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You've also enabled and protected this person by sitting on the sidelines and hoping your retarded father would do something instead of taking any form of action to remove this person from society beyond whining to your family. If what you're saying is true and you were molested you could have contacted authorities and helped them to throw him into prison, but this person has been allowed to continue to molest children because of your inaction and your father's action. The later victims were apparently your nieces and nephews, so why didn't you go to your sibling to tell them about this pedophile?

Every adult in this situation is at fault from you, your father and the parents of these children that allowed a predator to be alone with them.
You also have to consider the reason daddy did nothing and the authorities weren't notified is because its was real in her mind only.

While you are supposed to "believe all women, all of the time" the police and prosecutors insist on some proof laws were broken, not what FDS says.
 
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How does a man getting raped by his daughters resulting in them getting pregnant with his kid make him a cuckold?
 
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Dumping your trauma on KF, in the female hate thread area of all places, is probably among the top of potential bad ideas.
There is abuse and there are bad men, but you must at least make an effort to not allow it to color your perceptions of half of the population. I know that's much to ask, but it will truly set you free from your past, and there's no other way around it.
I appreciate it tho. It gives more context to some posts by that user.
Like some posts were made explaining that the only way to make a woman satisfied is to make her cum a lot. Like once per day and that was the main reason she was with her husband.

When you see really weird takes like this you need to dig up a little bit to find trauma or weird fuck up situations.
 
@Alaric the Visigoth asked if any of the men in female posters' lives were into kids. @isalaide answered in the affirmative, perhaps with overmuch detail.

I don't think you need to read more into it than that.
If anything, it was vague when it came to all the details that matter and came off as an excuse to trauma dump about her daddy issues. More of a selective ploy for attention/pity than any sort of coherent account of what even happened.
 
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I appreciate it tho. It gives more context to some posts by that user.
Like some posts were made explaining that the only way to make a woman satisfied is to make her cum a lot. Like once per day and that was the main reason she was with her husband.

When you see really weird takes like this you need to dig up a little bit to find trauma or weird fuck up situations.
This probably deserves its own thread, but what's weird about that? Even the frequency isn't that unusual, if/when you're young.
 
The hospital contacted social work as a kid. My father and siblings both advised police the concerns were unfounded. They were both aware they were. I received consequences for "embarrassing the family" later. "She was in a car accident".
My siblings said I deserved it. Okay, well, they were traumatised, they picked the bigger and nastier and scarier relative to side with. I understand that.
I strongly urged my siblings, plural, when they started to have families that this person should never be alone with their children. They said the person was "different now" and they didn't want to talk about this. They then used that person for regular childcare, because fuck paying for nursery eh?
I went back to social work. Case closed as a malicious report, "probably a neighbour in dispute". They held the records of the historical complaint, and the medical report. Don't think a neighbour could have told them that, but, well. They have kids whose parents are actually willing to engage and report. So they concentrate on them.
My word against everyone else's, eh? The black sheep of the family. I tried, though. I tried. I couldn't even tell my own therapist what had been done to me, but I tried for my nieces and nephews.
I tried my best to protect my siblings when we were little, and I tried to dig it all up so they would protect their children. They actively put them in harm's way.
The sibling who is the father of the most recent victims has refused to go to police and decided the "best thing to do is put it all behind us". But it's not them who has to put it behind them. It's my little nieces. The recommended extended family therapy between my father and my siblings and I collapsed when I told the therapist the background.
This one ain't on me. I'll never see any of them again of choice.
I agree though, those kids have been badly failed by their parents. Mine are safe. I couldn't protect myself as a child, but I protected mine.
I trust my husband, and my parents in law, not to hurt me or our children. I don't trust any other cunt on the planet as far as I could throw them, and the kids know all about 'tricky people' and who to tell. Learned from my experiences.
I think I am probably due a ban for foidery-in-thread, but, you asked honestly and there's the honest answer. No spite about it. No argument to win, god knows there's nothing "winning" about what happened to me or my nieces. Just, well, how it was, how it is.
 
This probably deserves its own thread, but what's weird about that? Even the frequency isn't that unusual, if/when you're young.
Oh yeah once a day is not that uncommon depending on the age the person and the stage of the relationship plus in that post it was written like this is what every women regardless of all that.
If a woman did not want more sex it was just because she was not satisfied and you just needed to push further.

a ban for foidery-in-thread,
Nah at worse you will threadbanned for a bit and it's for that massive trauma dump derail.

But hey since you're posting this here of all places it most likely means you needed to vent a bit. There's a lot of unresolved trauma here and it's understandable. Try to talk about this to your therapist more, to your partner and to support groups.

I can sense it's a huge mental burden still to this day.
 
My father and siblings both advised police the concerns were unfounded
How long ago was this? Even 20 years ago the police didn't just take someone's word for it, it's also reported to a child welfare agency which is mandated, by law, to investigate. Child welfare workers in the US have been arrested, tried and convicted for failing to comply.
Case closed as a malicious report, "probably a neighbour in dispute". They held the records of the historical complaint, and the medical report.
Any allegations of physical, mental and sexual abuse are investigated so the agency would interview neighbors, family members, teachers and the child's doctor. They would request and receive a child's medical history for review.

Also those records are confidential and require a court order in the US to view.
I couldn't even tell my own therapist what had been done to me
Why? There is therapist-client confidentiality.

That's just in the US, in the Anglosphere and Europe the laws can be even more strict, and investigations even more invasive. I don't believe thee kinds of disclosures when randos start PLing about this stuff to strangers online to score internet points.
 
Why? There is therapist-client confidentiality.
Shame. The shame does not go away, but I know better how to deal with it. I feel it right this minute, even though you don't know me from Adam. I still have that fear about people knowing. How they would react. I am supposed to be tough and an achiever, man, I am supposed to be a fucking winner. This shit does not fit my narrative about me.
But that doesn't make it any less true.
Yes, this shit happened nearly forty years ago. And it's not like it was even the major form of abuse I was subjected to. But it happened, and it leaves a particular sort of mark behind it.
I don't know how the US handles its abused kids, and I don't expect to. I can tell you in the 1980s in Lanarkshire there were no mandatory reporters and there were damn few social workers either. And once the four year old had been prodded to say she "didn't remember exactly" what had had happened, they were not following up the hospital's referral any further. Traumatised very wee lassies don't make very good witnesses, and even worse once they've had an "accident" to straighten them out.
And mothers are not supposed to do that kind of thing. My granny only took me to the hospital because she thought my dad must be responsible for the injuries. He never did a fucking thing, although he knew. Hard not to notice cigarette burns.
I don't need or expect people to "believe me". It makes no difference to anyone, or anything. What's done is done. If I wanted internet points, I would not be here in this thread on this forum, of all places, looking for them. I know what happened. I live with it as best I can.
The question was asked, I've offered the answer, for whatever help or illumination it's worth.

@JamusActimus Thanks, pal. I appreciate the positive thoughts. It is difficult, honestly. The trouble with my nieces only came to light in recent months, and it's dug up a lot of stuff that wasn't dealt with yet, I mean in terms of me mentally or emotionally or whatever. I had to tell my husband things I had never wanted him to know. I could not bear the thought that any of the ways I had been hurt would be in his head when he touched me. He knew enough, obviously, there are unfortunately scars that couldn't be fixed, and he knew long before we ever had children that my parents could never be trusted around them.
But there were details I didn't want him to know. He tells me he doesn't think about it when we are together. I try to believe him. The whole point of her fucking cruelty was to burn it into me that I was 'disgusting' and 'no one would ever love me' and my body was 'hideous'. To make me be ashamed of myself and terrified if anyone ever demonstrated attraction to me. I can't let myself fall into believing that. I have a very happy marriage. She doesn't get to take any of that, including the physical aspect, away from me. It takes a level of trust I didn't expect to master to allow, let alone seek out, that kind of intimacy, and to feel secure enough to express desire. It provides me with a comfort and joy I can't get any other way, and that I probably do value too much because of my history. It is very important to me that that not change.

The behaviour of my siblings was a terrible shock to me, especially after it all came to light. I wouldn't have gone to the police about it for myself, now, but I told my brother I'd go in support of the girls.
But the pattern has repeated itself: the girls have been told to tell no one, it's a "family secret", the rest of the bullshit.
My father turned up at my door the other week saying he's in the financial shit again, looking to be bailed out again, oh and he'll turn her in to the cops about me if only I'll give him fifty grand.
Now, being raised by a cunt like that? It gives you some view of the world.
I'm done with all of them. Decades later than I should have been, but better late than never.

ANYWAY this has all been completely useless and I should have said nothing. Sorry. Cheerio
 
That one leaked DM for a BP goon saying that she wants to take testosterone to grow her clit into a pseudo penis so she can rape men is quite possibly the most revealing look into the femcel mind yet.

The genital envy, the misplaced rage, the really fucked sexual development, it's chef's kiss perfect.
They hate trannies because secretly deep down they feel like trannies. Maybe they hate themselves.
 
I suspect men outnumber women for all sex crimes because we are just plain hornier.
It depends. I honestly suspect it's a lot more even across the board than you all seem to think it is. Men just have no reason to tell anyone. If a boy is diddled, chances are he's never telling anyone. Even if he got justice for it, he's not telling any of his girlfriends or wife that it happened. You'll never hear about it, ever. You tell a group of guys you were diddled, you'll get mocked and made fun of. Some guys can take that, some can't. You tell a woman you were diddled though, forget it. All it takes is one shitty woman to make fun of him or change in attitude around him, or start looking down on him, then he's done. He'll never tell another soul as long as he lives.

Maybe women just handle rejection better in that regard. Maybe women just take it on the cheek better. Maybe women just have more motivation to talk about it. Bottom line is though, men don't talk about it if it happened.

ANYWAY this has all been completely useless and I should have said nothing. Sorry. Cheerio
......Yeah I'm not touching any of that with a 10 ft pole. Good luck though.

I was not ready for today. Yeesh.
 
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