People need to stop insisting that anyone saying anything other than "everything is Kayla's fault" is "cunt guarding." There is not a single individual saying that she is an innocent little oppressed uwu baby kitten. Nobody is saying that about April either. The lack of reading comprehension here lately is shocking to say the least. The question is who had what idea and at what point. Anything you could say about Kayla also applies to Nick. But I don't think we'll ever know.
I believe St. Balldo has reportedly told people it was Kayla's idea (or swinging was). If Nick Rekieta is the type person I think he is, then he is the type of person that would try to portray his idea as someone else's, so that he could have an "out" if shit hit the fan. That's also peak addict behavior. He would try to play the poor pitiful naive man who simply couldn't have said no to his wife because pussy, or something.
I hate deadbeat moms to the core, but forgive me for thinking the guy who has established himself as the big trad family man who is the head of the household over his wife (because muh Christian trad) was or is the captain steering the decrepit ship to Swinger Island. He, too, could've stopped this shit at any given time. Did he?