@Wry
You don't seem to be taking into account
female dual mating strategy, aka,
Alpha fucks, Beta bucks. There's the ['Alpha'] guy that elicits genuine, primal desire from her, and then there's the ['Beta'] guy for whom she may eventually, grudgingly settle -
if she can't secure commitment from her first choice fuckboi,
and she's run out of other, better options (usually due to hitting, or nearing, The Wall).
Fuckboi Chad, being popular with the ladies, is unlikely to settle for just one foid because (by definition) he has plenty of other options. So, wahmens may want to marry him, but he - being spoilt for choice by an abundant buffet of available pussy - is going to be reluctant to marry at all. Point is, Chad doesn't need to marry (or be 'in a relationship') in order to access sex, but non-Chads generally have to put themselves through the grueling humiliation ritual of courtship in order to secure some kind of relationship (as well as provide something other than raw sexual charisma)
before being granted access to some hole.
Bitches will, under the right circumstances, jump on Chad's cock within five minutes of meeting him, and then, if they can, try to develop a more serious relationship from there. Whereas
the same sluts will keep hapless Backup Betaboy Bob waiting for five weeks, five months, five years (or forever) before he's
maybe rewarded with a passionless pity-fuck.
Ideally, wahmens
want to marry the sexually exciting, physically attractive, tall, good looking, dangerous badboy,
who's also faithful, financially responsible, good with children, and offers stability and security, but finding all these
contradictory qualities in one man is nigh on impossible. The first set of characteristics is fine
in the short term, whilst the second lot is more important (essential, even) for
longer term commitment/marriage. So, she'll have her short term fun with a series of sexy assholes, then, when she's ready to retire from the cock carousel (or is forced off it, since she's no longer hot enough to attract a steady supply of Chads) she'll look for a longer term mate who can provide something more than a big dick and shattering orgasms. She's already experienced plenty of those anyway, so cocksmanship is of little importance in her husband, and sex will therefore be a low priority in the marriage. Of course, she's not going to tell
him that - not until
after she has the ring on her finger.