The notion that this guy is a closeted gay man is so tiring.
Autogynephilic men and gay men are not the same thing. Wanting to "feminize" a straight man makes no sense from a gay guy's perspective. If anything it's completely backwards. Gay men hate femininity on their romantic partners for the same reason straight women do.
Back in the '80s this practice was called 'turning' (as in: "That lad is so hot, I bet I can turn him"), and I'd argue that it was almost as prevalent then than it is now, and the modus operandi was identical - plying the young man with money until he acquiesced to sex.
The only difference was that it was pretty much frowned upon by the more mainstream homosexuals back then.
These guys aren't interested in women. They are interested in men, and specifically
young men. That is a homosexual, and there's no way in hell it can be force-fit into any definition of heterosexuality I know of.
There is some overlap between this group and paedophiles (some don't really care whether the "young man" they're targeting is, in fact, a child), and significant overlap with the "bareback/bug chasing" fetish. This is one of the reasons that this behaviour used to, and in many places still does, elicit disapproval.
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Regarding this particular unwholesome specimen:
-Good job on the dox.
-The fact that he's married doesn't mean much - back when there was a greater stigma against homosexuality it wasn't exactly uncommon for gay men to enter into marriages of convenience with lesbians to quell any suspicion within the local community. This was especially true in places which weren't exactly gay hubs or were more socially conservative.