I don't want to constantly shill my thread, but reading 1,000+ pages of Anisa and Ian's content has really put an interesting perspective I didn't have before as a casual poster here.
Anisa's influence on iDubbbz has been a massive downfall since they got together. I know, a shocking statement but hear me out. Anisa and Ian got together and maybe to Ian, Anisa was "the one". Ian lost his virginity to her, and considering Anisa's background, Anisa got him into some deviant shit while Ian was famous on YouTube.
I seriously cannot believe re-reading everything with full context that Ian just allowed this to happen. Either you are into humiliation, you love somebody so much you are willing to sacrifice your own dignity for it, or even you have such low self-esteem, that you allow this witch to destroy your life.
I don't want to make this entire post an anti-Anisa rant, but Ian has shown to me as well that he's not a good person. I agree that maybe the libtard talking points wouldn't be uttered by Ian, but sometimes I do sit here and wonder "What if they never met? Would Ian still be a cuck? Would Ian still defend Keffals and put on makeup for it?"
It makes you think
Putting on my internet psychologist hat for this, but I think Ian’s biggest tether to Anisa is defiance against the world/his old audience. He’s admitted he doesn’t like doing what people tell him to do and does not take constructive criticism. It seems as if the more the public, the world and even his inner self is screaming “this woman isn’t worth it” he just digs his heels in deeper to “own” the world. Ian has a terrible personality trait of never admitting fault. Even with his niggerfaggot apology, he doesn’t actually feel sorry (as he shouldn’t), he’s just saying that to try to be accepted by the group of “cool kids” that still will never let him sit with them at lunch. In this case of him being in the wrong, he committed to the wrong girl, allowed her to act retarded and stayed with her. He literally thinks people are actually upset they’re together when in reality most are laughing and there are others who genuinely just feel bad for him.
Ironically, the people who don’t give a shit at all are the people who consume their content and “yas queen” them both. If they were to announce they were getting divorced tomorrow, those people would yawn and go back to tweeting about how Donald Trump is going to rape every single woman and use Elon Musk’s money to blow up all the niggers.
I think Ian grew up with little to no parenting during his formative childhood years and he has a strange relationship with his parents, especially his dad since he was in prison when he was young. That’s why he was always hanging around train tracks alone, hanging out with weird kids as a child and adolescent. He was trying to latch on to anyone who would accept him.
I don’t think he was used to being pursued and when anisa, an “attractive” (in his eyes) girl who treats him as a God and fake laughs at every thing he says comes along simping for him he mistakes this as genuine love. I think he also thought she was a lot dumber than him so she would be easy to control. Even if he noticed she was still social climbing, he probably thought she could love him and do both with him in control of the relationship. I wouldn’t even be surprised if they had micro breakups/threats of breakups before the marriage at the beginning of their relationship from Ian’s end but they were never public because she at one time had to bend the knee to him.
He showed his dominance in the beginning with the Zoe thing, I’m sure there are several other things he said no to.
One thing I’ll never understand was the OF because that was the beginning of the downfall. Maybe he was naive enough to think no one would make fun of them and she’d just make a ton of money, maybe he was okay with men seeing his woman naked but despite the jokes I don’t think he’s actually a cuck or has a humiliation fetish and is very bothered by people making fun of them over it. Every moment after that I believe they’ve spent trauma bonding half the time while the other half is spent living in a cold, very limited or no sex, passionless, passive aggressive but also internally angry “marriage”.
If everyone stopped making fun of them and stopped paying attention I believe they’d split up. His whole career now is just how awful his wife is. So, of course he can’t let everyone win who thought he made a mistake getting with her in the first place. If they break up, he loses.
When everyone stops watching and making fun, that’s when it will be over. This isn’t an Ian simp post. He acts like a cunt and now he’s super-glued himself to one and if he wants to rip free anytime soon it’s going to hurt.
Sorry for the rant, you just got me thinking. I’ll feels myself out.
TLDR: Ian is still only with Anisa out of defiance to the public/his old audience.
