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- Feb 6, 2013
Foodies rages always confuse me, because she makes all of these statements about FFG being overweight, unattractive, etc, while completely ignoring the fact that she's all of those things to the absolute extreme.
I’ve never seen her throw an insult at someone that couldn’t apply to her, it’s fascinating, ik there’s a self aware voice inside of her head that escapes on the rare occasion
She's a narcissist with very little imagination, so to excuse her own flaws (the ones she can't deny) she has to minimize, normalize or justify.
Minimizing would be, for example, saying Salah didn't really cheat on her because it wasn't in person, or how she didn't go to Nadar's house and look through his windows, she went to his house and the window just happened to be at her height and she happened to take inventory of everything on the kitchen table and which lights were on in which rooms when she knocked on the door.
Normalizing (sorry for everyone who just read my theory on her normalizing a little ways back, this may sound repetitive) is her saying things like "no one actually brushes their teeth every day" or "everyone's house is as messy as mine, or worse" or, as you hear the most "They all weigh the same as me, or MORE."
If she makes herself the baseline then no one has the right to judge her or demand she change (or reject her advances)
Justifying would be how yes, she rages and looks/addict/weight/word-of-the-day shames but it's not as bad as (insert any reactor) and its only in self defense, or how her house was a mess and cats were neglected because she was in an abusive relationship (her words, not mine. I know she's just a slob), or her favourite; she was drunk or high so she was not responsible for anything she said or did and YOU'RE the bad person for judging her while she was in that state.
No one is important enough to be real to Chantal outside of herself. Everyone else is there as a prop or to be used and disposed of when she's done. So when she HAS to think of others the only way she really can is in reference to herself.
Yet she has a whole laundry list of "must haves" in a man, starting with he has to be hot and he has to be fit.
I remember her also saying once that she also needed a man with good hygiene, yet she'll be the first to screech about fat/mental health/lazy shaming or whatever if anyone says the same about her.
She thinks she's got "pretty privilege" and should be able to get any man she wants but she could have the prettiest face in the world squeezing out of that hajib like flesh toothpaste and it wouldn't be enough for the average looking man to ignore even one of her numerous personality flaws.
Imagine though the man she could have bought if she'd saved her money instead of eating, shopping, smoking and gambling it all away. Instead the best she could do was rent a throwaway NEET.