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Anyone whose trying that hard to present as a woman is definitely not a woman
Megathread Tranny Sideshows on Social Media - Any small-time spectacle on Reddit, Tumblr, Twitter, Dating Sites, and other social media.
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I support not having a precise definition of women. Not so that troons can blur the boundaries, but because it’s such a waste of time. If I see a dog, I know it’s a dog because it looks and behaves like a dog. I don’t need to explain what a dog is, delving into its characteristics, anatomy and genetics.
If I see this:
I know it’s a man for similar reasons. If a troon can’t figure out why he’s not a woman, that’s his problem.
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There is a very old saying in Poland, originating from a biology book from XVIII century, that is trying to convey the exact same idea - it roughly translates to "A horse is what it is, and everyone sees it" or "A horse is as it appears to everyone" (kon, jaki jest, każdy widzi). The horse is such an obvious concept and you know when you're looking at one. It's the same with women and men, normal vaginas and designer pussies, typical penises and rotdogs. We all know what we're looking at.
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I can't find the exact post but there was a tumblr (?) post that had observed more or less the same thing. A lot of mtf tranny names are usually [troon name]/"girl" or something else "feminine" plus the optional animal plus sexual fetish. i.e. "lexipuppydoggirl" or "lilycatgirlstink". Some will just have [animal] + [fetish].
90% of the time (probably up to 99.9% on certain sites) if you see a username/profile with "lesbian" or "sapphic" or "dyke" or "queer" or "butch" or anything vaguely related to lesbianism, the user is a man. It's like a sad post-"there are no girls on the internet" reality where it's still true (again on certain sites) but in a different, grosser way.
Anyhow, rambling aside.
Guy reeeees about wanting to rape by deception:
I'm talking about the post earlier today with the trans woman asking when she "should" disclose. A concerning number of women said something to the effect of either "right away to avoid wasting time," or "trans women should wear something to identify they are trans."
Trans women NEVER "should" disclose. It is nobody's damn business but her own. Now, for pragmatic reasons, if she hasn't had bottom surgery, it makes sense for her to disclose to avoid problems. But that is a PRAGMATIC concern, not a question of moral "right and wrong." No one is entitled to anyone's medical history unless they have a current infectious disease.
I want you to know that this is bigotry. It's transphobic. It's transmisogny. It's transmedicalism. It's bioessentialism. It's also fascist and authoritarian. It's ableist. I want you to know that you are putting already marginalized women at even greater risk of harm. I want you to know that you are wrong. Oh, you have a genital preference? Okay, why don't you disclose that, rather than expecting trans women to out ourselves every night for your convenience. You are asking us to risk our safety and reputation for your convenience.
Normalize discussing genital preferences early. That is the fair way for parties to decide if they want to pursue something further. Not burdening trans women with mandatory disclosure and pink triangles, such as wearing trans paraphernalia. That allows a trans woman to keep her safety and dignity. That is what is right.
EDIT: I feel like a lot of people aren't fully reading or grasping my post. So I'm putting a comment I made up here to illustrate how I think these things COULD and, perhaps, SHOULD go:
I would imagine after some flirting the conversation could go like this:
Other person: "Oh by the way, I have a genital preference for vagina. Just so you know."
Me: "okay cool, thanks for letting me know."
---a few minutes later after we're discussing other stuff perhaps:
Me: "Y'know, I'm not feeling so great tonight. I don't think I'm up for anything more. Thanks tho, and have a good night."
OR
Me: "Hey, you seem nice but I don't think it's going to work out"
see how that is better than:
Me: "By the way, you should know I'm pre-op/non-op trans."
EDIT 2:
Because I'm in an educational mood. There are a lot of commenters here saying something to the effect that trans people are a small part of the population, why should we cater to them? Pull up a chair, honey.
According to gallup, about 1.2% of adult americans identify as lesbian. .9 percent identify as transgender. Lets say around 50% have sapphic leanings. About 1/3 are trans men, 1/3 nb, and 1/3 trans fem. But we know that lesbianism and sapphic orientations are generally higher in the trans populations. That is where I'm getting the 50% has sapphic tendencies. That means around .45 percent of the adult population is trans with sapphic tendencies. So over a quarter of self-identified lesbian/sapphics etc. Or lets round down and call it 1 in 5 adult lesbian women could be trans (20%). That is a higher percentage than other minority representation in the lesbian community, such as POC, disabled, etc. But you won't hear any cis lesbians say we shouldn't "cater" to people of color or the disabled, etc. Think about that.
Trans women NEVER "should" disclose. It is nobody's damn business but her own. Now, for pragmatic reasons, if she hasn't had bottom surgery, it makes sense for her to disclose to avoid problems. But that is a PRAGMATIC concern, not a question of moral "right and wrong." No one is entitled to anyone's medical history unless they have a current infectious disease.
I want you to know that this is bigotry. It's transphobic. It's transmisogny. It's transmedicalism. It's bioessentialism. It's also fascist and authoritarian. It's ableist. I want you to know that you are putting already marginalized women at even greater risk of harm. I want you to know that you are wrong. Oh, you have a genital preference? Okay, why don't you disclose that, rather than expecting trans women to out ourselves every night for your convenience. You are asking us to risk our safety and reputation for your convenience.
Normalize discussing genital preferences early. That is the fair way for parties to decide if they want to pursue something further. Not burdening trans women with mandatory disclosure and pink triangles, such as wearing trans paraphernalia. That allows a trans woman to keep her safety and dignity. That is what is right.
EDIT: I feel like a lot of people aren't fully reading or grasping my post. So I'm putting a comment I made up here to illustrate how I think these things COULD and, perhaps, SHOULD go:
I would imagine after some flirting the conversation could go like this:
Other person: "Oh by the way, I have a genital preference for vagina. Just so you know."
Me: "okay cool, thanks for letting me know."
---a few minutes later after we're discussing other stuff perhaps:
Me: "Y'know, I'm not feeling so great tonight. I don't think I'm up for anything more. Thanks tho, and have a good night."
OR
Me: "Hey, you seem nice but I don't think it's going to work out"
see how that is better than:
Me: "By the way, you should know I'm pre-op/non-op trans."
EDIT 2:
Because I'm in an educational mood. There are a lot of commenters here saying something to the effect that trans people are a small part of the population, why should we cater to them? Pull up a chair, honey.
According to gallup, about 1.2% of adult americans identify as lesbian. .9 percent identify as transgender. Lets say around 50% have sapphic leanings. About 1/3 are trans men, 1/3 nb, and 1/3 trans fem. But we know that lesbianism and sapphic orientations are generally higher in the trans populations. That is where I'm getting the 50% has sapphic tendencies. That means around .45 percent of the adult population is trans with sapphic tendencies. So over a quarter of self-identified lesbian/sapphics etc. Or lets round down and call it 1 in 5 adult lesbian women could be trans (20%). That is a higher percentage than other minority representation in the lesbian community, such as POC, disabled, etc. But you won't hear any cis lesbians say we shouldn't "cater" to people of color or the disabled, etc. Think about that.
Tranny seething in the replies:
Trannies not getting euphoria is literally like the holocaust yinz guiz!
"stage 8" lol, lmao even.
Man that only wants actual women concedes it's fair to be upfront about his dick when dating, gets lambasted for "missing the point":
There was a lot of sentiment similar to this comment that suggested it's "cis" women's responsibility to say they don't do dick, even though if a lesbian says that she immediately gets dogpiled for being a terf and waving her genital preference about, because something something trans women are so in danger of violence from...lesbians? (Even though literally every time a tranny gets murked, it's because he was fucking around with another dude. But sure, blame women I guess.)
Curious about our brave & honest OP ithacabored? I was too.
Reddit profile:
Trannies really can't let women have anything. Veganism and lesbianism are so ubiquitous that seeing male trannies take this up as a way to virtue signal and larp their dyke dreams is a level of disturbing I didn't know was possible. Truly skinwalker behavior.
Anyways, some fun facts about ithaca:
- he's a veteran (of course)
- he's 36
- into yuri anime and a transbian (duh)
- lives in Portugal currently
- "realized" he's trans 8 months ago (Jan 7)
- 1 month on horse piss pills
- wants a dick piercing
- confirmed to have a wife
- autistic and has ADHD, post history is mostly trans shit and pokemon or diablo
- probably malding
- needs some punk subreddit to tell him where he "fits in" (arguably the least punk thing I've ever read)
- his very first post was 7 years ago wanting to get high with randos in his area
Some highlight posts:
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Incredible that all the "lady" responses are other men.
No surprises here. (a)
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I swear r/abrathatfits is just trannyville now. Also lol at the bust measurements. Maaaaale.
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Peep the date. Been trooned out not even a year and on "titty skittles" barely a month and he's already making traaaans his personality, incredible.
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Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
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GAMP detected.
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Misogynistic man ponders why he views women in a harsher light than men.
Probably the single most concerning post on his profile is this one:
And it's kind of blowing my mind. I'm 36 amab and realized about 6 weeks ago i'm a nonbinary trans woman. I never understood what "gender envy" meant. I actually journaled about it, coming to the conclusion that, for me, the terms "gender crush," or "gender goals" was a better term. Because it didn't feel like envy. I literally described it as "kind of like when you have an early/pre teen crush and its this high level of infatuation. But unlike those crushes, it tends to fade quickly when I'm not in direct proximity of the person."
I won't get into it, but I have a lot of childhood trauma that realizing I'm trans unlocked. I always knew my dad was a terrible parent (divorced), but I thought of my mom as a safe parent. Turns out she severely emotionally neglected me my whole life.
Realizing this, I've been watching medical professionals on youtube, and picking up some of the most popular books, such as "From Surviving to Thriving," "Running on Empty," and "The Body Keeps the Score."
Today, I was watching this video:
and at the 35 second mark, she mentioned the term "limerent." I'm pretty well-educated, but I had never heard this word before, so I googled it:
"Limerence is sometimes also interpreted as infatuation, or what is colloquially known as a "crush". However, in common speech, infatuation includes aspects of immaturity and extrapolation from insufficient information, and is usually short-lived. Tennov notes how limerence "may dissolve soon after its initiation, as in an early teenage buzz-centered crush",[13] but she is more concerned with the point when "limerent bonds are characterized by 'entropy' crystallization as described by Stendhal in his 1821 treatise On Love, where a new love infatuation perceptually begins to transform ... [and] attractive characteristics are exaggerated and unattractive characteristics are given little or no attention ... [creating] a 'limerent object'"."
I have my first hrt appointment on march 1st. I am seeing a gender therapist but just started. I feel like it won't help, as I am very confident I'm trans and have already come out to my inner circle and partner. But I also wonder if I should wait until I resolve some of my childhood trauma and neglect. Learning this concept doesn't make me think I'm not trans, but it is making me wonder if I should slow down. I'm also adhd neurodivergent (diagnosed at a young age), so I have impulsivity issues.
Thoughts on the concept, or any advice? Does this feel like it accurately describes gender envy for you?
I won't get into it, but I have a lot of childhood trauma that realizing I'm trans unlocked. I always knew my dad was a terrible parent (divorced), but I thought of my mom as a safe parent. Turns out she severely emotionally neglected me my whole life.
Realizing this, I've been watching medical professionals on youtube, and picking up some of the most popular books, such as "From Surviving to Thriving," "Running on Empty," and "The Body Keeps the Score."
Today, I was watching this video:
and at the 35 second mark, she mentioned the term "limerent." I'm pretty well-educated, but I had never heard this word before, so I googled it:
"Limerence is sometimes also interpreted as infatuation, or what is colloquially known as a "crush". However, in common speech, infatuation includes aspects of immaturity and extrapolation from insufficient information, and is usually short-lived. Tennov notes how limerence "may dissolve soon after its initiation, as in an early teenage buzz-centered crush",[13] but she is more concerned with the point when "limerent bonds are characterized by 'entropy' crystallization as described by Stendhal in his 1821 treatise On Love, where a new love infatuation perceptually begins to transform ... [and] attractive characteristics are exaggerated and unattractive characteristics are given little or no attention ... [creating] a 'limerent object'"."
I have my first hrt appointment on march 1st. I am seeing a gender therapist but just started. I feel like it won't help, as I am very confident I'm trans and have already come out to my inner circle and partner. But I also wonder if I should wait until I resolve some of my childhood trauma and neglect. Learning this concept doesn't make me think I'm not trans, but it is making me wonder if I should slow down. I'm also adhd neurodivergent (diagnosed at a young age), so I have impulsivity issues.
Thoughts on the concept, or any advice? Does this feel like it accurately describes gender envy for you?
The title alone probably gives you an idea of why, but some particularly bad points:
This echoes his weird fixation with "problematic women". I don't think mommy didn't hug poor ithaca enough, but I do think he has some issues with women that go deeper than he thinks. I doubt that he grew up with a "lot of childhood trauma" as well since trannies make terrible reliable narrators.
Barely started seeing a therapist and alredy decided it wouldn't work because he's "very confident".
Every single sentence above should be a red flag for any sane person, let alone someone whose entire job is to be the sanest person in the room. He second guesses himself multiple times and admits he has impulsivity issues right after saying he is jumping the gun by writing off his therapist as unhelpful. In the next line he describes his "gender limerence" in ways that sound very much like an addict waxing poetic about getting high. This is a man who is literally mentally disabled and probably fried his dopamine receptors gooning to too much femboy and yuri hentai, chasing the dragon of
Mrs. Ithaca should bounce for many reasons but if trooning out doesn't do it, hopefully cheating or "opening" the relationship will. Husbands trooning out rarely ever ends with them staying faithful and monogamous vs. getting their backs blown out by random men/troons off grindr. Mr. Ithaca's insistence that he shouldn't have to disclose his peener also really strikes as telling on himself, it'd be pretty odd for him to get so heated about having to disclose to potential partners if he wasn't looking.
The fact that any therapist signed off on him getting his horse piss pills is straight up malpractice (even though it would be funny if they did so only to sterilize him). Here's hoping Mr. Ithaca is kind enough to start oversharing about his transition like all the other hons.
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Eh, they don't have to disclose anything. One look is all it takes to clock them as males
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...well, fuck. Someone find a facedox of this rape-by-deception tosspot so we know who to hate-crime, pls.
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This sentence is also used as an example of a ground truth in formal logic and mathematics. Just like you do not redefine what a number is because it's obvious, yo do not redefine what a man and woman is, because it is obvious and it is the ground truth on which the societies have been built for thousands of years. It is highly improbable that these people were wrong and that a redefinition of man and woman is in order, and even if it would be, the way trannies behave and what they say invalidates any "proofs" about gender being defined wrong today.
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He's the only guy who isn't you.
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The word "entropy" didn't even exist in 1821. Stop pretending your fetish is some inevitable physical phenomenon.
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Oh it goes beyond that. An adult woman would rarely use the term "girl" about herself. Shit, most female culture around the age of puberty is "gosh I can't wait to be a WOMAN".
Though it's kinda funny how women who'd otherwise not be on the internet if not to grift it for money are in the same boat. Princess, vixen, miss, egirl, whatever "Hey, I'm a woman!" term easily lets you identify them as women worth giving extra attention. So you got someone called TitMcTits. It's too fetishy so it has to be a troon, but MsPrincessxo? Could be a stacy taking up 60% of the stream in her pink gamer chair just as well. If I had any less of a life I'd make a compilation and a guessing game.
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I usually only see women do this if they're sex workers and advertising. Like MissVivienne on twitter will always be a dominatrix (or a troon...or both.)
Very interesting...
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Little bit of Honesty from Ithaca...
NiKo's Deagle Miss
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one thing you have to realize if you want to live as a woman is that we dont think like that. we go out of our way to avoid people who think like that. proving the differences between women and men is something we do to protect our spaces, not because we want old men to fuck us
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Our boy Ryan is debating with himself whether to clean up the rented flat when he moves out:
No archive, because its followers only. Fortunately an operative of Slim Shady Intelligence Services captured this screenshot.
I feel pity for the poor Ukrainian woman who has to clean up the bonus hole soot stains.
There isn't anything else worth mentioning since the last "delete my gender because GDPR" cry for attention.
No archive, because its followers only. Fortunately an operative of Slim Shady Intelligence Services captured this screenshot.
My landlord wanted to know if I was going to clean my flat myself or hire a cleaning service.
I responded by asking them to confirm that their policy was to have their cleaning service do a full move out cleaning service if they found anything amiss, unless I use that same cleaning service.
They confirmed.
What's my incentive to try to clean the flat instead of just letting them handle it and take it out of the deposit? I'm not seeing one.
I responded by asking them to confirm that their policy was to have their cleaning service do a full move out cleaning service if they found anything amiss, unless I use that same cleaning service.
They confirmed.
What's my incentive to try to clean the flat instead of just letting them handle it and take it out of the deposit? I'm not seeing one.
I feel pity for the poor Ukrainian woman who has to clean up the bonus hole soot stains.
There isn't anything else worth mentioning since the last "delete my gender because GDPR" cry for attention.
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Regarding the Olympic Troon smashing faces and aiming for gold, Breadtuber Shaun simply comes out and calls the women sore losers. Link / Archive
"Yeah but what about Michael Phelps?"
Ronda Rousey is known to have no punching game. There's a reason Amanda Nunes fucked her up in under a minute.
Certified Angel TM states it's just a cis woman, guys!
Oh my, surely this is an expert...
Ah. Figures.
As much as I despise Shaun, and firmly believe he needs to eat a brick, his supporters are just as retarded. Example.
"Males don't compete, individuals do"
Wow much intelligent
"He lost to six other females. You're just a sore loser."
This is what they told - and still tell - Riley Gaines. Just because Lia Thomas lost one match, he doesn't have any male advantage.
Ukraine pfp chastises women for getting upset:
I despise Breadtubers. TBD.
Final edit: Biden's Title IX changes go into effect today. What happened in the Olympics will come to a school near you.
"Yeah but what about Michael Phelps?"
Ronda Rousey is known to have no punching game. There's a reason Amanda Nunes fucked her up in under a minute.
Certified Angel TM states it's just a cis woman, guys!
Oh my, surely this is an expert...
As much as I despise Shaun, and firmly believe he needs to eat a brick, his supporters are just as retarded. Example.
"Males don't compete, individuals do"
Wow much intelligent
"He lost to six other females. You're just a sore loser."
This is what they told - and still tell - Riley Gaines. Just because Lia Thomas lost one match, he doesn't have any male advantage.
Ukraine pfp chastises women for getting upset:
I despise Breadtubers. TBD.
Final edit: Biden's Title IX changes go into effect today. What happened in the Olympics will come to a school near you.
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This explains why she was at DaddyLand, it all makes sense now.
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There's a Spanish saying/rhyme that goes "The monkey can wear silk, but it's still a monkey" (Aunque la mona se vista de seda, mona se queda). You can adorn something to make it look like something else, but it is what it is and you can't change it.
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Ovarit can be fun sometimes, one of those radfem grannies posted something like "male sexual interest has no value cause it's an unlimited resource" and it makes me laugh because it's true. TIMs are really attached to it because they're the ones producing it, so of course they wanna pitch it like it's not worthless to normals.