Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[everybody in Portugal]

Alex doesn't need section 8, you guys, she's a Social Media creator/star. Definitely pulling in the big bucks with all her brand sponsorships and monetised non-Ari content and custom merch orders, honest injun she is.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

She undoubtedly could get it, but I have a hard time believing that her luxury high-rise is compatible.

She might not be able to get it in FL. I dunno what the situation is exactly, but Alex said she's not eligible for caregiver money in FL so I'd think that'd make it a no for other services as well. I wonder if it's a residency thing or what the impediment is.

 

[Octopi]

Sorry, I think she is garbage too, but this is literally what people in this thread were wanting her to do.

Not the point at all. Her taking classes is a good thing, if it achieves so much as holding her accountable to some degree. The point is that she's acting like she's suddenly decided to take DCFS up on their offer of classes, when Ari is 1+ year old and Alex has spent that entire year insisting she's a good mom who doesn't need any help whatsoever. Anyone with 1 brain cell can tell she did not choose to start taking these classes of her own free will all of a sudden.

Basically: just like everything else she posts, it's a crock of shit.

 

[often puzzled]

Yeah, I don't think this was a case of Alex admitting that she needs help. I think she's been compelled to take the classes and therapy. I don't know why she's choosing to disclose that she's engaging with services-- maybe to stop further calls? Or just to twist this into a win for her?

She was very resistant to DCFS/CPS aid all along. After one of the earlier calls-- maybe even one in Chicago?-- a worker made the suggestion that they seek respite care for Noah. It was a reasonable suggestions: Noah was caring for Alex and Ari, and anyone would get burned out under those circumstances. Noah was enthusiastic about the idea, but Alex shot it down.

Maybe someone more familiar with services can clear this up: I thought that the DCFS services were more of a thing you're compelled to interact with if a case worker has identified issues, versus something you have the option of engaging with, even though DCFS totally said that you're the best parents ever, and haters are really stupid. I know that social services in non-US countries can simply offer services in a less-punitive way, just to make sure parents and caregivers are adequately supported, but I didn't really think the US system functioned like that. I don't know, though, and I could be wrong-- so now I'm just curious in general.

Anyway, Alex shared another grid post, featuring Ari lunging for whoever is holding the camera-- I mean, totally interacting with Alex! We've also got yet another self-congratulatory caption.

Image:



Text (comments are sanitized and monitored):

Spoiler: copy-paste of post text

My body did this.

It grew my beautiful daughter. Into the most funny, smart, big, strong, beautiful little girl.

When I was younger, and even as a teen, I had no idea my body was capable of carrying a pregnancy.

Although many women with my disease have had children, everyone’s medical history and severity of the disease is different and poses different risks.

I would say my biggest risk overarchingly was my lung capacity — which was 24% at the time.

I gave birth at 34 weeks — which was a HUGE win for all of us. Now I am blessed with my beautiful girl that is getting so big she takes up my entire lap!

Cheers to how fcking cool and miraculous bodies are

 

[Pudgy Bear Claws]

Wow, Ari is almost as big as Alex.

 

[everybody in Portugal]

Although many women with my disease have had children

Sounds like someone has an eye on their thread and is butthurt that we are talking about other SMA mums who aren't an absolute dumpster fire. Hi, Alex! Stop posting your kiddo and parenting of her online and maybe people will stop commenting on your kiddo and your parenting of her?

Like, obviously not entirely, cos shes a woman and that's just what the world does to women. But she's making it much, much worse by exploiting the poor kid for content like she does. She brings this on herself.

 

[Randomrando]

a worker made the suggestion that they seek respite care for Noah. It was a reasonable suggestions: Noah was caring for Alex and Ari, and anyone would get burned out under those circumstances. Noah was enthusiastic about the idea, but Alex shot it down.

This strikes me as so unbelievably cruel of Alex.

 

[glass_houses]

This strikes me as so unbelievably cruel of Alex.

Welcome to narcissistic personality disorder. They don't care if you're a complete physical and mental wreck sobbing helplessly in the corner and begging for just a moment of relief, they are the most important person that ever existed, and you're just lazy and selfish and only thinking of yourself. It's mind blowing what they can wave aside. This is why there are so many stories of qweers, troons and pooners coming out during family funeral services, or showing up to weddings looking like a freakshow.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

I worked for a time in a position where as part of my gig I helped old folks find respite workers so their caregivers could leave the house once in a while. Sadly, this kind of attitude is all too common from what I've seen. "Oh, you're physically/emotionally wrecked by tending to my every need for countless days/months? But what if I don't like the respite worker? So what if they're here for a tiny period of time? What if I'm not totally comfortable at all times?!?!" It is heartbreaking.

 

[Barbarella]

I worked for a time in a position where as part of my gig I helped old folks find respite workers so their caregivers could leave the house once in a while.

At least some of the elderly have the start of dementia and age-related fear and inflexibility to explain some of their selfishness. Not so for Alex, who has been hiring perfect strangers to wipe her ass since she was a teen. If she’s like this now, can you imagine what she’d be like at 80? Fortunately, we’ll never know.

Ari is going to be in for a rough time though. No matter how many times Alex has said she won’t allow her daughter to become her caregiver, it’s inevitable. She’s probably already asking Ari to bring her stuff. Ari seems an easy compliant child and we saw her grabbing stuff out of the fridge. It will start slow but by 4 it’s going to be “Ari, get Mama another beer!” She might be wiping Alex’s ass before she’s out of pull-ups.

 

[RainbowStarlight]

Hannah continuing to go on retard dad podcast and also reddit makes her as big a lolcow as Alex. This is one big white trash slap fight.

 

[My cravat doesn't flutter]

Welcome to narcissistic personality disorder. They don't care if you're a complete physical and mental wreck sobbing helplessly in the corner and begging for just a moment of relief, they are the most important person that ever existed, and you're just lazy and selfish and only thinking of yourself. It's mind blowing what they can wave aside. This is why there are so many stories of qweers, troons and pooners coming out during family funeral services, or showing up to weddings looking like a freakshow.

While Noah hasn't made as big of a change as we initially thought, he's actually stuck around. We were all taking bets on how long it would take the man to dip and he hasn't. That's massive and Alex doesn't realize how fortunate she is. I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if she was pulling an "if you leave me, you'll never see your kid again" on him. In a perfect world, Noah would get sole custody of Ari, ditch Alex, and move back in with his parents. Noah will never get better with Alex weighing him down.

edit: spelling

 

[often puzzled]

Alex did an Instagram Q&A. There's nothing really groundbreaking in it, though she does claim that the alcoholism accusations are because she went through a party girl phase prior to having Ari-- choosing to ignore the fact that "alcoholic party girl" seems to be her permanent way of life. She obviously cherry-picked questions and picked compliments, but it doesn't appear that there were a whole lot of compliments to share.

The Q&A box:



The questions and answers:

Spoiler: the Q&A slides

Kind of impressive to look at all those photos of her by the water in the black top and realize she had someone snap off that many photos.

Other story posts from today:

 

[often puzzled]

Not a ton from Alex. Every time I say that and post the stuff I've been sitting on, she does something newsworthy, so here's hoping.

Worry about those tragic brows instead:



Surprised that toddlers wreck everything:



"Toot" is a dumb nickname:



Grid post photo:

Spoiler: caption and comments

Wipe your kid's face. Oh, wait, you can't:



Posted the next day, though clearly from the same photoshoot:



Happy Memorial Day! Anyway, here's a half-naked selfie:

 

[The Judean People's Front]

I feel like she has to contort herself a lot more than she used to to hold up that phone. It's pretty creepy looking.

 

[often puzzled]

I feel like she has to contort herself a lot more than she used to to hold up that phone. It's pretty creepy looking.

I know that it's a progressive condition, but she's been going downhill quickly. She's surely not positioned correctly in that wheelchair, either-- it looks like she's sitting at a pretty steep angle (back of the seat much lower than the front), and she's kind of sideways. You're supposed to get regular fit checks to make sure that your wheelchair is doing the most for you that it can, but I can't imagine that she gets those. They'd replace that eternally-broken strap if they ever did that.

She also looks really puffy in the photo from the grid post-- just generally unwell, the kind of puffiness you associate with illness or way too much drinking. She doesn't take care of herself at all, which really makes me hope that grandma and grandpa are steering Ari's medical care. I can't even see Alex realizing that Ari's teeth needs brushing; she seems like the type of person who figures that baby teeth are expendable, since they fall out anyway.

 

[Free the Pedos]

Do you guys think Alex likes her crop tops because she enjoys drawing attention to her unusual abdomen since any attention is better than no attention to her? Or does she really think she’s such a snack she can’t help showing as much skin as possible?

 

[Adventarius]

I know that it's a progressive condition, but she's been going downhill quickly.

I daresay, her pregnancy accelerated the progress. A pregnancy puts a strain on every woman, but the impact on a disabled body like Alex' probably takes the size of the Chicxulub crater.

She clearly needs more professionals to take care of her multiple problems and ailments, but she won't have it - she's pushing this strong disabled mom narrative so hard, as if she isn't disabled at all. Sometimes her behaviour reminds me of a petulant little kid, not of a grown woman.

 

[Terfatron]

"The way we play chase"
Lol, like that's not a recipe for disaster.

But sure, alcoholic mr Toad over here is the face of child saftey

 

[TismFarmer]

it looks like she's sitting at a pretty steep angle (back of the seat much lower than the front), and she's kind of sideways.

I think she needs that extreme dump (angle of seat) as she literally can't keep herself in the seat anymore. Her body needs to be propped up like her arm does to take selfies...