few weeks ago i posted some pics of new outfits that made me really happy in a small discord for friends to see, i got a lot of compliments, but some compliments were like "you're such a pretty woman" and such, but i'm non-binary
(there is a complication in that i'm plural, my only other headmate is a woman, but i am not, and we typically interact with others as the whole system, which is just non-binary, and i was the one fronting at the time)
i took it as them complimenting me on my transition but like, still it felt bad to have to correct my own friends who are also trans about it