Considering EVS's dogshit childhood that he keeps trying to recontextualize as some boomer argument "back in my day" type of shit, it's not as surprising in retrospect that he would have the gall to try an argue that Rekieta's kids are the ones in the wrong. From his brother Noah's account in "One Dirty Tree", their father Harvey was a derelict absentee failure of a family man, who semi-abandoned his family to be a weed-smoking hippie, leaving his 9 kids to live in poverty and fend for themselves. Sound a bit familiar?
EVS trying his hardest to reformat his father as some heroic alpha male instead of what he actually is, just another abusive jobless piece of shit dad, seems relevant to Rekieta's case. EVS being "self-sufficient" and an artist by his teen years, wasn't because of some drive sparked by his Dad's sternness and parenting, it was literally because his Dad wasn't fucking around the house because he was getting high. I'm guessing that's why EVS is now gonna cope with Rekieta's lack of parenting, because of his own rose-tinted memory of his shitty father's lack of parenting.