I am disabled doesn't mean I am not helpless. They babied me and that's where they went in the wrong. I want treated like a normal person. I'm not a helpless creature. I'm a human being and I want treated like such.
Gonna go ahead and powerlevel a bit here. Nothing too crazy, most BP girls know this about me to some extent.
You're treated in accordance to how you act, you act like a child, so you get treated like one.
Don't use being fucking disabled as an excuse, you're an embarrassment all on your own and giving disabled people a bad look when people already assume we're lazy and entitled.
I've said it before a few times but I' brain damaged, serious enough it flipped my personality, damaged my eyesight and gave me lifelong seizures. I don't cry "poor me, pity me!" I bring it up if it's relevant to a conversation or would make a good joke, but that's about it.
Guess what I DON'T do? Get butthurt when someone says I act like a sped, or talk like I'm brain damaged. Cuz maybe I do, or they're making fun. Either way, I laugh and move on. You don't get special treatment because you were born a failure, if you want respect, you earn it like everyone else.