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Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious
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It's not an STD, this started like 20 minutes after I got home. This is 100% just chemical irritation.
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Fuck no that’s not common, nor have I heard of anyone else doing this. Perfume on your vagina would absolutely lead to itching or infection, if not mild irritation. The tissue of the vulva is extremely sensitive because the internal folds are all mucus membranes. The ingredients in perfume or heavily perfumed washes and creams are extremely irritating to begin with, even on your regular skin- so much so that a great number of both men and women have to purchase scent free products regularly. You’re likely having a reaction to lotion or something that was on your lady love’s thighs or groin.
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Either way some rubber wouldn't do as much harm as whatever is causing that irritation. Isn't it supposed to be self-cleaning? What's the point of adding perfume to it?
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It may seem silly but a lot of women are genuinely concerned about what they smell like. There are all sorts of douches that advertise how great they are at eliminating odours. It's a bad idea to use them, because it is indeed self-cleaning and interfering with that can cause all sorts of issues, but the market does exist.
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I understand the existence of the self-consciousness that some women have about their smell (believe me I met the ones who didn't care at all), the best advice I could give is to not let semen into the vagina because that's what causes the fishy smell when interacting with the vagina bacteria (i think?). I really don't know that much, probably just some warm water would do some good.
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You're doing everything around the house, sounds like a pretty sweet arrangement from his point of view. Why exactly would he want to change?
If he respected you and your time, he would, but he clearly places no value on those things and is 100% into him being comfortable.
I have a friend who's married to this exact kind of man. She has kids with him, works full time, does all household chores and childcare and has to beg through tears and frustration for him to address his ADHD and lack of contributions, only for him to recede into a shell of uwu you raising your voice just makes me more depwessed and not do anything.
This man will ruin your life.
This is how shitty men think about relationships with their talks of tables and their alleged high value. A good man is a partner you team up with who instinctively wants to make your life easier (and you his, of course).
Whatever chemistry you have will be gradually eroded by his laziness and disrespect.
I'd be hesitant to give him a few months' chance because that's usually a time frame where after a wake-up call they temporarily change, only to slide back to their shitty default. Are you willing to give him 6-12 months to show the change (if it happens
) is permanent?
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Forgive my long post this thread has been more interesting than I thought it was going to be.
I have noticed that some Women tend to absolutely hate autists. This becomes a real problem when these women have positions of power or authority over people and they posses irrational hatred. You will find this a lot in some kind of technical field. The problem is that some of those autists are really fucking good at really useful stuff and treating them like trash is fucking retarded and a waste. You want to get shit done, sometimes the guy who is a bit awkward really knows how to do it and save you money, time and hassle.
The way to fix this is to have the autist repeatedly make the woman's life easier by way of his skills and intelligence etc. Once this happens they can start to have a good working relationship.
This doesn't apply to Romantic relationships.
I think you are going about this is the wrong way entirely. You need to be in situations where you are kind of forced to interact with people you might want to make into friends a bunch over time. I have been in a lot of different places and had to make friends with people there. It is always a bit awkward in the beginning with people even with the extremely charismatic and personable people. It can take a month for it to feel more natural even when both people respect each other and like interacting.
The best way to do this is just to find something you have an interest in and other women also have interest in and then try and have fun around it. Even if it is a bit awkward for a while so long as that thing is fun you'll keep doing it.
Keep at it.
It just takes time to get to really know people. It has taken me years to really get to know some people well to the point they would tell me stuff they wouldn't tell anyone else and to listen to the advice I have given them.
It can also be hard when you are a young adult because your life can be constantly shifting. You have friend in High School, then you go to college and have to make new friends, then you leave college and get a job and have to make friends there.
Men can sometimes learn this earlier in smaller scale and then realize the more extreme cases. Though they won't if they stay in their mother's basement doing nothing.
I dislike the clinic terminology and feel around this topic tbh. It is just a really difficult time and humans when under extreme amounts of stress can stop functioning properly. This is not some aberration or sickness necessarily. Would it be normal for your best friend to die in your arms and for you to be unaffected? No of course not and of course women will be affected by having to care for their child.
We forget this because infant mortality is now really low, but children used to die all the time and an extremely nervous mother that worried about everything could have been the difference between a child not getting sick, then from dying and them living.
I know this is a basically a dumb question and you are retarded but there is an interesting question buried in it.
I have noticed that some Women tend to absolutely hate autists. This becomes a real problem when these women have positions of power or authority over people and they posses irrational hatred. You will find this a lot in some kind of technical field. The problem is that some of those autists are really fucking good at really useful stuff and treating them like trash is fucking retarded and a waste. You want to get shit done, sometimes the guy who is a bit awkward really knows how to do it and save you money, time and hassle.
The way to fix this is to have the autist repeatedly make the woman's life easier by way of his skills and intelligence etc. Once this happens they can start to have a good working relationship.
This doesn't apply to Romantic relationships.
I think you are going about this is the wrong way entirely. You need to be in situations where you are kind of forced to interact with people you might want to make into friends a bunch over time. I have been in a lot of different places and had to make friends with people there. It is always a bit awkward in the beginning with people even with the extremely charismatic and personable people. It can take a month for it to feel more natural even when both people respect each other and like interacting.
The best way to do this is just to find something you have an interest in and other women also have interest in and then try and have fun around it. Even if it is a bit awkward for a while so long as that thing is fun you'll keep doing it.
Keep at it.
It just takes time to get to really know people. It has taken me years to really get to know some people well to the point they would tell me stuff they wouldn't tell anyone else and to listen to the advice I have given them.
It can also be hard when you are a young adult because your life can be constantly shifting. You have friend in High School, then you go to college and have to make new friends, then you leave college and get a job and have to make friends there.
This is why I don't really respect women who are not mothers in terms of their capability. (there are rare exceptions though) Motherhood is extremely difficult and it forces people to be a lot stronger. Once you realize it is all up to you and people or in this case a child will live or die because of you, you gain an extremely large and important chunk of wisdom.
Men can sometimes learn this earlier in smaller scale and then realize the more extreme cases. Though they won't if they stay in their mother's basement doing nothing.
This type of thing reminds me of the stories of how some people are affected by war. Fear is a good thing in that situation and it will keep you alive. Or in the case of a woman worrying about her child it will keep her child alive.
I dislike the clinic terminology and feel around this topic tbh. It is just a really difficult time and humans when under extreme amounts of stress can stop functioning properly. This is not some aberration or sickness necessarily. Would it be normal for your best friend to die in your arms and for you to be unaffected? No of course not and of course women will be affected by having to care for their child.
We forget this because infant mortality is now really low, but children used to die all the time and an extremely nervous mother that worried about everything could have been the difference between a child not getting sick, then from dying and them living.
Thanks for the replies I was a little surprised by the content but only a little bit.
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I see you're back to giant autism posts. Did you enjoy your vacation?
Not saying you're wrong about anything you said or that it's uninteresting, I just hope you know most people aren't going to read all dat
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I'm too autistic to tell if this is a shitpost, so I'm just gonna answer sincerely.
Vaginal smell is determined by a number of things, but the biggest one is going to be hormones and where she is on her hormone cycle. It will be different if she's on her period or if she's ovulating, that kind of thing. Anything that affects hormones, like diet or stress levels are also contributing factors into determining the smell of a lady's parts.
A vagina can have a fishy smell for hormonal reasons.
I shant comment on the semen, seems a bit too unladylike for this very classy post. /sneed
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No… some ladies are obsessed with “being clean” to an unhealthy, not clean, degree (no doubt because of the beauty industry)… nothing is supposed to go down there. It’s not supposed to smell like flowers. And if it somehow smells bad enough that you need COLOGNE, there’s something wrong.
tell her to stop, unironically
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I’ve read a convincing argument that this was actually a stealthy way to sell a “contraceptive” in such a way that men wouldn’t understand that’s what it was actually for. The idea being that it kills sperm. A nightmarish idea, but I suppose it’s better than being forced into pregnancy just because your husband doesn’t want to wear a condom and you have no right to refuse him.
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Dump him or give him the ultimatum to either start seeing the doctor/therapist for his ADHD or the relationship is off. The fact that he doesn't want to see the doctor for his issues means that he doesn't respect you enough to take this idea into the consideration and probably takes you for granted as somebody that's gonna always be there to put up with his behavior no matter what. Yes, I know that there might the possibility that he might not want to see the doctor or therapist because he might some fear of them, but that doesn't mean you should have to put up with his behavior. Ask yourself would he charitable with you like this as you're charitable with him if the situation was in reverse.
Even if you guys went through many things and hardships together that should not be the thing to hold you back. The "ride or die"/"fuck it we ball together" mentality can only work if both parties grow and change as people in these hardships.
Pretty important, at least to me. Without getting too much into personal details, I was put in situations during my childhood and growing up that made me realize how important the ability to be able to get out very unhealthy relationships that function on one party heavily depending on the other and having your own money really is.
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One of my gf used coconut oil as a lubricant and moisturizer.
I associate the smell of it to her now.
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Ah shit I forgot I posted in that thread a bunch. I be a man, one that bothers women very much indeed.A lesbian giving semen related advice?
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A lot of males, myself included, default to doing as little as necessary to keep their space habitable. It's not like we sweep, mop, and dust regularly until a woman shows up to offload tasks.
For a couple years, she'd ask me to do more, and I didn't, not really, amd it caused conflict. Why didn't I do more? Because I literally do not see that the house needs to be vacuumed. I'd probably vacuum once a month or less without her.
What did work is agreeing to specific tasks at specific times. I clean up the dishes after a meal (she cooks). I vacuum on Saturday. I clean the master bathroom when she does the kids' bathroom.
I suggest asking your boyfriend to do perhaps two specific tasks on specific times.
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Specialization exists, yes.
"Be instrumental to be treated a little less shitty"
Being instrumental to someone does not mean they start to see you as a person. It means they see you as an instrument. This comes across like "the office Milton will be less abused if the office Milton is more useful" which we know is a lie.