Yeh if she keeps asking to do shit together I'll keep making excuses and ignoring.
The kind of dude she wants to fuck would immediately blow her off rather than making excuses about how it would be impolite to bail on plans now, would cause awkwardness in the friend group, etc.
I grew up with my mother and other women in my life saying similar things when I was having girl trouble. "Oh don't worry, you're the kind of guy she'll end up marrying after she has her party phase". This was supposed to make me feel better, somehow.
She was 100% using you as a stop gap attention fulfiller. She probably knew the date thing would hurt and humiliate you, too.Gentlemen, I have once again been punked.
This woman I know from my social circle split with her boyfriend recently. Starts getting really friendly with me, heavy flirting constant messaging etc. Throws in some comments about not being ready and still needing time so I back off a bit. She leaves for a while to visit family in her hometown but still messaging and arranging shit for us to do when she's back, me being a naive tard I think things are still good.
Supposed to do something together this week so I message to see when we are meeting. "Hey, lets meet up at X. Sorry for delayed response, I was out on a date last night".
Bruh. Feelsbadman.
Was too late to cancel this week but I'm making up some bullshit excuse and bailing from the shit she wanted to drag me to next week.
I told my mother that in any and all circumstances that dad and her would be the most important people in my life precisely cause of this reason. She ofc went no no your prospective wife would be more important than us and I said this. She refused to accept it but I still think it's true, especially the under any circumstances part. Nobody except a parent will ever love somebody unconditionally and selflessly, they only usually do if they have something to gain. Even if your value is immensely less than zero, a parent is the only one who will still care.
Breast cancer is caused by BRCA1 and BRCA2 mutations and yet alcohol significantly increases the risk.
What does alcohol do? Sludge blood.Stress is another well known cause of hair loss.
What does stress do? Constrict blood vessels.You actually see plenty of young zoomers and women with beyond JUSTed hairlines nowadays, many of them were even mocked for that reason in this very thread. As for balding in men, it's not about it happening per se, but rather the rate at which it is happening. People have been dieing (dying? never know which form to use as an ESL nigger) from heart disease as long as they existed and yet the rate at which it is happening has increased by half over the course of 3 years. Certainly not due to cardi-ACK! genes becoming more widespread.
Modern day women don’t feel anything that happens to them is their fault or their responsibility to fix or make better. That sweet, sweet victim cred is more fulfilling than fixing whatever bats in the belfry they have going on. If they can’t be a victim then who are they? Most young women are more interested in making mental illness their identity and hope they can identify more illnesses and diagnoses like collecting Pokémon. Even conservative “badass” #girlbosses are obsessed with cultivating their mental illnesses and whatever they have going on. It’s really out of control but women aren’t allowed to feel bad about their life choices.
What if you're blood-related with you wife?
Every seat is a confession booth if you're feminine enough lol.
Very likely this. Women do this a lot with guys. Women want a man's attention without having to put out, so they keep a few guys on a leash to service that need. With guys, it just comes down to intentions. If it's not your intention to fuck the woman you're spending "quality time" with, then that's fine, I'd just recommend spending it with a guy instead. For a man, other men are far more fulfilling social partners. But if it is your intention to fuck her - you either got to close or cash out.
I don't blame you for being a naïve tard. I don't think it was that naïve either. It was perfectly natural. You like this chick, things coming together, you feel hopeful. These emotions are good. What you gotta learn is to hold on tightly and let go lightly. You let yourself love this woman, but the moment you whiff there's no deal - you drop it like a sack of bricks and walk. It's just learning to roll with the punches, so when you finally make a good deal, you aren't jaded, just realistic.Gentlemen, I have once again been punked.
This woman I know from my social circle split with her boyfriend recently. Starts getting really friendly with me, heavy flirting constant messaging etc. Throws in some comments about not being ready and still needing time so I back off a bit. She leaves for a while to visit family in her hometown but still messaging and arranging shit for us to do when she's back, me being a naive tard I think things are still good.
Supposed to do something together this week so I message to see when we are meeting. "Hey, lets meet up at X. Sorry for delayed response, I was out on a date last night".
Bruh. Feelsbadman.
Was too late to cancel this week but I'm making up some bullshit excuse and bailing from the shit she wanted to drag me to next week.
They 'ought to check the BMI because I swear fat bitches are neurotic as hell.
Funnily enough, this didn't immediately strike me as an insult. I assume when a woman marries a man, she intends to have that man's children - because in my mind there's no other point to marriage. I see that as the deepest complement between a man and a woman. "I love you so much I want to procreate with you." Become one in the produced children. However, if that's what she meant, she should have fucking said that. The men have the right reading here.I saw this making the rounds on X, and found the difference in interpretations between men and women very interesting:
Reminds me of how my mother always said the most important quality of a woman is intelligence. She is a very smart woman so it makes sense for her to think that. But living in the world, I quickly found that the most important quality of a woman is loyalty. The smartest, most beautiful woman in the world is no more valuable than the dumbest, dirtiest whore if she isn't loyal. You don't want her atrociously ugly. You don't want her clinically retarded. But you need her to be loyal for the relationship to mean anything. And one can only expect so much loyalty as is reciprocated.
That's because women feel entitled to getting to ride the cock carousel. Then, it's meant to be a virtuous thing when they settle down after having their fun with some boring guy who has to put in ten times the effort to get a third of what the men she let plow her in her twenties was getting.
Fixed.
Having too much adipose tissue flat out obliterates a normal hormone balance, on top of there being literal fat on the brain at the deathfat level.
Mine was the same way, but as I've come to learn in life, the most important thing in a woman is how she treats you and loyalty is part of that. Even more than body count, if she treats you like her king you're good as long as you can maintain that level of attraction. If she doesn't but you still like her, treat her like a "plate" and move on. Going back to beat the dead horse of my earlier point, a man's "job" is to be attractive enough to be fuckable, but a woman's job is to be relationship material. Maintaining the relationship is on her and you get to decide whether she's doing that or not.
