I was gaslit into bottoming for a grindr guy self.ftm
Submitted 18 hours ago by
Tu_Trans_Tiburon
Story time for all my T boy homies! This happened months ago, I decided to have a little hoe phase and downloaded grindr (again). I always knew myself to be a top and for once I tried bottoming a few months ago (with a trans woman that I had YEARS of trust and knowing) . I was convinced that the only person I could bottom for was that T girl.
A grindr guy hit me up, saying he always wanted to fuck a trans man. I was like: hold up I’m a top. He was like: oh that’s fine we can do oral sex, etc. I agreed, since he seemed to not be transphobic and kinda chill. But during text he would say
“oh I want to fuck you. I want to feel inside of you.” I said “dude I’m going to block you. I told you I’m not going to bottom for you.” He was like “oh no I’m sorry, I am just saying what I wish could happen.” I was like

the audacity. I just said we aren’t going to be doing that. Keep your wishes to yourself. So we have a one night stand , and it was fine- he respected my boundaries. Had some sus convos with him. He was “just learning about trans people”. I went over for a second time, but I had a bad feeling. I agreed I could bottom for him with only condom. He kept whining and complaining about the condom making his dick soft. He kept saying , “oh we won’t be able to have sex with a condom, it makes me soft- oh look the condom fell off.”
“Can I just go inside of you for 30 seconds?” “No.” “Please? It will be quick. Why are you so worried? Why are you killing the vibes?” Me: -_- dude YOU are killing the vibes. How hard is it to respect boundaries? He then convinced me to bottom without condom and it was more than 30 seconds. What do you guys think? Was I gaslit? He is a jerk right? I blocked his ass a few hours after the hookup.