Even though it's not a slur it's remarkable that both Nigger and No share the same power level. Both will drive people to tantrum, they'll froth at the mouth upon its utterance, they'll burn cities down over it. I know words have power and all that but I didn't think there would be such disproportionate power levels between them, it's just an n-word bro calm down.
I speculate that if average women faced rejection from men at the same rates as average men receiving rejections from women, the rates of anti-depressants usage would be higher (even higher than it already is). Also, the female suicide rate would also be significantly higher.
Women are blind to their position of privilege where they have the option of just existing and men would approach them for courtship. If out of necessity, women were forced to approach men they were interested in, there will be a lot more hurt feelings. We've already had a small taste of what might happen when a female fails in her approach: "how dare you reject a girl like me! wtf r u? a faggot?"
I would say it shows the power of baser instincts.
Here’s a parallel: it’s possible to be an obese nutritionist.
An obese female nutritionist. Many such cases.
A mentally ill female psychologist. Also many such cases.
I define “emotional intelligence” as being able to articulate one’s own internal emotional state. I’m aware that I have low emotional intelligence - I’m aware of this because I’ve had girlfriends bug me to tell them how I’m feeling and I literally don’t know. You might as well be asking me to diagnose a disease. I can feel the symptoms but I don’t have the words to diagnose it.
That is a fair definition of EI. Being able to articulate own's feelings and emotions while also able to figure out someone else's based on body language, eye contact, etc. But if that is the definition of EI we're working on, I don't think any sex has the monopoly on it. I think most males and females fail at having good EI and unless I see convincing and consistent research otherwise, I certainly don't think females have superior EI. At best, they have good internal EI, but fail when figuring out men (because they don't need to care about men's feelings).
To generalize, if men want to be romantically successful, they need to figure out themselves and their wants and needs, and they need to figure out women. Women, in general, are passive. All they have to do is exist and pick from the available men. For women to simply
understand men's perspective, is a laudable achievement.
To politicize it a bit, it's similar to how conservatives/right-wingers if faced with the opposing leftist side, the right/cons can accurately verbalize the opposing side's views and opinions. That's because more often than not, right-wingers expose themselves to outside opinions so they understand their opinions, even if they don't agree with it. In contrast, and I'm sure many of you have seen it yourselves, the left utterly fails at verbalizing the right's opinions accurately and without using strawmen arguments. This can be clearly explained by the culture of censorship of opposing opinions, not allowing debate (because the other side should not be platformed even in college campuses), and voluntarily avoids outgroup opinions. And as
@The Ugly One has pointed out multiple times, what is the demographic that consistently vote for retarded and destructive leftist policies? Women (and White liberal women in particular), but women in general.
is a good example of a male with high EI who does his best to understand (often accurately) the emotional states of both men and women.