I know I must not be the first person to post something to this effect, but... what the fuck is wrong with Lauren that she would ever give the coochie to this manlet? I think we can conclude she has awful taste in men.
Tiny acts completely different with women than how he acts publicly or with men in general. He's incredibly simpy, will listen to their problems for hours. Lauren was going through a divorce, Tiny thought Melina is completely different to him while Lauren and him are more alike.
In the months before July 2022 Destiny was constantly debating the idea whether an "ideal partner" should be someone who is different to you but takes out certain characteristics out of you, or someone who is more like you and "completes you" (Destiny believes that even tho politically they are so different, his personality, argumentative by nature and politically engaged, is more like Lauren than Melina's).
As Destiny explains it after he got rejected by Lauren and is in his depressed mode, his reasoning was something like choosing between a 9/10 partner, and a 10/10 partner, in terms of compability. (Even tho he has gone back on this, he now thinks him and Melina were never compatible at all, and he's right.) Melina was always having mental breakdowns and even threatening being suicidal when she was in Sweden and Tiny was developing a deep relationship with someone in the US (like BigBossBoze for example), and Destiny also was constantly wanting for Melina to go back to Sweden or travel to other places (so he could sleep around more). This is also evident by how his current relationship functions, in which as I've explained before, Layna's and Destiny's relationship seems to be more open, both in which it seems that they don't need to synchronize their hookups, and they spend a lot of time apart.
So in short, both kinda wanted out of their relationships and they told everything about each other's problems, constantly helped each other, even started to discuss the posiblity of starting a business together (the media company and a podcast, originally Tiny played with the idea of Lauren being his co-host), and they inevitably started fucking.
In 2022, as I've said before, (by his own words) he only fucked 3 girls for the majority of the year, so in that year the majority of the time in which he was typing in his other monitor it was almost always to Lauren, and they also had late night calls. There's multiple hints to this excess of communication between them:
- Destiny stating that Melina is jealous that he talks to so much to someone else (that person obviously being Lauren) while he talks to her barely anything (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NfotnH4dKWs&t=6016s).
- Lauren calls Destiny (around) Aug 31st 2021, they are going to discuss her recent debate with Rollo Tomassi, during a large part of their discussion she doesn't realize Destiny is even streaming and shows a familiarity with Melina. (in 2022, Lauren says that Tiny helped her set her camera up, again, another hint that they have late night calls frequently)
- Destiny constantly introducing Lauren to all his orbiters and online friends (Melina took too long to notice, but he was slowly working to replace her).
- Lauren constantly appearing on stream. Lauren from time to time appearing in his youtube chat.
- Again, the constant talk of hiring Lauren for the media company (this is referenced multiple times either on its own, or when they are watching Lauren's documentary, I believe Destiny also makes a reference to him possibly financing her documentaries, but I would have to rewatch).
- Destiny reading C.S. Lewis books, because Lauren recommended them to him (this was never shown or hinted at on stream, it's just something I guessed because I knew Lauren was a C.S. Lewis fan and Destiny at a later date confirmed it to be true).
- Destiny completely starts using Lauren's vocabulary, I just remembered this one and I think I never wrote it in any of my other posts.
- Destiny's whole world view and personality starts to change, he starts outright saying that he could become monogamous and even starts talking about the merits of Christianity.
And I could go on and on. The point is, their situation was more complex and probably a lot of trauma bonding, constant communication, and their personalities being compatible is what lead to their affair.
damn, i wonder who helped him
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My nigga, don't get baited by Destiny, he probably has a cum guzzling celebratory session everytime he sees a person repost his bait.
