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As a mother of five sons mashaAllah, I want to raise men. Masculine men.
I just had a conversation that highlighted to me just how difficult a task this may prove to be in today’s world. الله المستعان.
I was talking to a fellow Muslim mom of boys yesterday, and she told me something shocking and disturbing. Her 16-year-old son witnessed something at his American public high school that she only discovered by going through his phone.
On her son’s phone, this mother found a video sent to her son by a classmate: a recording of two male students simulating the sex act in the boys’ locker room at school. One boy is a senior, 17 years old, and he is shown enthusiastically and aggressively “dry humping” a 15-year-old sophomore boy. The two are surrounded by a crowd of male high school students: some staring silently, others giggling awkwardly, others with their phones out taking a video of the event.
It was their standard hazing ritual. A process of “initiation” into the football team of the high school.
In this average high school in Texas, boys have hazing rituals for the newbies. These are tests that must be “passed” in order for a new student to get into a sports team or accepted into a group of males.
The test here was for one boy to accept being feminized, being a “bottom” in simulated sodomy, forced into a submissive position by an older more dominant boy.
This is a widespread thing among the current young generation of boys. This woman is the third mother I have heard of this act from in this past year. This is not an isolated incident– it is a gathering social phenomenon.
For the majority of human history, a boy became a man by competing and winning something, or by hunting and killing something, or by building and creating something good for the group. There were battles to be fought, and these made men of boys. There was wisdom that was passed down from the male elders to the youngsters. There were known rites of passage that marked the transition of boys into men in traditional societies. Men have no rites of passage today.
No rituals or performances or markers of masculinity.
No social encouragement to attain full manhood.
In fact, today masculinity has been villianized and manhood vilified.
Today, we have the criminalization of manhood and the feminization of men.
Amid the popular feminist slogans of “toxic masculinity!” and “fragile male ego!” of “insecure men” and the old “Men are trash!”:
How can true masculinity survive?
Feminist doctrine has killed masculinity.
Feminist dogma has criminalized manliness.
Then, feminists have the nerve to pout with entitlement and whine, “Where are all the good men at??”
Nowhere.
There ARE no more good men left. No more masculine men.
You’ve shamed, degraded, mocked, vilified, villainized, criminalized, and pathologized them all.
This social engineering project has led to a generation of soft, pudgy, weak, meek, inept males who have never quite matured.
A generation of indecisive, submissive, hesitant, effeminate guys who can’t show any sort of healthy dominance or vigor or forcefulness for fear of being labeled misogynist or violent or chauvinistic.
A generation of aimless boys who have never blossomed into full-grown men.
A generation of males who worry more about the shape of their eyebrows and the products in their hair than about their responsibilities or their valor.
A generation of chubby males whose testosterone has plummeted due to soy and estrogen in food they eat.
A generation of sedentary, docile guys who are indoors more than they are outdoors, due to addictions to screens, technology, social media worlds.
A generation of guys who are distracted by fashion, pornography, drugs, alcohol, social trends, video games, food, and devices from their masculinity roles of leadership, duty, responsibility, self-control, authority, and stewardship. They are too busy color-coordinating their clothes and playing games online and watching porn to protect, provide, or lead. They aren’t allowed or trained to be protective or possessive or purposeful.
A generation of males who can only simulate masculinity, can only mimic manliness in a strange, twisted parody.
And since these modern males have been deprived of true rites of passage into manhood, they have created their own.
Rituals of hazing, reflecting the hyper-sexualized and degenerate state of modern society.
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When society eliminates true manhood and healthy masculinity, the nature of men tries to assert itself, but it comes out in perverted ways. Men still long to compete, to vanquish, to dominate– but since all traditional avenues have been blocked by feminism, this comes out secretly in sick hazing rituals in the locker rooms and bathrooms of American schools.
Our boys are undergoing an identity crisis in this feminist gyno-centric world order. Their natural inclinations have been warped, muted, mutilated.
Men, reclaim your identity and take back your power.
Bring back true masculinity.
We must raise our boys into men.
As a mother of five sons mashaAllah, I want to raise men. Masculine men.
I just had a conversation that highlighted to me just how difficult a task this may prove to be in today’s world. الله المستعان.
I was talking to a fellow Muslim mom of boys yesterday, and she told me something shocking and disturbing. Her 16-year-old son witnessed something at his American public high school that she only discovered by going through his phone.
On her son’s phone, this mother found a video sent to her son by a classmate: a recording of two male students simulating the sex act in the boys’ locker room at school. One boy is a senior, 17 years old, and he is shown enthusiastically and aggressively “dry humping” a 15-year-old sophomore boy. The two are surrounded by a crowd of male high school students: some staring silently, others giggling awkwardly, others with their phones out taking a video of the event.
It was their standard hazing ritual. A process of “initiation” into the football team of the high school.
In this average high school in Texas, boys have hazing rituals for the newbies. These are tests that must be “passed” in order for a new student to get into a sports team or accepted into a group of males.
The test here was for one boy to accept being feminized, being a “bottom” in simulated sodomy, forced into a submissive position by an older more dominant boy.
This is a widespread thing among the current young generation of boys. This woman is the third mother I have heard of this act from in this past year. This is not an isolated incident– it is a gathering social phenomenon.
For the majority of human history, a boy became a man by competing and winning something, or by hunting and killing something, or by building and creating something good for the group. There were battles to be fought, and these made men of boys. There was wisdom that was passed down from the male elders to the youngsters. There were known rites of passage that marked the transition of boys into men in traditional societies. Men have no rites of passage today.
No rituals or performances or markers of masculinity.
No social encouragement to attain full manhood.
In fact, today masculinity has been villianized and manhood vilified.
Today, we have the criminalization of manhood and the feminization of men.
Amid the popular feminist slogans of “toxic masculinity!” and “fragile male ego!” of “insecure men” and the old “Men are trash!”:
How can true masculinity survive?
Feminist doctrine has killed masculinity.
Feminist dogma has criminalized manliness.
Then, feminists have the nerve to pout with entitlement and whine, “Where are all the good men at??”
Nowhere.
There ARE no more good men left. No more masculine men.
You’ve shamed, degraded, mocked, vilified, villainized, criminalized, and pathologized them all.
This social engineering project has led to a generation of soft, pudgy, weak, meek, inept males who have never quite matured.
A generation of indecisive, submissive, hesitant, effeminate guys who can’t show any sort of healthy dominance or vigor or forcefulness for fear of being labeled misogynist or violent or chauvinistic.
A generation of aimless boys who have never blossomed into full-grown men.
A generation of males who worry more about the shape of their eyebrows and the products in their hair than about their responsibilities or their valor.
A generation of chubby males whose testosterone has plummeted due to soy and estrogen in food they eat.
A generation of sedentary, docile guys who are indoors more than they are outdoors, due to addictions to screens, technology, social media worlds.
A generation of guys who are distracted by fashion, pornography, drugs, alcohol, social trends, video games, food, and devices from their masculinity roles of leadership, duty, responsibility, self-control, authority, and stewardship. They are too busy color-coordinating their clothes and playing games online and watching porn to protect, provide, or lead. They aren’t allowed or trained to be protective or possessive or purposeful.
A generation of males who can only simulate masculinity, can only mimic manliness in a strange, twisted parody.
And since these modern males have been deprived of true rites of passage into manhood, they have created their own.
Rituals of hazing, reflecting the hyper-sexualized and degenerate state of modern society.
RELATED: Canada Bans Gay Conversion Therapy as “Torture”
When society eliminates true manhood and healthy masculinity, the nature of men tries to assert itself, but it comes out in perverted ways. Men still long to compete, to vanquish, to dominate– but since all traditional avenues have been blocked by feminism, this comes out secretly in sick hazing rituals in the locker rooms and bathrooms of American schools.
Our boys are undergoing an identity crisis in this feminist gyno-centric world order. Their natural inclinations have been warped, muted, mutilated.
Men, reclaim your identity and take back your power.
Bring back true masculinity.
We must raise our boys into men.
