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- Mar 24, 2016
Becky, asked the obvious question about her birthday self-inflicted booboo, tells a follower she is worried that her relationships with her two husbands, her boyfriend that she "loves so much," and her roommate are just sex and not friendship-based.
Next month, Becky will take Hannah to Disneyland for the D23 convention and expo, Hannah's first time ever seeing anyone other than her family, her mother's smelly sex partners, and pediatrics staff. If Hannah screams and cries at seeing the massive crowds, lights, and sounds, that will mean she has sensory sensitivities and clear evidence she should be presumed autistic. If Hannah is absolutely awed by the experiece, smiles and googoo gagas at Mickey Mouse and claps her hands for the first time when she sees fireworks, that's definitely sensory-seeking behavior and clear evidence she should be presumed autistic.
She is now six months old. No one is giving her first tastes of food (and don't tell me that's because they're very educated on child-led weaning and believe breast is best for the first six months, all the 'wait til 6 months to feed' advice is out the window when it's a formula-fed infant). No one is taking her on any adventures anywhere. Even though she's obviously becoming more interactive and interested in the world, she's not even allowed to roll around on the floor and explore. They won't take her to the park. They won't take her to a petting zoo (Kiwi Parenting Protip: Exposure to barnyard animals several times in your baby's first year will make them less likely to be allergic to a range of allergens later!). They won't take her to a swimming pool. They won't wheel that beautiful stroller around an aquarium, or children's museum, or art gallery, even though they're spoiled for choice where they live now.
Becky spent ten years talking about the deep tragedy of her infertility and how important it was to have a baby and how that's all that mattered in her life and then she could literally die happy knowing that she'd done what mattered. Now it's not even worth it to Becky to celebrate her first birthday as a mother or consider having an outing with her husband("s") and daughter.
Hannah is a used-up toy.
Next month, Becky will take Hannah to Disneyland for the D23 convention and expo, Hannah's first time ever seeing anyone other than her family, her mother's smelly sex partners, and pediatrics staff. If Hannah screams and cries at seeing the massive crowds, lights, and sounds, that will mean she has sensory sensitivities and clear evidence she should be presumed autistic. If Hannah is absolutely awed by the experiece, smiles and googoo gagas at Mickey Mouse and claps her hands for the first time when she sees fireworks, that's definitely sensory-seeking behavior and clear evidence she should be presumed autistic.
She is now six months old. No one is giving her first tastes of food (and don't tell me that's because they're very educated on child-led weaning and believe breast is best for the first six months, all the 'wait til 6 months to feed' advice is out the window when it's a formula-fed infant). No one is taking her on any adventures anywhere. Even though she's obviously becoming more interactive and interested in the world, she's not even allowed to roll around on the floor and explore. They won't take her to the park. They won't take her to a petting zoo (Kiwi Parenting Protip: Exposure to barnyard animals several times in your baby's first year will make them less likely to be allergic to a range of allergens later!). They won't take her to a swimming pool. They won't wheel that beautiful stroller around an aquarium, or children's museum, or art gallery, even though they're spoiled for choice where they live now.
Becky spent ten years talking about the deep tragedy of her infertility and how important it was to have a baby and how that's all that mattered in her life and then she could literally die happy knowing that she'd done what mattered. Now it's not even worth it to Becky to celebrate her first birthday as a mother or consider having an outing with her husband("s") and daughter.
Hannah is a used-up toy.
