Puts me in mind of the kind of queer who describes himself as a homosexual who sees sexual union with another manly man as a natural part of being a warrior. The sort who romanticizes Ancient Greece, the Spartans, etc.
When they occur they do tend to be quite hostile to more effeminate gay men, particularly ones who describe themselves as queens, and in particular homosexual drag queens.
Back when there was seemingly a greater number of conservative gay men, working in trading and other high pressure occupations, this kind of “manly” homosexual activity was more of a thing.
What’s happened to them all now?