Plagued Incels.is (Previously known as /r/incels) - Subreddit's banned, entitled Manchildren whine about why they can't get laid.

[Ravier Xavenblood]

I swear DBDR uploaded a video where he straight up admitted that a girl at the gym was showing interest in him. I wish i could’ve archived it but it came out after the one about receding hairlines with the Lori Lightfoot thumbnail, if anyone can find it do post it here

Was this a video or a community post because he deletes his posts all the time.

 

[KoldHardTruth]

Incel is just seems to cover anyone that isn't 100% pro-women

In all fairness what married man talks about porn addition and controlling their urges as much as he does?

"Incel" isn't a cover up for anyone that isn't 100% pro woman, but it usually is a cover up for someone who's has very extreme believes that aren't pro woman.

 

[SomeSpook]

Imagine getting so fucking pressed about not having a GF. Having one is not a requirement for living in this mortal plane of ours. If you think it's a requirement, boy, do I have a lot of things to tell you.

 

[Ravier Xavenblood]

Imagine getting so fucking pressed about not having a GF. Having one is not a requirement for living in this mortal plane of ours. If you think it's a requirement, boy, do I have a lot of things to tell you.

They put it on such a pedestal but forget about how you could've had sex several times but still be dating impaired. Whether it's a string of shitty gfs/bfs or maybe all you attract is insane people or addicts.

 

[KoldHardTruth]

This guy fumbles the bag several times due to being very weird and socially inept yet he blames the girls for rejecting him. He probably made the video available on YouTube only cause he knew kiwi farms was gonna come after him eventually:

 

[Ravier Xavenblood]

This guy fumbles the bag several times due to being very weird and socially inept yet he blames the girls for rejecting him. He probably made the video available on YouTube only cause he knew kiwi farms was gonna come after him eventually:

Watched some parts of that videos and it sounds like he had the standard male online dating experience.

 

[KoldHardTruth]

Watched some parts of that videos and it sounds like he had the standard male online dating experience.

The problem I have with the video is not him getting rejected, it's the fact that he kept pushing and pushing after the girls that rejected him made it obvious that they weren't interested. Sounds to me like he would've gotten some if he lowered his standards.

 

[Ravier Xavenblood]

The problem I have with the video is not him getting rejected, it's the fact that he kept pushing and pushing after the girls that rejected him made it obvious that they weren't interested. Sounds to me like he would've gotten some if he lowered his standards.

These guys need to realize they can't force attraction. If she ain't into you, move on and spend your energy finding someone who actually is.

 

[KoldHardTruth]

Someone get this guy an escort already:

He has such a high level of sexual frustration and is obviously using semen retention as a cope for the fact that he can't have his way with the provocatively dressed women that he's mentioning.

 

[Suel Forrester]

These guys need to realize they can't force attraction. If she ain't into you, move on and spend your energy finding someone who actually is.

the line of thinking with people who get rejected right off the bat is that the rejector does so without even knowing the person theyre rejecting.

good relationships are cultivated by familiarity (maybe not right word). i have never seen a relationship where it just instantly happened

on the other, every single relationship ive ever seen/been in occurs by 2 people just kind of hanging out and getting to know each other over time. you meet some girl at a party, neither one likes each other but you hang out a bunch and you just start to get attracted to them


incel-bros just feel kind of cheated because they feel that the girl rejected them without even knowing them or giving them a chance.

you cant FORCE attraction, but you can grow it if given the chance

 

[Ravier Xavenblood]

the line of thinking with people who get rejected right off the bat is that the rejector does so without even knowing the person theyre rejecting.

We've all rejected someone without even knowing them because everyone has basic dealbreakers that are non negotiable. Straights reject gays that hit on them for obvious reasons, and taken people who aren't cheating scumbags do the same.

good relationships are cultivated by familiarity (maybe not right word). i have never seen a relationship where it just instantly happened

on the other, every single relationship ive ever seen/been in occurs by 2 people just kind of hanging out and getting to know each other over time. you meet some girl at a party, neither one likes each other but you hang out a bunch and you just start to get attracted to them

That's a mature way to look at relationships, and maturity is something incels lack. They see lust based on looks as something that most modern relationships are founded on.

I also think a lot of them either were never given the chance to cultivate interpersonal relationships, or their social skills are so bad that they don't recognize the opportunities right in front of them.

 

[Suel Forrester]

We've all rejected someone without even knowing them because everyone has basic dealbreakers that are non negotiable. Straights reject gays that hit on them for obvious reasons, and taken people who aren't cheating scumbags do the same.

how can you see dealbreakers without knowing the person? thats the point im making. im not talking about corner cases of taken people or fetishes, etc. im talking about just normal, regular people.

That's a mature way to look at relationships, and maturity is something incels lack. They see lust based on looks as something that most modern relationships are founded on.

well a lot of women are more, eh...shallow (?) or lust based in picking guys. they were raised on disney and romantic comedies and thus think that if he isnt prince charming perfect in seconds, he's not worth it. its an unrealistic and unhealthy view on relationships. and i know "not every woman/couple/whatever", blah blah but it does happen a lot. women also have insane and retarded dealbreakers a lot of times.

i think in general media has just broken female brains to a lot of times, they dont even understand what they want. they want everything to be like something they see on social media and have no sense of priorities or anything.

my buddy dated a girl recently, the girl was literally in love with him. she had nothing else going on in her life but him. she got real horny at his paternal instincts, he went to the gym, has a good job in finance, all she talked about was how perfect this guy was...and you know what her dealbreaker was? she threw her perfect guy away because...wait for it....he doesnt vote/doesnt care about voting. i had another friend who's WIFE OF 20 YEARS, with 2 kids, left him because he didnt do things like open her car door for her and because they rented a house instead of bought it.

im not saying every woman does that or is like that, but jesus christ who ends a relationship over something like voting? "yeah, you care about me and love me and an buy me a house...but you dont vote so i hate you"....you wont find this kind fo thinking from men lol

I also think a lot of them either were never given the chance to cultivate interpersonal relationships, or their social skills are so bad that they don't recognize the opportunities right in front of them.

eh, maybe, but i dont think these guys are having opportunities to even recognize. these incel-bros are often invisible to the world. its not that women/people HATE or dislike them, its just that their existence doesnt even register to most people.

as to why that is? who can say.

i only know this stuff because ive lived similar things. ive been invisible to people, ive been rejected for nebulous reasons that make no sense. i went on a date with a girl that lasted 1 hour and she decided she "didnt feel a connection" and didnt wanna go out again....yeah dude, we talked for 1 hour, obviously there's no connection, how do you think connections work? like shit, you dont have to marry me or anything, but we cant even just chill together? women get so WEIRD about this shit.

anyway, i just sympathize with incel-bros, a lot of these dudes are probably actual awesome beasts and just cant actualize their true selves because they dont have the right people around to uild them up.

the incel is not a defective person, the weight of the world just gets a little heavy for them

 

[crowabunga]

the incel is not a defective person, the weight of the world just gets a little heavy for them

This is pretty optimistic, at least so far as the thread's target "incel" subgroup of incels.is users is concerned. Even looking beyond the comedically excessive misogyny and self-loathing of that subgroup, how many incels are unkempt, terminally maladjusted layabouts? If that isn't "defective" I don't know what is.

Now, how much responsibility we can assign to people for becoming such "defectives" is a different question, but I'm not going to pretend they aren't defective just because it isn't necessarily "their fault" (yes, how we attribute blameworthiness or responsibility is a giant can of worms).

 

[Suel Forrester]

This is pretty optimistic, at least so far as the thread's target "incel" subgroup of incels.is users is concerned. Even looking beyond the comedically excessive misogyny and self-loathing of that subgroup, how many incels are unkempt, terminally maladjusted layabouts? If that isn't "defective" I don't know what is.

Now, how much responsibility we can assign to people for becoming such "defectives" is a different question, but I'm not going to pretend they aren't defective just because it isn't necessarily "their fault" (yes, how we attribute blameworthiness or responsibility is a giant can of worms).

Misogyny is a myth like homophobia and racism.

Every human has potential. No one is broken beyond repair I don't think. These guys aren't defective, they're just blemished.

Hard to say if the want to do the work to polish off such blemishes

Sure, women can be vile creatures. The difference is how you react to that

Some people just aren't destined for love. I'm one of them.

The guys just really need a more realistic expectation and perspective on life, they aren't bad ppl, they've just been fed an expectation that people are owed love or if you do xyz, you'll land the girl of your dreams. Reality and people aren't rational like that

 

[KoldHardTruth]

I'm gonna play devil's advocate and say this; incels are right about looks/genetics playing a significant role in dating. However, the reason why they're still seen as corrupted individuals is because they refuse to do the best they can with the cards they were dealt with. Instead of putting all that energy into making themselves more appealing to women by improving their appearance and their personalities, they just bitch and complain, expecting the whole world to drop everything and have people let them cry on their shoulders.

If they are really that far gone looks-wise to the point of almost looking physically deformed, which is rare, they should just keep their mouths shut and see an escort. Sounds like that would definitely be a more productive option than making non stop videos or posts online wallowing in self pity.

 

[Punchoboe]

However, the reason why they're still seen as corrupted individuals is because they refuse to do the best they can with the cards they were dealt with.

Realistically, they may need to reconcile with being alone forever.

 

[KoldHardTruth]

Realistically, they may need to reconcile with being alone forever.

That's why I said those who are far gone enough to where they're destined to be alone forever, should just shut up and get a prostitute.

 

[pickleparty]

Dbdr deleted his channel i guess its actually over. He made decent enough stories about his life being a loser which i found a bit relatable supposedly this is his actual face when he had a meltdown a few weeks ago and shaved his head. Im a bit pissed that he DFE before releasing his last song that he had on will be premiering in 24 hours on youtube.

 

[Ravier Xavenblood]

Dbdr deleted his channel i guess its actually over. He made decent enough stories about his life being a loser which i found a bit relatable supposedly this is his actual face when he had a meltdown a few weeks ago and shaved his head. Im a bit pissed that he DFE before releasing his last song that he had on will be premiering in 24 hours on youtube.

If that's really his face post-head shave then he looks like your average blue collar 30 year old, which probably isn't the best look for 23. He never said anything about having a beard though. Either way, the only things stopping him from getting a GF are his living situation, unemployment and his absolutely fried mental state.

RIP his channels though. Watching his downward spiral arc was interesting but also painful. It's like he's addicted to making the same mistakes over and over again. Right up until the very end of his channel he was doing impulsive shit and still hanging out with those douchey fratbros who used him for money.

 

[VasonJoorhees]

The problem I have with the video is not him getting rejected, it's the fact that he kept pushing and pushing after the girls that rejected him made it obvious that they weren't interested. Sounds to me like he would've gotten some if he lowered his standards.

If a woman likes you, you won't have to beg and push for it. Obvious there's some outlying exceptions when it comes to emotional manipulators and things like that, but that's the general rule of thumb and also just what my experience has been personally.