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- Aug 7, 2021
Maybe you just don't care for that particular book much and need to find the right one?Fellow married guys, homeowners, I need some advice.
I used to be a big reader and writer, it's what I even did for a job at one point. Basically I was always around books, and read about 200 per year. That was how life was from 18 to 30 or so.
Know how many books I've read this year? 0. None whatsoever. I started one a few months back, I'm maybe 20 pages in. It lies on my bedside table gathering dust lol.
Thing is, I just can't seem to find the mental energy to read these days. If I'm not doing 'outdoor' stuff or in the gym, I'm working on my house or doing stuff with the wife. By the time I get in bed, I'm just so fucking beat up I can't imagine doing some reading.
I miss it so much, but it's definitely something you need to get into a routine for.
For arguments sake, I am excluding any 'reading' I do in Wikipedia or other websites, news article, etc. Just physical books is my reference.
No matter how exhausted I get during the day, if I'm reading a book I find actually enjoyable, I'll squeeze in some time for it. If it's fun to read, it invigorates instead of taking energy away.
I've been pushed away from reading entirely because I got hung up on books that I just didn't find entertaining but felt like I "had" to read, so I'd end up reading nothing and doomscrolling instead. But if it's something that brings joy, you should be gravitating towards it, yknow.