Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

None of you are afraid of being cunts it seems. Is it ever a good idea to contact your ex?
She broke up with me because she thought she and I both had communication issues and for something that built an amount of resentment that I did, not going into detail but it wasn't major and I think we could work through it. I've gone through break ups before and its never been this difficult, I did and do genuinely love her. Every logical part of me tells me I should just let her go but a lot of my friends including the femoids tell me it would be worth trying to reach out to her but idk if they're just telling me what I want to hear. It's been about a month her birthday is coming up and one of the gifts I got her arrived, its nothing big but it's been suggested that I give it to her. Am I retarded for not reaching out or is it best to just leave her be?
 
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None of you are afraid of being cunts it seems. Is it ever a good idea to contact your ex?
She broke up with me because she thought she and I both had communication issues and for something that built an amount of resentment that I did, not going into detail but it wasn't major and I think we could work through it. I've gone through break ups before and its never been this difficult, I did and do genuinely love her. Every logical part of me tells me I should just let her go but a lot of my friends including the femoids tell me it would be worth trying to reach out to her but idk if they're just telling me what I want to hear. It's been about a month her birthday is coming up and one of the gifts I got her arrived, its nothing big but it's been suggested that I give it to her. Am I retarded for not reaching out or is it best to just leave her be?
Why would I be afraid of being a cunt on Kiwifarms? It's the one place I can be free to say what I'm really thinking and at worst I'm just going to get mean stickers (the horror).

Don't contact her, it is pathetic.

She broke up with you, she is done. She doesn't want you to slyly attempt to worm your way back in, it will just look sad and desperate.

Learn from your mistakes in the relationship and try again with a fresh slate with someone new. The well is poisoned with your ex now, and nothing will change that.
 
Let me get this straight, in 2+ weeks you "Only had enough time to vacuum."

You have previously admitted that it takes an ungodly amount of time for you to type less than 300 words onto Kiwifarms.

Nigger, how about you don't post on here wallowing in self pity and instead make your bed, a much better use of your time.
I'm starting to understand why Jordan Peterson is hailed as "the savior of the West"
something that built an amount of resentment that I did, not going into detail but it wasn't major
Your question kinda predicates on what you did that caused her to dump you, so we can't really answer this without more information on that
Also we're on kiwifarms, we're far past the point of "oh noes what if random men think I'm a big meaniepants"
 
Your question kinda predicates on what you did that caused her to dump you, so we can't really answer this without more information on that
Yeah I know, I don't want to power level too hard or share her shit cause that's cringe. The long and short is that she had issues with sex, she has Vaginismus that made penetrative sex impossible while she was working on it she said it made her feel like less of a woman. I went out of my way to make sure that she knew it didn't change my opinion of her that I want any less attracted to her that I didn't see her as less for it and all the usual shit, which I earnestly meant.

I'm not going to power level anymore than that but it just comes down to the last time we were together I didn't tell her explicitly to take he panties off.

The other poster basically mimics my thought process though, while it sucks and I don't like it because I do have strong feelings for her reaching out is pathetic. Ordinarily I wouldn't even bother asking but some friends who's advice I usually trust told me it's worth a shot but I think they just know how I felt about her and were holding hope on my behalf which is only going to make shit worse.
 
Yeah I know, I don't want to power level too hard or share her shit cause that's cringe. The long and short is that she had issues with sex, she has Vaginismus that made penetrative sex impossible while she was working on it she said it made her feel like less of a woman. I went out of my way to make sure that she knew it didn't change my opinion of her that I want any less attracted to her that I didn't see her as less for it and all the usual shit, which I earnestly meant.

I'm not going to power level anymore than that but it just comes down to the last time we were together I didn't tell her explicitly to take he panties off.

The other poster basically mimics my thought process though, while it sucks and I don't like it because I do have strong feelings for her reaching out is pathetic. Ordinarily I wouldn't even bother asking but some friends who's advice I usually trust told me it's worth a shot but I think they just know how I felt about her and were holding hope on my behalf which is only going to make shit worse.
She has my condolences, that shit is fucking awful both in terms of physical pain and mental effect. It's also worryingly common, if you're in the US it's comparable to diabetes. I'm going to assume that she was upset about the sexual dysfunction and feeling like you didn't want to try anything even external. If this is correct (and if it's not ignore this), then here's my advice:
1 If she was really fucking mad, disregard #2 and talk to a mutual friend first to find out if she'd be comfortable talking before you even consider contacting her. If she just felt it wasn't working out, then you can probably reach out directly.
2 Consider how long ago this was, especially compared to how long ago the relationship was. If it was really recent (less than a month ago), then give her some time. If it was a long time ago, then definitely talk to a mutual friend about it first to make sure she hasn't moved on. If this breakup was somewhere around 6 months ago, that's probably a good amount of time for her to have not fully moved on but also had time to decide how she would want to proceed.
I'll also just put out there that the only accepted course of "treatment" is to physically shove shit inside in a sick attempt to force the muscles to not react the way they already do, yet another reason I don't trust the medical industry. If you do want to help her in finding treatment, find her a good acupuncturist, there's a few documented procedures for treating primary vaginismus (none for secondary as far as I'm aware).
 
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Which is to say, I'm just another male that is in the same no win situation that so many other white males are in, my situation is not unique, my story is probably the same as all of the rest, but usually nobody ever hears it and they are just another silent statistic. What women don't understand is that we truly have nothing to live for anymore. I fear that I will go to hell so I will have to try and stay alive but I can fully understand the mind set of anyone that decides that it's not worth suffering through decades more of the wage cage.
I'm a white man and it's clear that you're shutting down from depression. This is not the normal state of being for men, even the unsuccessful white ones. Do what you can to feel better whether that's medication, prayer, being in nature, creating something or even just exercising. Think back to the last time you were truly happy and do it again. Your only issue as a man is that somehow you've mind fucked yourself into thinking this is normal. The world isn't shit, it's beautiful.
If I somehow fix my brain what do I have to look forward to? At best I get to be a grunt fighting against the powers at be, at worst I wait for the shit skins down the road to machette me in the back. We live in a pointless limbo and perhaps the fact that I can see that and feel the pain, maybe it makes me one of the sane and normal ones.
You have life to look forward to and you can still do anything. Start a family or a business, try writing or painting, maybe just travel around or build a fancy car. These are admirable goals and a humble life is to be envied. Start small depending on your interests and try raising your goals as you go. If you're into art for example, buy a sketchbook and draw your surroundings. Once you plateau, enroll in an art course and expand your horizons. If you manage to sell a piece of art or display it somewhere public, you've already achieved a lot. Who knows, maybe you'll meet an equally autistic woman along the way.

Shit skins are not out there to keep you down. Ahmed is too busy dealing drugs to white trash to care about you while Visajeet and Ling Ling are saving for their kids' college. You really don't need their help to fuck up your life.

Also, stop trying to romanticize your mental illness. You're not the one sane person in the world of crazies. You're a depressed dude killing himself at a factory while trying to garner pity on an Internet gossip forum. Get your head out of your ass. People treat you weird because it's obvious that you are miserable and they don't want to make your issues worse. Few people are drawn to sadness and misery, they would rather surround themselves with happiness because life is already difficult enough.
 
Sorry I didn't reply back, I did read and appreciate all the advice. In the past few weeks I managed to do a brief vacuum but I've had no time or energy to do anything else.

It doesn't matter anyway. My horrid job is all I am. I'm already dead inside. I'm a nonspiritual soulless being lost in the empty limbo the world has become. I have to face the fact that I may be stuck in this cycle for all eternity. It doesn't matter if I understand this or not, I can't stand this painful existence. There will never be an end. I'll never find peace. This post-human world is so lonely. I can't ever find the words to express the true horror.

Do women ever think about how there are so few men that they notice and want to speak to?
Kinda like me but im unemployed
 
Kinda like me but im unemployed
Don't worry, there's jobs worse than that.

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How do I tell a childhood friend that something (Be it meds or otherwise) is giving them large emotional swings and making them act like a fucking lunatic? I don't think they realize it.
By "fucking lunatic" I mean if it was a guy they probably would've gotten shot by police tier retardation.
Completely unreleated, but since I do FF/EMS stuff and had a run related to this.
Can someone pass out from getting hit in the cervix? I figured it probably doesn't feel good much like getting kicked in the balls and could probably do it if hit hard enough.
 
Do women ever think about how there are so few men that they notice and want to speak to?
Nope.

As for the thread: I cannot respond in the man hate thread obviously, but I've seen there statements along the lines of: "men don't have much empathy for women until they have daughters", but do women develop empathy for, or get a better understanding of men & boys if they have sons? I know several of the women here have said they have them, so the question is more posed to them.
 
Completely unreleated, but since I do FF/EMS stuff and had a run related to this.
Can someone pass out from getting hit in the cervix? I figured it probably doesn't feel good much like getting kicked in the balls and could probably do it if hit hard enough.
Vasovagal syncope (fainting) can happen when the cervix is breached during IUD insertion. So maybe, if the nerve was somehow stimulated through a hard hit, it could happen?
 
Don't worry, there's jobs worse than that.

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How do I tell a childhood friend that something (Be it meds or otherwise) is giving them large emotional swings and making them act like a fucking lunatic? I don't think they realize it.
By "fucking lunatic" I mean if it was a guy they probably would've gotten shot by police tier retardation.
If it's a drug problem, and they don't know they're a fuckup, you have to make them understand (read: force it into their brain) just how bad they've gotten. Usually you have to make sure your friend realizes it themselves, sometimes by letting them spectacularly fuck up at something they used to take pride in.
If they do realize then the goal is to find out what's driving them to take the drugs.
If it's an issue with an actual prescription then see paragraph 1 (I think)
Completely unreleated, but since I do FF/EMS stuff and had a run related to this.
Can someone pass out from getting hit in the cervix? I figured it probably doesn't feel good much like getting kicked in the balls and could probably do it if hit hard enough.
I expect it would be quite difficult but possible, because I've been kicked by an animal at just the wrong angle before and it very nearly took me out. I'd assume that a strong enough hit would be capable of putting you to sleep, but there's also a much higher pain tolerance because that area in particular needs to be able to endure a decent amount of pain.
 
📏 Sorry it takes so long it takes me forever to do anything
Glad you agree, self-defeatist niggas are faggots

Fix ur shit u lil attention whore
Nah-a u little hoe I'll only fix shit when you fix nigger faggot shit, ladies first*
*But not when there is a sinking ship involved, i'm getting on that life boat thank you, you can stay and play cards in the hold with the Kikes, Trannies, Niggers, and Street Shitters (and I'm talking gin rummy)
Kinda like me but im unemployed
You lucky mother fucker. Do you know what I would give to be unemployed. I've been working full time in IT for 15 years and what has that done for me? All I've done is give the government that hates me untold amounts of money and productivity. I still can't even afford anything. Dole bludgers have the latest iPhones, I have an old work phone I was given when I was made redundant.

You get to do whatever you want all day long, that would be so astounding. There is so much I could do in life if I were given time. I could actually experience life. Wow, if only dreams were more than dreams.

Nope.

As for the thread: I cannot respond in the man hate thread obviously, but I've seen there statements along the lines of: "men don't have much empathy for women until they have daughters", but do women develop empathy for, or get a better understanding of men & boys if they have sons? I know several of the women here have said they have them, so the question is more posed to them.

I agree, and women clearly don't understand our experiences, there is no empathy towards us. Take dating sites for example, we know women get countless messages from men on there, it's a milky sea of suitors. Many of us have made fake woman accounts to see what it is like. But women have no clue what it is like for us, we get nothing, absolutely no attention at all and the modern apps are designed to rape us of money for the chance to get a date (with a bot). We even get sent penis pics as well so they can't even play that card on us, at least they are attracted to dick. I used to get old gay men send dick pics to me when I was in my late teens because they are all sick predators.
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@YHWH's Strongest Soldier Thanks for the advice greatest ally of the west. It's not a natural state for us to be in, to be stuck in the swaps of misery, but so many white men are in the same place and they can't escape, and they eventually take their own lives or die from alcoholism or drugs etc. Why is this? There has to be an environmental reason for the rise in depression and suicide does there not?

What was the last thing that made me happy? Any time I'm not working I feel better. The rare time I am off work for annual leave. Public holidays. When I used to get a christmas break I liked that. I also like summer and warm afternoons. Sadly summer is short here and most of the time I am working so I can't really get what I want in life very often. In fact ever since I started high school I was unhappy, I hated high school, then hated all of my jobs up until today where I'm at the worst job I've ever worked in.

I should find a hobby but it requires me finding time to do it and if I had time and I didn't waste it I'd need it to do chores. And I'd have to go out and and interact with other people to do most hobbies. Shooting targets at a range could be quite fun. Jet Sking? Animal photographing? Looking for fossils? I donno really.

Sadly the shitskin invaders that ride in on the Jewish welcome mat are ruining my quality of life as they are for everyone. My life is actively worse thanks to the changing in demographics. Even just the population number rising itself has ruined so much. It's certainly a horrid enviroment to be in.

Yeah I know I am not fun to be around because I am sad but I can't change that, I can't pretend to be happy. It certainly feels like I am one of the few sane ones sometimes. It's so obvious what is going on and most people refuse to so it. It's like you are in a room with a bunch of people, and on the wall is a crooked painting, it's leaning to one side in a jarring manner. You notice it and it's off putting, but nobody else sees it, they are clearly oblivious. That is what it feels like to have common sense and to be a noticer in modern day, there is this constant cognitive dissidence and high strangeness to everything...

...case and point, I and every white man have every reason to be angry and depressed. It's actually mental to be happy with the world we inhabit. Sure, I'm not saying you can't enjoy your day or your life, but to not even have the fires of anger within you, to not even feel loss when you witness our people being destroyed, how can men completely ignore what is happening and how little reason we have to live? We can fight to find purpose but we surely can't ignore that they are taking away every reason we have to live? Taking away our future? At what point does it become personal?

For instance, I was banned from SomethingAwful, Twitter, Youtube, Reddit, OkCupid, the local dating site in my country, a bunch of other old forums and communities, all starting 15 years ago, all because I have the wrong thoughts so I am not welcome. What about the cost of living rising? The clot shot and other scamdemic mandates? My nephew was in a special hospital for a month at birth because of them. At what point does does all this become a negative on your life? When does it get to the point when you can say that it makes sense that you aren't as happy as you could be? Is it not your mind telling you that something is horribly wrong?
 
Sorry it takes so long it takes me forever to do anything
Nah-a u little hoe I'll only fix shit when you fix nigger faggot shit, ladies first*
*But not when there is a sinking ship involved, i'm getting on that life boat thank you, you can stay and play cards in the hold with the Kikes, Trannies, Niggers, and Street Shitters (and I'm talking gin rummy)
You lucky mother fucker. Do you know what I would give to be unemployed. I've been working full time in IT for 15 years and what has that done for me? All I've done is give the government that hates me untold amounts of money and productivity. I still can't even afford anything. Dole bludgers have the latest iPhones, I have an old work phone I was given when I was made redundant.

You get to do whatever you want all day long, that would be so astounding. There is so much I could do in life if I were given time. I could actually experience life. Wow, if only dreams were more than dreams.


I agree, and women clearly don't understand our experiences, there is no empathy towards us. Take dating sites for example, we know women get countless messages from men on there, it's a milky sea of suitors. Many of us have made fake woman accounts to see what it is like. But women have no clue what it is like for us, we get nothing, absolutely no attention at all and the modern apps are designed to rape us of money for the chance to get a date (with a bot). We even get sent penis pics as well so they can't even play that card on us, at least they are attracted to dick. I used to get old gay men send dick pics to me when I was in my late teens because they are all sick predators.
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@YHWH's Strongest Soldier Thanks for the advice greatest ally of the west. It's not a natural state for us to be in, to be stuck in the swaps of misery, but so many white men are in the same place and they can't escape, and they eventually take their own lives or die from alcoholism or drugs etc. Why is this? There has to be an environmental reason for the rise in depression and suicide does there not?

What was the last thing that made me happy? Any time I'm not working I feel better. The rare time I am off work for annual leave. Public holidays. When I used to get a christmas break I liked that. I also like summer and warm afternoons. Sadly summer is short here and most of the time I am working so I can't really get what I want in life very often. In fact ever since I started high school I was unhappy, I hated high school, then hated all of my jobs up until today where I'm at the worst job I've ever worked in.

I should find a hobby but it requires me finding time to do it and if I had time and I didn't waste it I'd need it to do chores. And I'd have to go out and and interact with other people to do most hobbies. Shooting targets at a range could be quite fun. Jet Sking? Animal photographing? Looking for fossils? I donno really.

Sadly the shitskin invaders that ride in on the Jewish welcome mat are ruining my quality of life as they are for everyone. My life is actively worse thanks to the changing in demographics. Even just the population number rising itself has ruined so much. It's certainly a horrid enviroment to be in.

Yeah I know I am not fun to be around because I am sad but I can't change that, I can't pretend to be happy. It certainly feels like I am one of the few sane ones sometimes. It's so obvious what is going on and most people refuse to so it. It's like you are in a room with a bunch of people, and on the wall is a crooked painting, it's leaning to one side in a jarring manner. You notice it and it's off putting, but nobody else sees it, they are clearly oblivious. That is what it feels like to have common sense and to be a noticer in modern day, there is this constant cognitive dissidence and high strangeness to everything...

...case and point, I and every white man have every reason to be angry and depressed. It's actually mental to be happy with the world we inhabit. Sure, I'm not saying you can't enjoy your day or your life, but to not even have the fires of anger within you, to not even feel loss when you witness our people being destroyed, how can men completely ignore what is happening and how little reason we have to live? We can fight to find purpose but we surely can't ignore that they are taking away every reason we have to live? Taking away our future? At what point does it become personal?

For instance, I was banned from SomethingAwful, Twitter, Youtube, Reddit, OkCupid, the local dating site in my country, a bunch of other old forums and communities, all starting 15 years ago, all because I have the wrong thoughts so I am not welcome. What about the cost of living rising? The clot shot and other scamdemic mandates? My nephew was in a special hospital for a month at birth because of them. At what point does does all this become a negative on your life? When does it get to the point when you can say that it makes sense that you aren't as happy as you could be? Is it not your mind telling you that something is horribly wrong?
You know how they say “just be yourself”? In your case, I’d amend that to “be literally anybody else”.
 
Nope.

As for the thread: I cannot respond in the man hate thread obviously, but I've seen there statements along the lines of: "men don't have much empathy for women until they have daughters", but do women develop empathy for, or get a better understanding of men & boys if they have sons? I know several of the women here have said they have them, so the question is more posed to them.
Yes.
"Son, the world is made for you, you have all the privileges if being a white man, do your best, and life will be served to you on a silver platter"
" :'( :'( but moooooom I hate studying and work I just wanna play video games and watch anime"
 
Don't worry, there's jobs worse than that.

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How do I tell a childhood friend that something (Be it meds or otherwise) is giving them large emotional swings and making them act like a fucking lunatic? I don't think they realize it.
By "fucking lunatic" I mean if it was a guy they probably would've gotten shot by police tier retardation.
Completely unreleated, but since I do FF/EMS stuff and had a run related to this.
Can someone pass out from getting hit in the cervix? I figured it probably doesn't feel good much like getting kicked in the balls and could probably do it if hit hard enough.
On the nsfw one, if you're not careful as a guy, yes you can make her bleed and even knock her out if you hit the cervix with no regard. Luckily that will rarely happen, but it can.
 
Can we nominate this @Forsaken Wanderer queer for a pink triangle yet?
On the nsfw one, if you're not careful as a guy, yes you can make her bleed and even knock her out if you hit the cervix with no regard. Luckily that will rarely happen, but it can.
Wait was he not talking about an external blow? Goddamnit now it sounds like I'm saying I got kicked up the cunt :story:
 
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