The people you see online are not representative of the real world, those types of people have increased more recently because of the internet but that's not a proper representation of the entire community. There are many gay men who are the exact same as you other than their marriage certificate saying husband instead of wife, you just don't notice because normal gay people don't go around screaming they're gay, you only notice the obnoxious faggots. If it's just people being conditioned or developing a fetish then it wouldn't have existed before this millennia. It's definitely a social thing, but it isn't solely grooming or fetishisation. If you look anywhere other than the front page of reddit you'll find some of the most transphobic shit said by gay guys because they're the same as everyone else aside from it by proxy tarnishes them because some retard decided to include trannies in that community. Just look at the popularity of shit like gays against groomers or lgb drop the t, normal gay men hate this shit as much as you do because it has jack shit to do with sexuality. Also saying lesbians are less common is bullshit, there is not one woman nowadays that wouldn't fuck another woman.
Either way, this isn't an lgbt discussion thread it's a finnster thread. Finn isn't gay, he isn't bi. He's a grooming victim that has conditioned himself to have a fetish for men.