Where do autistic females hangout? (besides this subforum...)
Genuinely trying to find other people on my wavelength, preferably not entirely fucking male or troons...
Autism presents way differently in women than men. They are often more socially functional when compared to males on the spectrum and I would say that in general they hide it a lot better as well.
There is no honeytrap for women with true and honest autism (not the self diagnosed "aren't I quirky twitter" kind) that I am aware of.
Autism presents way differently in women than men. They are often more socially functional when compared to males on the spectrum and I would say that in general they hide it a lot better as well.
There is no honeytrap for women with true and honest autism (not the self diagnosed "aren't I quirky twitter" kind) that I am aware of.
How important is weight/obesity to women, when looking for a guy as an attractive partner?
I'm a 5'10" at 240lbs~ (guestimating). I've got broad enough shoulders & a big enough chest where it doesn't spill out or make me look like a hamplanet, but it's obvious that I'm obese.
I want to exercise more for my own personal health, but I'm curious how much it really matters and why it matters.
How important is weight/obesity to women, when looking for a guy as an attractive partner?
I'm a 5'10" at 240lbs~ (guestimating). I've got broad enough shoulders & a big enough chest where it doesn't spill out or make me look like a hamplanet, but it's obvious that I'm obese.
I want to exercise more for my own personal health, but I'm curious how much it really matters and why it matters.
IMO it's a pretty big factor, YMMV when it comes to individual women but I am not fat and never have been and I would not be attracted to a man who was. To me it indicates a lack of self-control and self-care, esp for men (women get fat easier and lose fat with more difficulty). I'm not saying I'd recoil in revulsion from you, but it's something I really don't like. However I think I'm tougher on that than some other women. If I were you, I'd focus more on how you LOOK vs actual pounds, if that makes sense.
Where do autistic females hangout? (besides this subforum...)
Genuinely trying to find other people on my wavelength, preferably not entirely fucking male or troons...
Quarantine gave a lot of autistic women an excuse to never leave the house, when it ended a lot never bothered to return to their daily lives. If the quarantine didn't kick start the trend then it was at least the nail in the coffin. Why would they? Entire systems had been redone with the express purpose of catering to a population that had to stay indoors. And if you were just about to go to college, it's more than likely that whatever friend group they had gradually dissipated as people moved away for studies. So a reinforced internet that had a lot more suction power combined with not being dragged by their more socially gifted buddies out into the sun = no more autistic females in public.
Not trying to make any political statements about coofvid btw, just saying that this seemed like the perfect recipe for these certain types of women to not go outside anymore.
I don't think there is one. I think like @umami's milk pointed out, there's no incentive to go outside. Your best bet is to either hang out where those women hang out online and learn from them (don't go to those spaces looking for a partner, but just to observe) or to gently unstick this idea in your brain of wanting an autist gf. If you find someone in public, great, if you find someone online, also great, but I'm not going to blow smoke up your ass and tell you that things aren't more difficult now than they were ten years ago.
How important is weight/obesity to women, when looking for a guy as an attractive partner?
I'm a 5'10" at 240lbs~ (guestimating). I've got broad enough shoulders & a big enough chest where it doesn't spill out or make me look like a hamplanet, but it's obvious that I'm obese.
I want to exercise more for my own personal health, but I'm curious how much it really matters and why it matters.
I'll be direct. It's bad.
Think of it this way. The male body is about twice as strong as an equivalently-sized female. Not only that, but your body gains muscle more easily than women's bodies, and it's actually more difficult to gain fat given your naturally higher testosterone.
A fat man is an unhealthy man. It's not just about aesthetics (although that is a major factor). Don't also take this as me excusing women being overweight or telling you you have to accept a fat gf yourself. I'm only talking about men here.
Get fit, for yourself more than for women, but especially for yourself. You have a god-given advantage, and if you're overweight now, then just consider it a bulk. Your newbie gains will be awesome.
Most nonnies in relationships mention meeting someone through their friend group or dating apps. Those with online only relationships largely get made fun of over there and are told to stop wasting their time.
Your best bet is to either hang out where those women hang out online and learn from them (don't go to those spaces looking for a partner, but just to observe) or to gently unstick this idea in your brain of wanting an autist gf. If you find someone in public, great, if you find someone online, also great, but I'm not going to blow smoke up your ass and tell you that things aren't more difficult now than they were ten years ago.
I agree with this and the advice to get into boardgames and DnD. If you can find a group you click with it's a gateway into other circles, which at the very least will be connected to other autistic interests.
I agree with this and the advice to get into boardgames and DnD. If you can find a group you click with it's a gateway into other circles, which at the very least will be connected to other autistic interests.
Nothing kills a vibe quicker than acting desperate, especially when you’re in a nerdy group setting of any sort.
Even true and honest autistic women can smell the desperation when you try to bang her, or at least say that you do. Neither she, or any other women for that matter, are possessions to be “conquered” as the Manosphere types would put it.
Most nonnies in relationships mention meeting someone through their friend group or dating apps. Those with online only relationships largely get made fun of over there and are told to stop wasting their time.
I agree with this and the advice to get into boardgames and DnD. If you can find a group you click with it's a gateway into other circles, which at the very least will be connected to other autistic interests.
Nothing kills a vibe quicker than acting desperate, especially when you’re in a nerdy group setting of any sort.
Even true and honest autistic women can smell the desperation when you try to bang her, or at least say that you do. Neither she, or any other women for that matter, are possessions to be “conquered” as the Manosphere types would put it.
This is why I said earlier to also consider your social groups as links to possible romantic things, and not the link itself.
If you make genuine friends with the women in the DnD group, without wanting to bang them, then they're more likely to recommend you to their single friends, or bring up your name when someone is looking.
Similarly, this also works with men, a guy who genuinely thinks well of you might mention you to his own partner, and then she might know someone from there.
Do you think women don't really understand philosophy or at least have the ability to see the larger world beyond their own lives?
I came across an autistic Youtuber who said that men on the spectrum shouldn't date because they don't make good partners (he also has TDS though so he might be retarded). Do you think women would get annoyed by autistic tendencies? They say women don't like it when men don't speak or explain what they are thinking but it is quite annoying to have to go into details and explain yourself. I never want to tell my mother when I feel sick because then she wants a list of symptoms so if I had to live with a woman she may have to be austistic as well. And enjoy cleaning. In fact, it would be better if all meetings took place at her house.
Do you think women don't really understand philosophy or at least have the ability to see the larger world beyond their own lives?
I came across an autistic Youtuber who said that men on the spectrum shouldn't date because they don't make good partners (he also has TDS though so he might be retarded). Do you think women would get annoyed by autistic tendencies? They say women don't like it when men don't speak or explain what they are thinking but it is quite annoying to have to go into details and explain yourself. I never want to tell my mother when I feel sick because then she wants a list of symptoms so if I had to live with a woman she may have to be austistic as well. And enjoy cleaning. In fact, it would be better if all meetings took place at her house.
It's not a shit post, it's well known that men keep it short and women blabber. So if autism is involved then details are kept even shorter and apparently women don't like that. Also if you have no ability to produce dopamine and are therefore nihilistic and don't get mental feedback from doing any activities (as in transmitters rewarding you for doing something) and therefore don't have decision making abilities or a want to do anything in life, and only doing what you absolutely have to do to complete another day and get to go to bed at night and get a break from life, then women don't like that because they want men to make decisions and be pro active don't they?
