ven doe Misa Amane literally dresses up in gothic lolita fashion because japs like to pretend adult women are younger teenagers (because they want to have sex with children)
This is a stretch. This barely qualifies as lolita fashion (and resembles a more goth style). Misa is clearly an adult and when people talk about pedophilia in relation to lolicon, they're more so referencing the childlike appearance than the fashion which this barely qualifies as.
even doe Bulma is 16 at the start of Dragon Ball and she literally flashes her child pussy at Master Roshi (who would like to have sex with her because she is a child)
Master Roshi wants to have sex with any woman, Bulma also doesn't resemble a child.
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I wish, that I could turn back time.
Cause now the guilt is all mine!
and the fans are jacking off to them. The infamous scene pictured above was a deconstruction of that, and a criticism of the degenerate fans.
This scene doesn't exist as something to be titillating, as you admit. As for the fans, that's beyond his creation. Is any content that fans jack off over the fault of the creator when they're not making an intentionally sexy scene?
Never finished this one but I wouldn't be shocked to hear there was a joke somewhere about hooking up with 16 year olds because it's a show about gambling.
No, it's about overcoming impossible challenges to make ends meet. I don't even think there's a single female character prominently featured let alone mentioned. This is just your bias showing.
You cannot separate Japan's weird relationship with children from anime
Your criticisms here are about adolescents which I consider to be different from children which is what pedophiles and lolicons are really thirsting over. The portrayal of teenagers in media, West or East, is different.
You also should have mentioned Grave of the Fireflies, a movie about the firebombing of Japan, in which a little girl pisses for no reason
Why would I mention that? First, I've never even seen it. Second it would go against some of the ones I mentioned that have nothing to do with lolis or lolicon (as opposed to say Re:Zero who has a character that is one, though not sexualized but still a straight up lol).
Unless you're willing to make a hard statement that there should be no sexualized, sexual references or allusions of sex in romance for teenagers in any media, I don't think you should try to conflate any of that with lolicon.