I don't really get why they would ban people from stating that, it's not like you can force someone to have sex with people they're not into. The trans takeover is an outgrowth of that mentality that you need to be open to banging certain types of people or else.
Grindr did say, when blocking the ability to specify the 'nos', that it wanted people to focus on what they
do like, which makes things kinder.
Of course, when you're infected by woke, your thinking skills go out the window. Grindr thinks it's kinder to read 'into skinny/thin, normal weight, or in-shape/muscular/athletic guys' instead of 'no fats'. Grindr thinks it's kinder to list every race that you are into so that you can specifically leave out the race that you're
not into.
But even if you can accept Grindr's reasoning - after all, fat men are men, femme men are men, Asian men are men, and any other qualifier you want to put in there, except of course 'trans'. Trans men are women, but Grindr desperately wants real men to try and ignore that. Grindr chants the prayers (trans men are men! Trans women are women! Non-binary identities are valid!) and mumbles the dogmas (gay men are same 'gender' attracted, not same-sex attracted!) of the trans movement.
Ultimately, Grindr and all the other gender cultists are banking on a somehow evern more deranged Pascal's wager (a 17th century philosophical argument about why you
should believe in God.) They
want you to believe trans men are men, and even though you
can't believe it, because you have the evidence of your senses, you have the coherency of your own thoughts, you remember the time before the Party altered the history of Oceania, they have a solution. You can utter the gender catechism and
act as if you do believe, and eventually, when you have been damaged enough by the repetition, by the weight of your own hypocrisy in uttering the unbelievable to survive your job, your social circle, the law of the land, you too may come to believe. Pascal:
But at least learn your inability to believe, since reason brings you to this, and yet you cannot believe. Endeavor then to convince yourself, not by increase of proofs of God, but by the abatement of your passions. You would like to attain faith, and do not know the way; you would like to cure yourself of unbelief and ask the remedy for it. Learn of those who have been bound like you, and who now stake all their possessions. These are people who know the way which you would follow, and who are cured of an ill of which you would be cured. Follow the way by which they began; by acting as if they believed, taking the holy water, having masses said, etc. Even this will naturally make you believe, and deaden your acuteness.