the fundamental issue is that everyone is trying to do cpr on a rotting corpse, the magic is gone and no amount of SFMs, hilarious reddit memes or server making will give any of it back, no amount of quirky gamemodes, maps and tweaks will un-solve this game.
another issue is that its servers have become like the internet, centralized and mainstream, back in 2012 you could find a fuckton of servers that had their definition of playing the game, you had vanilla servers with lots of custom maps, you had trade servers, you had custom MvM servers, VSH, FF2 and mario kart, or if you wanted something more niche you had a chance of playing older (and now gone) gamemodes like wacky races, tower defense, warioware and smash fortress 2.
i miss this era of creativity, since now all we're stuck with is this endless sanitized slop of jailbreak, idle servers, prophunt, FF2, uncletopia/skial, orange servers, 2fort/dustbowl, x10/100/1000 and whatever other tranny mouthbreathing garbage there is to be.