@Mountain Gorilla
I think you're right about the general attitude that a lot of Americans have, but here are some issues I have with it:
If you'd discourage a man from attending to intrusive thoughts of murdering his own family, and not also discourage him from dwelling on gay (or related) thoughts that might pop into his head, then that difference in approach is purely because you have a different understanding of the definition of what's "harmful"—it has nothing to do with "freedom" or "liberty".
You say that trannies are sex pests "unlike a good chunk of gay people"—you couldn't even bring yourself to write "unlike
most gay people". I don't care about preserving the "rights" of this unicorn "business class" poopdick. Nobody in their right mind, in a sane world, should ever be in the position of having to think about this for more than two seconds. Assault is already illegal. You should absolutely lose opportunities where being a sex weirdo would be a problem or indication of a bad fit.
I'm wording that harshly not out of personal antipathy towards them, but to keep in mind what it is that we're actually talking about: let's not get too abstract, detached, or desensitized—we're talking about some of the most vile and pointless shit any two or more people can do together.
American values of freedom had absolutely no problem denying "rights" to people based on sexuality prior to 2015, when the Supreme Court imposed gay marriage on the country against its will—it couldn't even win a referendum in 2008 California, which was and is unequivocally the gayest place on Earth. Why should groups that aren't the same have the same rights and privileges?
The question shouldn't be whether or not excluding gays from the rights married straight people have is mean or "un-American". The question should be about how it's possible for a human being to sincerely and honestly advocate for something so fundamentally death-coded, fraternally incestuous, and anti-human.
That's all pretty negative stuff, so for a pallette cleanser I'll say that on the positive side I think we're making real leaps and bounds towards solving the problems that led to gay acceptance in the first place—or, more accurately, the problems that made it possible for that stuff to gain a foothold when it was pushed.
Deviant sexuality has given people an aesthetic vocabulary to describe their feelings towards one another as participants in various creative processes; they understand these processes mainly through bizarre sexual analogies.
That vocabulary can be tweaked and recontextualized into an athletic rather than sexual context, as long as you also add life-force. Everything is tension, release, and generation. That removes spiritual/psychological dependence on sexuality and reduces it to a purely physical habit/addiction.
There's good stuff coming